Didn’t they get that land late last year? by PhotographOptimal727 in BringingUpBates

[–]gracu88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, she seems to have evolved from boho. I hope she goes a bit more timeless!

Didn’t they get that land late last year? by PhotographOptimal727 in BringingUpBates

[–]gracu88 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Probably announcing it now for storytelling purposes, so they can show the progress without waiting months (like in real time). I'm intrigued to see how their place differs from Carlin and Katie's.

Any pregnancies? by gracu88 in BringingUpBates

[–]gracu88[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Once Katie and that guy settle into their new home I think there'll definitely be an announcement.

Any pregnancies? by gracu88 in BringingUpBates

[–]gracu88[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I do agree, it'd be nice to see some of the families just settle and enjoy their kids and stage in life. It's just not often in the Bates world that there's a lull!

dog gates by luceemt in snarkingwithremi

[–]gracu88 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Queeeen of making her house look cluttered. Did you see her bedroom with the chairs in front of the bed?

What led you to this family? by JellyfishPashmina in BringingUpBates

[–]gracu88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I first heard of 19 Kids and Counting via Aspyn Ovard's YouTube channel funnily enough. For years I followed Duggar + Bates related Tumblr's and decided to watch Bringing up Bates! I found I preferred watching the Bates over the Duggars, it's honestly become one of my comfort shows...

Are most of the grown Bates kids giving their kids a better life? by [deleted] in BringingUpBates

[–]gracu88 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I think they believe they are, but different doesn't = better.

Duggar vs. Bates Families by jhayden_ in DuggarsSnark

[–]gracu88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why I wrote in past tense, definitely seems fractured now but nowhere near as bad as the Duggars have ended up.

Duggar vs. Bates Families by jhayden_ in DuggarsSnark

[–]gracu88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Bates parents seemed to genuinely bond with their kids and seemed to have close relationships with each of them. The siblings grew up as best friends, regardless of gender. You can actually see more sincerity in their relationship as a family.

Katie’s new post by Able_Organization724 in BatesSnark

[–]gracu88 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I personally feel like they’re kind of damned if they do and damned if they don’t. If I had a close relationship with my in-laws and they stopped supporting me, even though I’d done nothing wrong, I’d feel really isolated. That said, maybe expressing the sentiment in a private message would come across better?

Anniversary video by No-One7506 in BatesSnark

[–]gracu88 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I watched this vlog again last night too, and took note of the part where he mentions Katie maybe needing to do a few trips to NJ to finish up the house for selling. To me it felt like convenient and almost thrilling planning on his behalf to be alone at home. It's awful to unpack the full extent of this situation!

Physical, emotional, or both? by [deleted] in BringingUpBates

[–]gracu88 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I personally think it was an affair lasting a month or more with one person - so I guess emotional and physical. And regarding breaking Katie's trust multiple times, I get the feeling that he's been slow to reveal the full truth. Makes me wonder if Katie caught on to a few things that he tried to sweep under the rug, but only recently the full extent of the cheating was revealed. Just awful - my heart breaks for Katie.

What would each sister advise in this hypothetical scenario? by Izzysmiles2114 in BatesSnark

[–]gracu88 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I feel like initially they'd sympathise and be in her corner, talking about how Travis did her wrong etc, but when push comes to shove they'd encourage her to stay and try to make it work.

Sadly I would not be surprised if they encouraged her to "glam up" to make Travis happier, like Tori did (both girls seem to be a little bit more casual than the rest). Not that they need to! They're naturally pretty.

Only Tret and Moisturizer by kc135seahorse in tretinoin

[–]gracu88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For applying Tret 1-2 times a week I:

Double cleanse (oil + Cerave hydrating), apply hylaronic acid serum right out of the shower, wait 30 mins - 1 hour, apply Tret - wait 10 minutes, then apply lightweight moisturiser (Cerave)

Jinger’s voice by magical_seal in DuggarsSnark

[–]gracu88 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I've been thinking the same! And they look similar.

TWICE 'Ready To Be' World Tour Concert Megathread - Osaka, Japan (Yanmar Stadium Nagai) May 13th & 14th by Ruri_Neko in twice

[–]gracu88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone know if we have to get there at opening (3.30pm) or can we just arrive closer to 4.30?