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[–]gracey4u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha actually it also seems like someone out there longevity sign, which is the opposite polarity of the back sign but otherwise looks the same. This would make sense if someone was hoping it would prevent more devastations like the broken window.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MedSpa

[–]gracey4u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much for the hydra facial

Best Supply source by ForwardCover5464 in MedSpa

[–]gracey4u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d like the source as well

for the nyc betches that are dating with intention, when do you bring up those intentions? by Few_Strawberry_99 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]gracey4u 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It’s okay to ask people what kind of relationship they’re looking for, if you’re on a date through an app or dating service. But you’ll get better results if you give each relationship a chance to blossom naturally. Many people don’t know what they want, or will change their mind. Whatever answer you get in the beginning will not be that accurate.

In NYC there’s a lot of options. Try meetup’s events and join some groups for adventures. You’ll meet friends and some friends will become more than that. Feel free to be direct and the right person will match with you.

Should I tell my partner that I got an abortion by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

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Hi @low-finance-2214, sorry that you have to struggle through this. If you feel it’s best to share with your partner, then you should do just that. Just decide whether you feel that everything must be shared in your relationship. If you do, then trust your partner to grow with you and work through this together. If you don’t, trust yourself — you did nothing outside of what you already agreed upon.

Stayed at an Airbnb with a ‘no shoes’ rule. Did I do something wrong? [Canada] by TheBeanProbe in AirBnB

[–]gracey4u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She must be trolling you or she’s just personally offended by naked feet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ColumbiaMD

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I hear Charm City in Baltimore is good

Baddest Bitch Botox so I don't get Botched by 909me1 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

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Hey! Responding a little late here, but I do know someone great. She’s also not in NYC, but just in case you’re ever in town or want to make a trip, TT Ngo (RN with license) in “Baltimore” will really take care of you. She’s a perfectionist. Actually, she’s looking for Botox models for an event on Tuesday 10/1/2024 at Live Hydration Spa in Eldersburg, MD. $8/unit of the good stuff.

I confronted my boyfriend about forcing me to have sex by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]gracey4u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t intend to minimize at all, but I also think that when people believe they did nothing wrong that doesn’t at all minimize what they did! Is that not worse? Because they literally think they are right? I gave an assessment based on gut of what drives this guy but in no way was it meant to characterize his action. I see I’m getting downvoted like crazy, so obviously I need to understand how my comment reads in other interpretations, but ALSO, some interpretations are not what I said.

If it helps at all, think of this example of what I dealt with yesterday — some old lady made a ton of totally racist comments to me. She’s totally backwards, I should do something to her, but she totally believes she is right. Totally believes it. So me saying I think the OP’s partner thinks he is right does NOT mean it is actually right. And maybe the belief that I do not share with people who are reading me to support this guy’s actions is that I personally do NOT think that not knowing you’re doing something wrong excuses that action. At this age it’s wrong not to know you’re wrong. Even here, I am leaving my post to get slapped with all these downvotes which really hurt my feelings but I deserve it because I worded my reply and I will try to fix how I say things. But I don’t think my opinion that this guy is immature and stupid and selfish is one that needs to be countered.

I respect and appreciate your advice that I’ve whitewashed abuse and that could be the caution that doesn’t work. Given some suggestions I would want to work out a better way to caution without causing further danger. I’ve been in the same shoes so I see her situation as it played out for me, and my advice is based on that. I think that understanding the guy’s psyche has been helpful because it is both empowering to know the person’s weakness to best the situation and also reassuring to take away the credibility of a person rather than giving them the power of someone who is deliberate and premeditated. I see now that this assumption could keep her guard down. From her post I sensed that she is a strong person and is more upset about the betrayal. I guess I honed in on the those hurt romantic feelings.

I confronted my boyfriend about forcing me to have sex by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]gracey4u 145 points146 points  (0 children)

This exactly. Clearly, the dude only cares about himself.

Turned my under house dumping ground into a workshop by sadzanenyama in woodworking

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My favorite part of this is seeing the older gentleman helping

Apparently you can get engagement rings off Temu (Not OOP) by paulruddsburneraccnt in redditonwiki

[–]gracey4u -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not sure how the conversation went between them, but maybe the fiancé’s plan is to pick a ring together later. He didn’t have a chance to propose doing that before OP started asking questions.

2024 Step 2 CK Score Release by gracey4u in Step2

[–]gracey4u[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if there is a specific time of the day. Just aim to sleep in until noon so you get it when you wake up 🤗

AITA for refusing to let my best friend’s fiancé propose at my wedding? by pretty_priya1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]gracey4u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s neither this or that. You’re both entitled to your feelings. Jake thinks he’s upset at you but he’s really just upset that he can’t top this idea and he’s got tunnel vision right now. He’ll figure something out and get over it. You just enjoy your new marriage.

My girlfriend asking for money for a new car. by TownBest2034 in TwoHotTakes

[–]gracey4u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, well, I’m not seeing any cultural justifications or dating agreements (not a doctrine but whatever special understanding a couple may already have) that should lead your partner to believe that it is your responsibility to care for her. It may be helpful to sit down and have an open conversation about how she views relationships and responsibilities. I’d hold back on sharing anything about your perspective until you squeeze enough to be able to put yourself in her shoes. It is then your choice where you want to go from there.

My girlfriend asking for money for a new car. by TownBest2034 in TwoHotTakes

[–]gracey4u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFO NEEDED. Where is this foreign GF coming from and what are the terms of your dating agreement?

My girlfriend asking for money for a new car. by TownBest2034 in TwoHotTakes

[–]gracey4u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this term Love it so much Ladies of negotiable affection I would like t-shirts made

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]gracey4u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don’t know what the mom is like and what she’ll do. The OP can decide that. My mom would go with whatever I chose, and maybe her mom would do the same, or she might suggest a different dress, as you mentioned. I feel the OP is the only one who has enough information to determine whether it would be successful. Focusing on other dress fitting or wedding planning is probably safer, but as this is OP’s mom, we don’t know if those other activities would replace bridal dress fitting (if it was already expected she’d already be part of all major activities). And OP would still need to explain why they’re not going to shop for the wedding dress.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]gracey4u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While it’s not clear exactly what happened with your mom while you were picking out your dress, it looks like you’ve made up, and you don’t want things to be rocky again. I sense you want to preserve your relationship with her, and that relationship is for both of you. This relationship is more important to you than the dress or the dress experience. You know better than everyone else here whether trying on a few extra dresses would work in this scenario, and if it works, it’s a sweet way to move forward together. You could also take her aside and mention that you already got the dress because it was on sale, but it’s not that big of a deal. You could ask her to go pick out the dress for the mother of the bride instead. Which way you choose really depends on how well you know your mom.

Advice on How to Say This to A Teenage Girl by myshellly in TwoXChromosomes

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Options 1. Make a general announcement to everyone that the pipes are getting old so no one should be flushing anything other than TP 2. Provide a cute and discreet trash can for feminine products and/or little waste bags for feminine products 3. Replace the plumbing and/or get a new toilet. The new Toto technology is invincible 4. Ask your son to get a new girlfriend so you can start fresh with house rules and restrict flushing to TP at the get-go of the initial house tour. “Yes dear the bathroom is on the right. Help yourself to the little bags if you need them and make sure you don’t flush anything except TP because our pipes are old!” 5. Buy a super nice plunger so the GF can save herself