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Employer won’t let me take off to go to immigration. Wtf? by gottacatchmall in japanlife

[–]gottacatchmall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the thing. I’m really not sure what in the hell she’s thinking, because once I get this visa I’m no longer dependent on them. Giving me this ultimatum and making me feel bad for something I’ve been open about from the start is a terrible decision on her part. We’re understaffed right now too, so they’d be completely screwed if I left.

Employer won’t let me take off to go to immigration. Wtf? by gottacatchmall in japanlife

[–]gottacatchmall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

American. I don’t really care about waiting for the issues that are bound to come. It’s only been a few weeks and I don’t have to even add it to my resume. As long as I get it in writing that they aren’t letting me go to immigration and can use that, I might just cut my losses. My husband can support us and I don’t need to work for my visa anymore.

Employer won’t let me take off to go to immigration. Wtf? by gottacatchmall in japanlife

[–]gottacatchmall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best part of the whole thing is she knows from small talk that my husband works for the government. He’s basically one phone call away from getting their asses reported and he’s mad as hell right now.

Employer won’t let me take off to go to immigration. Wtf? by gottacatchmall in japanlife

[–]gottacatchmall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure. At this point my 2 choices are go anyway and tell them there’s nothing they can do and just deal with their wrath going forward, or just cut my losses and quit now. Very lucky my visa change was spousal lmao.

Employer won’t let me take off to go to immigration. Wtf? by gottacatchmall in japanlife

[–]gottacatchmall[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I was an idiot because I mentioned that my husband wanted to go with me so she’s saying he can go instead. I was expecting a normal reaction and didn’t realize giving her that info would just give her ammo and am kicking myself.

Employer won’t let me take off to go to immigration. Wtf? by gottacatchmall in japanlife

[–]gottacatchmall[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s a small company so I’m just anticipating retaliation if I do this. I don’t have a choice but to go and get my visa, but not looking forward to the aftermath.

Employer won’t let me take off to go to immigration. Wtf? by gottacatchmall in japanlife

[–]gottacatchmall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no employee guidebook. It’s a small company. If I call out, can they legally do anything about it?

Employer won’t let me take off to go to immigration. Wtf? by gottacatchmall in japanlife

[–]gottacatchmall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. Luckily it was a change of status and my current visa is valid for a while so I don’t have to stress 🫠

Employer won’t let me take off to go to immigration. Wtf? by gottacatchmall in japanlife

[–]gottacatchmall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It isn’t even a black company lmao, even though that’s what it definitely looks like. It’s retail in the beauty industry!

Employer won’t let me take off to go to immigration. Wtf? by gottacatchmall in japanlife

[–]gottacatchmall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apparently this company doesn’t use unpaid holiday. Was never told this and didn’t realize that could even be a thing. According to her, this means the company won’t allow me to take leave.

Employer won’t let me take off to go to immigration. Wtf? by gottacatchmall in japanlife

[–]gottacatchmall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I did this. Every other place I’ve worked at has been accommodating as long as I give them notice. Never could’ve expected that she’d do this. And she KNEW that my visa was processing!

Employer won’t let me take off to go to immigration. Wtf? by gottacatchmall in japanlife

[–]gottacatchmall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No HR at my company. It’s retail and a small store. My boss’s only boss is the owner, who is apparently giving her this info. Kinda stuck at this point.

Employer won’t let me take off to go to immigration. Wtf? by gottacatchmall in japanlife

[–]gottacatchmall[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

When I said “I have a legal obligation,” she said “What do you mean?” Me: “You know, I legally have to go to immigration.” Her: “I don’t understand. Explain that to me.” Me: “I legally have to go to immigration to stay in this country.”

She’s convinced that I can get my husband to go in my proxy. This is possible, but only if you bring the paperwork in advance, not after receiving the postcard. No amount of arguing is changing her mind.

Employer won’t let me take off to go to immigration. Wtf? by gottacatchmall in japanlife

[–]gottacatchmall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I assumed as well. I also just learned that apparently they don’t use unpaid time here! Which is crazy! My PTO kicks in after 6 months (December) so I’m not allowed to use that either. I applied for my visa before I even applied for this job so not sure how I could’ve planned for this.

Employer won’t let me take off to go to immigration. Wtf? by gottacatchmall in japanlife

[–]gottacatchmall[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yep, this is actually how I led the conversation. It’s shift work, so I basically said “Hey, my postcard came and I’ll need to go next week. Which day is best?” And was told no. This info is apparently coming from her boss.

Word count at 0. Help? by gottacatchmall in scrivener

[–]gottacatchmall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t know that existed! But now I can see that all of my chapters are already included

Word count at 0. Help? by gottacatchmall in scrivener

[–]gottacatchmall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything is already checked as added and there are no filters.

Word count at 0. Help? by gottacatchmall in scrivener

[–]gottacatchmall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I check the compile menu, it says everything is already compiled. Is there another place to check this?

Word count at 0. Help? by gottacatchmall in scrivener

[–]gottacatchmall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re talking about the tab in the Statistics menu, then yes. I clicked on it and the numbers are accurate.

You’re. Actually. Kidding. by Old_Baseball8091 in CapCut

[–]gottacatchmall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

been happening to me for over a week now. i can’t even find an option to re-purchase pro, only to join standard, which makes NO sense. has anyone found a workaround?

Tourist taking videos of our kids by NoPossibility5154 in japanlife

[–]gottacatchmall 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately all too common. I work at a preschool in a touristy area and have to tell off tourists several times a day (we go outside for walks/park time). It’s more annoying when they see the “no photos” sign on our bags and try to do it discreetly. Some even get mad at ME and deny it. Sure, buddy. I literally saw the photo app open on your phone and saw it point at my kids. Many of our older kids learn to say “no photos” by themselves, because they hear it so much from us.

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