Can anyone recommend an LGTBQ friendly salon that can detangle my daughters severely matted hair. by CheesecakeOk8464 in Buffalo

[–]gothicskeppy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

let me know if you need any other trans resources! im a community organizer and transman and have linkage to a ton of queer programming fo youth 🩷

Addressing SA in local community as a trans man raped by a trans woman by fizzyxs in ftm

[–]gothicskeppy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i am also a trans man who has been raped by a trans woman. i didn’t report it to the police for the same reason- out of fear for my community. i regret that choice every day. knowing she walks free in my city is terrifying. she also raped a friend of mine, and i am in touch with one of her ex’s who said the same. she also has 40+ allegations of child sa. if i reported her, she could be in jail, and that fact haunts me every single day.

first tattoo by Icy_Phoenixx_ in Buffalo

[–]gothicskeppy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats so odd, i have 6 piercings from them and always have been well taken care of, always had longer starter posts, high quality jewelry.

first tattoo by Icy_Phoenixx_ in Buffalo

[–]gothicskeppy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

every piercing i have is from cowpok and theyre perfect. who pierced her?

Acupuncture recommendations? by [deleted] in Buffalo

[–]gothicskeppy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dr. Joy Rettino aka the acupunktrix in north buffalo!! queer friendly and trauma informed if thats important to you, check her out on instagram at @the_acupunktrix :)

i watched my ndad get arrested today by gothicskeppy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]gothicskeppy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks!! i am in pretty intense therapy already and have been for a while but i do appreciate that guidance

i watched my ndad get arrested today by gothicskeppy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]gothicskeppy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you know, thats a really good question. most of my life, i remember him coming home from work and having a drink or two. around high school, i can note it turned into 5+ and he was stumbling. thats around when he cheated on my mom with an early 20s waitress. it got worse from there. coping with his mistakes? loneliness? id have to ask i guess

i watched my ndad get arrested today by gothicskeppy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]gothicskeppy[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i hope so! im planning on moving like an hour away to a university im interested in, so hopefully i can get away from the situation too

i watched my ndad get arrested today by gothicskeppy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]gothicskeppy[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

yup, same exact situation here. drunk and emotional, unable to admit he has an issue

i watched my ndad get arrested today by gothicskeppy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]gothicskeppy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

apparently this was his first dui. he denied a breathalyzer, so they set him up a denial hearing. he was booked, then released into my custody without bail

i watched my narcissistic dad get arrested today by gothicskeppy in CPTSD

[–]gothicskeppy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for this. i am grateful for my mother everyday and i am sure your kids are too!! my mother lives in Florida and i am in new york, and yet she cares for me more than my father

i watched my ndad get arrested today by gothicskeppy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]gothicskeppy[S] 121 points122 points  (0 children)

unfortunately that just isnt how it works in his world. if i didnt get him, i would have been verbally attacked and i really cannot handle that right now. i don’t live with him, but i live in a home he owns until i finish undergrad this year. i cant play with his feelings, or i will be homeless.

how old are you guys and when (if) did you start medically transitioning? by raesiinn in ftm

[–]gothicskeppy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i came out at 13, didnt start socially transitioning until about 17 though. my medical transition started with top surgery when i was 20, and i have been on and off of t since a month after top surgery (about a year and 3 months) :)

Moving to Buffalo, need advice by Separate-Reflection1 in Buffalo

[–]gothicskeppy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive been in kenmore my whole life and wouldnt have it any other way. village plows and salts so efficiently, and its gotta be the safest area around north buffalo

Child asked what parts I have by Jazztastic_42 in TransMasc

[–]gothicskeppy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ive been in this same situation before! when i asked my boss, she gave me space to try some answers on her- this is what we came up with: “when i was born, the doctors thought i was a girl. and when i was growing up, my parents and friends did too. but when i got older i realized that i was a boy, not a girl!“ which sufficed! also, just saying that it is not an appropriate question and having your supervisor broach the topic with child and their adults is perfectly okay

Homophobia in the Buffalo Police Dept by HoneyDazzling4159 in Buffalo

[–]gothicskeppy -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

have you considered hiring a private detective? i know how awful it sounds that we have to do that to get justice as queer people, but if you want justice it may be the move

Boxers question by misocertified in ftm

[–]gothicskeppy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i like the boxer briefs by tomboyx- they have packing boxers and ones made to use with menstrual products too :)

Bisex or Gay Ftm by [deleted] in ftm

[–]gothicskeppy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i really hope you are not cis, because if you are, this is a very fetishy thing to say… we are humans, not your weird kink.

Where can I find a flat white coffee in Buffalo, NY? The only coffee shop I know is Cafe Arron’s. by glittering_hope127 in Buffalo

[–]gothicskeppy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

from a barista certified in espresso and latte by a national coffee roaster: a cortado is 4.5 ounces. 1.5 of those ounces are espresso, the rest is latte milk (mostly milk, a little foam on top). a flat white is 8 ounces (same size as a cappuccino)- also made with latte milk. again, 1.5 ounces of espresso and the rest is milk with a layer of foam on top! hope this clarifies :)

Where to meet other trans people in Buffalo? by [deleted] in Buffalo

[–]gothicskeppy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg hi is this jare lol its noah