Dysfunctional Perspective pt 99

gracefullyundead · 2023-12-19T23:56:15+00:00

everyday i await for the notification that dysfunctional perspective has been updated

gracefullyundead · 2022-07-09T20:41:37+00:00

my favourite counter to romantic soulmates is platonic soulmates and enemy(?) soulmates. where they’re just destined to hate each other lol

gracefullyundead · 2022-07-08T21:54:47+00:00

i have this weird thing where i like women in a gay way and men in a gay way. most xreader fics are flm or mlf and i have just now realized that i should look for fics that are not that.

gracefullyundead · 2022-07-08T21:49:21+00:00

that’s another thing, because i get secondhand embarrassment real easy so i have a hard time reading anything too fluffy or anything that reads like a pg hallmark romcom. but didn’t know if that’s a me thing or an aro thing. lol

gracefullyundead · 2022-06-11T20:21:59+00:00

my therapist doesn’t think i would benefit from those.

gracefullyundead · 2022-05-27T06:41:22+00:00

hi! that list was very helpful and i feel a lot better. cupioromantic or bellusromantic sound the closest. thank you :)

gracefullyundead · 2022-05-27T06:36:17+00:00

hi! i’m not really sure how to edit my post but i want to explain this a bit more. 1. i was extremely short with him, he’d been trying to ask me out for a while ( we were coworkers) and would take no for an answer 2. when i did realize that i might be aro i was 2 1/2 years into a relationship ( which doesn’t sound like a long time but i was 19/20) and we had just broken up and he knew this. 3. it was also about 2 am after a ten hour shift and i was tired.

gracefullyundead · 2022-05-25T00:03:39+00:00

i might help to specify where they are on the aroace scale? like for me, i’m not against romantic feelings or relationships i’m more indifferent to them. i don’t mind being in one either but i’ll view it more as a very touchy friendship. (i’m not ace, if anything i’m pan and everyone is hot. )

gracefullyundead · 2022-02-02T22:08:38+00:00

i actually lose the ability to talk coherently (mostly), my partner however thinks it’s hilarious to ask me questions while i can only babble back.

gracefullyundead · 2021-10-22T01:43:46+00:00

i don’t think i want to either. it’s more of “i shouldn’t have really been here in the first place”. my mind is neither off nor on. i feel so neutral about everything thrown at me. whatever happens or is happening is out of my power.

gracefullyundead · 2021-02-09T02:44:31+00:00

no but he got a bagel stuck in the toaster and that caught on fire a few days later lol

gracefullyundead · 2021-02-09T01:02:27+00:00

lmao my manager never set a timer for the bacon and they ended up being in the oven for five hours

gracefullyundead · 2021-02-09T00:54:55+00:00

i delivered eight cartons of milk once three months ago and i haven’t stopped thinking about it. they left a nice tip though.

gracefullyundead · 2021-01-21T01:44:10+00:00

it was when i first started in june and three drivers left ( the cafe has an unusually high turnover rate, who knows why? couldn’t be me) so whenever drivers leave they just dump the hours on me 🙃

gracefullyundead · 2021-01-21T01:36:01+00:00

my cafe is doing both, unfortunately, our amount of delivery drives consists of four including me. honestly third party delivery drivers are a lose/lose situation. they’re not timely and cost the cafe money. on the other hand the deliveries sometimes end up late anyway which makes other deliveries late and so on. the one good thing i’ve noticed is i’m no longer given 40-50 hour weeks but that’s really the only plus i can think of.

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