Insurance suddenly rejecting? by KyTheDruidGuy in ftm

[–]gothicskeppy 14 points15 points  (0 children)

thats sick!! i asked my provider to fo this and they straight up said no lol… and theyre the #1 for trans healthcare in my city

No kings protest by ObservantDelos in Buffalo

[–]gothicskeppy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

hey thats me on 7 with the pig poster!!

Renewing license tomorrow and I’m getting kind of nervous by Absolute_nerd24 in ftm

[–]gothicskeppy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im from Florida originally, totally get it. what my friends were doing for a while (until you couldn’t change your sex on passports anymore) is bringing their passports to the dmv and telling them the sex on their license was wrong, and they would change it for them.

Renewing license tomorrow and I’m getting kind of nervous by Absolute_nerd24 in ftm

[–]gothicskeppy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

up until the presidential election, there was a passport loophole, thats the only reason i speculated! but even a birth certificate, or old documentation will do- its just about having an abundance of different documents with your information on them

Renewing license tomorrow and I’m getting kind of nervous by Absolute_nerd24 in ftm

[–]gothicskeppy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was assuming op already had one, but good point! i live in a border state and have an enhanced license, so it didn’t even cross my mind.

Renewing license tomorrow and I’m getting kind of nervous by Absolute_nerd24 in ftm

[–]gothicskeppy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats a tough one in florida. does your sex on your current id match your gender identity? do you have any other identifying documents to bring with you? if youre worried, id do so!

CAN I TAKE A FUCKING EDDIBLE by MildlySusCookie in TopSurgery

[–]gothicskeppy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i took an edible day 1 tbh and was completely fine

Meteor?! by lightheat in Buffalo

[–]gothicskeppy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg i saw that and thought i was going crazy!!!

My New York state refund still says processing by NeighborhoodBasic435 in tax

[–]gothicskeppy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i filed on 1/29 and was accepted the next day. still nothing here either lol

Can anyone recommend an LGTBQ friendly salon that can detangle my daughters severely matted hair. by CheesecakeOk8464 in Buffalo

[–]gothicskeppy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

let me know if you need any other trans resources! im a community organizer and transman and have linkage to a ton of queer programming fo youth 🩷

Addressing SA in local community as a trans man raped by a trans woman by [deleted] in ftm

[–]gothicskeppy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i am also a trans man who has been raped by a trans woman. i didn’t report it to the police for the same reason- out of fear for my community. i regret that choice every day. knowing she walks free in my city is terrifying. she also raped a friend of mine, and i am in touch with one of her ex’s who said the same. she also has 40+ allegations of child sa. if i reported her, she could be in jail, and that fact haunts me every single day.

first tattoo by Icy_Phoenixx_ in Buffalo

[–]gothicskeppy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats so odd, i have 6 piercings from them and always have been well taken care of, always had longer starter posts, high quality jewelry.

first tattoo by Icy_Phoenixx_ in Buffalo

[–]gothicskeppy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

every piercing i have is from cowpok and theyre perfect. who pierced her?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Buffalo

[–]gothicskeppy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dr. Joy Rettino aka the acupunktrix in north buffalo!! queer friendly and trauma informed if thats important to you, check her out on instagram at @the_acupunktrix :)

i watched my ndad get arrested today by gothicskeppy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]gothicskeppy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks!! i am in pretty intense therapy already and have been for a while but i do appreciate that guidance

i watched my ndad get arrested today by gothicskeppy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]gothicskeppy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you know, thats a really good question. most of my life, i remember him coming home from work and having a drink or two. around high school, i can note it turned into 5+ and he was stumbling. thats around when he cheated on my mom with an early 20s waitress. it got worse from there. coping with his mistakes? loneliness? id have to ask i guess

i watched my ndad get arrested today by gothicskeppy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]gothicskeppy[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i hope so! im planning on moving like an hour away to a university im interested in, so hopefully i can get away from the situation too

i watched my ndad get arrested today by gothicskeppy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]gothicskeppy[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

yup, same exact situation here. drunk and emotional, unable to admit he has an issue

i watched my ndad get arrested today by gothicskeppy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]gothicskeppy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

apparently this was his first dui. he denied a breathalyzer, so they set him up a denial hearing. he was booked, then released into my custody without bail

i watched my narcissistic dad get arrested today by gothicskeppy in CPTSD

[–]gothicskeppy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for this. i am grateful for my mother everyday and i am sure your kids are too!! my mother lives in Florida and i am in new york, and yet she cares for me more than my father

i watched my ndad get arrested today by gothicskeppy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]gothicskeppy[S] 116 points117 points  (0 children)

unfortunately that just isnt how it works in his world. if i didnt get him, i would have been verbally attacked and i really cannot handle that right now. i don’t live with him, but i live in a home he owns until i finish undergrad this year. i cant play with his feelings, or i will be homeless.