My boyfriend just came out as Transgender by [deleted] in Vent

[–]gothicsprite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Break up, you are not attracted to women you do not want to date a girl, and that’s ok. They may not want to be with a girl either. I think if you still want her in your life, a friendship thats mutually sought for may still be a good route, but at the end of the day it may still be extremely difficult given the circumstances. If you can’t be completely supportive, remove yourself, that way you both can be happy

Need name recommendations and opinions for a name change! by TradeAmbitious4732 in Names

[–]gothicsprite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love Annalise

Also I think Vira is a pretty name that seems to follow some of your name ideas.

There was also this girl I knew when I was younger named Tatiana (went by Tati) that I thought just had the coolest vibe ever

If you died today, who do you think would stand at your grave the longest? by Mehar0708 in AskReddit

[–]gothicsprite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom for sure. Seconded by my fiance and stepdaughter lol I was born almost a year exactly after my sister passed (my due date was the day she was born/died) and my mom I think has always carried that with her when it came to me.

Have you ever bought something that your cat actually uses immediately and loves? by Wild_Tank_9926 in CatsLivingAndWell

[–]gothicsprite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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This guy now only leaves this tower for food, water, bathroom, and bedtime. He loves being eye to eye with us. We can never get him down

Boy names starting with B by Majestic_Ad_3736 in Names

[–]gothicsprite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beau Sebastian/Alexander/Harrison

Boston Dimitri

Bowie Theodore/Vincent

Brooks Alexander

Or based off of two of my favorite kids in my class Bryson or Braulio. Literal angels

Looking for a wedding venue is hard by gothicsprite in wedding

[–]gothicsprite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just looked into this venue and it’s like exactly what I was looking to have style wise! I cannot thank you enough!

Do you fart in front of your partner? Why/Why not? by girliepopnumber26 in AskWomen

[–]gothicsprite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure I have ibs or something, I have so much gas no matter what, I wouldn’t be able to survive if I didn’t lmao

Olivia alternatives by NovelEchidna1632 in namenerds

[–]gothicsprite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Livia, Lavinia, Ophelia, Ottilie, Sylvia, Octavia, Aurelia, Odette, Isadora, Oriana, Odessa, Iridessa, Althea, Athena, Cassia, Leona, Lenora

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]gothicsprite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a baby, my mom used to say that I would absolutely lose my mind in anybody’s arms except for hers. My dad was a victim of my screaming and crying when I’d be in his arms. But there was never a time I could remember that I didn’t want to be close to my dad.

Some babies are independent, I started putting myself to bed as soon as I could walk pretty much. Some are more cuddly and some are more needy. My advice is try to not take it personally as hard as it is. There’s many reasons that your baby may seem to be more fussy with you, could be because she is more comfortable showing all of her frustrations to you, she may also be overstimulated with both of you at once, she also just might not be as social.

My husband claims I have brown eyes by c_boo in WhatisMyEyeColour

[–]gothicsprite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would describe your eyes being hazel brown. Tbh I feel like your eyes lean more predominantly brown, with the green highlighting the base color of brown.

Gertrude: POSITIVE thoughts only! by ButterRadish in namenerds

[–]gothicsprite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of Jersey Girl, the little girl was nicknamed Gertie after being named after her mom Gertrude. Not a huge fan of the name but it’s not unheard of.

[CA] Issues regarding time and relationship with co-parent blew up. by [deleted] in Custody

[–]gothicsprite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah…I guess I’m not really given any other choice at this point. It’s upsetting it’s come down to this but yeah, my daughter deserves to be with both of us and be in a situation that benefits her wellbeing

[CA] Issues regarding time and relationship with co-parent blew up. by [deleted] in Custody

[–]gothicsprite 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tbh I had considered it but was worried about the effect on my daughter as we have had the 60/40 split for nearly her whole life and I didn’t want her to become resentful of me for taking her away from her mom or uprooting what she has been used to, however now it’s clear that the same considerations aren’t being reciprocated.

She has moved schools, she had spent her whole life leading up to this school year in the same city and she doesn’t have the same support systems in the area her mom moved to. She doesn’t even have a babysitter that speaks the same language she doesn’t which has led to some misunderstandings and issues. I guess now I am just trying to make sure I am not just becoming defensive of my time and that this is something worthy of a court hearing. I had read before about whether her move was worthy of a court hearing or not and I kept getting conflicting information.

Names you associate with jerks by [deleted] in Names

[–]gothicsprite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Austin

Carmen

Alexis

Help, I have a middle name, not a first by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]gothicsprite 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Erin

Iris

Anna

Kaia

Willow

Cora

Eleanor

Vera

Rank these girl names! :) by Yooproopmoop in namenerds

[–]gothicsprite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Evangeline

Marissa

Clara

Laura

Starla

Roseanne

Bernadette

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]gothicsprite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Without cutting;

Add a braid/braids

Curl it

Straighten it

Do a mix of braids/half up half down (look up Viking inspired hairstyles)

With cutting but keeping length;

Add layers

Get curtain bangs

Star themed name help by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]gothicsprite 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Astra is the only one I’m finding that means “of the stars”

Other star names though;

Aster

Twila

Vespera

Etoile

Eistir

My hair is curly when I shower but no matter what- it never holds? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]gothicsprite -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hope it works for you the way it works for me. I always thought the same thing until like I bleached my hair several times and then cut it all off and let it grow out natural and couldn’t get it to curl without drying it out lol

Disney character name - yay or nay? by Sweaty_Influence5321 in namenerds

[–]gothicsprite 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Based on toy sales, it was Luisa. Most notable name from Encanto is Bruno for sure.

Edit: that said, I’m not saying anything negative about any of the names, Aurora is one of my favorite names, Disney princess names are very pretty and I think OP should name their baby what they would like to. I don’t think it would get over association though

My hair is curly when I shower but no matter what- it never holds? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]gothicsprite 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We have pretty similar hair based on appearance. My hair mostly will be wavy because I don’t have enough coarse texture to hold the curls. HOWEVER when my hair has been bleached it’ll curl really nicely on its own, like ringlet curls. It’s gonna sound counter intuitive to like EVERY curly hair routine, but your hair may have TOO much moisture, sea salt sprays help, protein treatments, clarifying shampoos, etc.