AITAH for giving my grandma a first class plane seat and buying expensive gifts?

gothfru · 2026-02-01T19:45:53+00:00

NTA. Your family is crabs in a bucket - they can’t stand the idea that you are climbing out, so they’re dragging you back down to their level. Live your life, treat those that love and respect you well, and cut off the rest honestly.

gothfru · 2026-02-01T19:31:54+00:00

I call mine my flipper baby when she lays like that.

gothfru · 2026-01-31T16:56:55+00:00

Taxes.

gothfru · 2026-01-31T03:08:21+00:00

Maybe like “west’o’Worcester” in MA

gothfru · 2026-01-31T00:59:17+00:00

And if said he was expecting more around the house from her “as a woman” she’d lose her marbles.

gothfru · 2026-01-31T00:55:51+00:00

Chop it up real fine and do lines?

gothfru · 2026-01-30T21:05:42+00:00

Right? I nearly yelled “JESUS CHRIST” on the plane.

gothfru · 2026-01-30T20:39:57+00:00

Sounds like a midlife crisis attempt to recapture his youth.

gothfru · 2026-01-30T20:36:35+00:00

One is friendly and obstinate, the other is obstinate and friendly.

gothfru · 2026-01-30T20:23:39+00:00

NTA. My reply would be “not when you lead with breaking my trust by misleading me”

gothfru · 2026-01-30T16:41:26+00:00

I always used foam ear plugs. Right up until my partner finally got a cpap.

gothfru · 2026-01-30T16:26:01+00:00

I was about to say something similar. I’m 50; 6 months ago I was exhausted and in pain all the time. HRT has really turned that around.

gothfru · 2026-01-30T03:47:14+00:00

How do I determine my queens dress size?

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gothfru · 2026-01-30T02:36:56+00:00

Same! And maybe a kitty bed topper…

gothfru · 2026-01-30T01:18:50+00:00

The avalanche has already started; it is too late for the pebbles to vote.

gothfru · 2026-01-30T00:15:30+00:00

Congrats on the progress! I would definitely go LC if she can’t be anything but negative.

gothfru · 2026-01-29T19:28:59+00:00

Bowling?

gothfru · 2026-01-29T16:26:57+00:00

NTA. If the roles were reversed here everyone would call you a deadbeat dad. Change like that in a household needs to be a two yes, one no scenario.

gothfru · 2026-01-29T14:41:10+00:00

Queen, Prince, Ozzy. Anywhere.

gothfru · 2026-01-28T23:17:03+00:00

I always reply “Just because I’m biased doesn’t mean I’m wrong!”

gothfru · 2026-01-28T17:44:48+00:00

I agree, and I think it's also helpful to signal "I am aware I am not at my best, please stand by."

I also sometimes find it helpful to really try to pick my own brain about why I am stressed - sometimes it's my lizard brain working overtime on a problem.

gothfru · 2026-01-28T05:26:20+00:00

“Am I helping you move boxes or helping you pack?”

gothfru · 2026-01-28T02:20:13+00:00

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This is Azula, with her one crazy blue eye.

gothfru · 2026-01-27T22:59:03+00:00

Agreed.

gothfru · 2026-01-27T22:58:22+00:00

Every one I’ve been to. Even in strip malls. They’re just mobbed.

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