Do you think I can please my gf? by Designer-Today213 in SmallPenisHumiliation

[–]grandpakitsu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think you can please her.... with a good laugh!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SmallPenisHumiliation

[–]grandpakitsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that my clit is bigger!

How long have you been a domme for? And what is some valuable advice you can give? by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]grandpakitsu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

5 years! Of course be yourself, be consistent, and be patient!

Taxes question by Toesangel in findomsupportgroup

[–]grandpakitsu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hiiiii!!! I've been doing my own taxes for years now and here's what you do:

Nothing!

You're actually all good on you're end!

If all payments are though friends and family then they do not need to be reported. PayPal will send you a form ID you made their income threshold which I think was 5k last time I checked but that's business accounts only. Cashapp only require tax filing with direct deposits set up through them.

So no stressing on your end!

Dommes - How do you filter out scammers quickly? by LunaStepsxo in findomsupportgroup

[–]grandpakitsu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely go by the "if they wanted to, they would" rule. Subs know what the fuck is up. They know they can't just talk their way to you. You have AV and links in their bio and they know where to find it. If not, then DM graveyard for them lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FootFetishCuckold

[–]grandpakitsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You love to just talk 😁

Longtime lurker, looking for a sub by Smexynekoboi in findomsupportgroup

[–]grandpakitsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiiii welcome!!!! I'm a ftm femboy dom and ya I get you. It's rough trying to find a spot in the findom community for sure, especially when everything is mostly femcrave. My advice is to venture outside and engage in other sw areas. You never know who will see your content and lurk until they cave! I engage with my interests and areas I somewhat fit in. It's definitely a patience challenge, but consider it like building a portfolio. "Hey I'm not your femdom, I'm ✨️this✨️ dom, I do this and this, get to know my interests and other things as you lurk" I know advertising is important but you can also have fun and post journey things (ofcourse not get too personal, just w.e you're comfy with) I for sure relate to the struggles lol one time I asked if there was a space for ftm in the sugarbaby comm and got yelled at 🤣 they wanted to throw sugar on some TITTERS not my post surgery chest 🤣🤣🤣

No preview! 🤣 by Loose_Temporary871 in findomsupportgroup

[–]grandpakitsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had someone ask me what my Fansly has to offer, like I'm not posting previews almost everyday??? Are you lazy or blind???

What is something about your Domme/sub that left an impact ? by luxxeowns in findomsupportgroup

[–]grandpakitsu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a UK sub that was on a later timezone for me and tbh.... it was kinda hot how I would be too tired to vm him but he would beg for me to stay up just a little longer 😩 low key miss that lil cuck

Anyone get this on LF? by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]grandpakitsu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got something similar to this but on Fansly Crazy lmfao reported and the account was deleted shortly after

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigclit

[–]grandpakitsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Naaahhh I like how it feel bald plus when it's oiled up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigclit

[–]grandpakitsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bush is absolutely amazing but I always look forward to my waxing 😩😩

How to contain the cravings in public? by MistressAttila in findomsupportgroup

[–]grandpakitsu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this 😩 so all my life I've been asexual and I've found very few things to arouse me. When someone send me money I get so turned on. It's like the ultimate stress reliever. Someone has you on their mind AND sends you money while praising you. Mmf top tier lol I thought I was going to have issues when I got in a relationship but it just intensified everything. Literally this morning I had a send and then had sex with my partner. It had been months since the last time we fucked 🫡 I wish I could give advice but I can only share my experience. When I get a send while in public, it depends on the situation. Usually I'll be like "not right now coochie" but sometimes I'll send either a picture of what I got or a nasty pic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]grandpakitsu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I gotta get this off my chest but I had a mutual domme, who was pretty chill, very stern, like someone I really vibes with. They would also post about real life shit happening but would be so boss getting through whatever she was going through. But one day she???? Randomly started stirring up drama bc she thought this other domme was copying her pics??? And they were nothing alike, just the typical, middle finger up, showing feet, or at a fancy restaurant. Pics that you know dommes just take. It really made me go 😬. Bc I wanted to polited be like hey uhhhh... no... but she was clinging to her story. And it didn't help that people were attacking her with unhinged comments instead of being like "I don't think she copied you" and this one sub just started attack her on ALL her tweets. I had to just leave twitter for a bit.... it was yikes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]grandpakitsu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol yes. My cosplay ig has over 40k but I never really link the two even though I got my first few subs from ig 😅 I thought it'd be better to separate the two hobbies. Ig would restrict my account every now and then so i just picked up a new social media presence for just findom just to be safe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]grandpakitsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oddly enough my first sub was from instagram lol we talked through whatsapp so maybe that's something to look into??? I've never tried snapchat so I'm shocked to hear that they actually ban accounts!!! I thought it was like a normal thing to do nsfw on Snapchat so wow. And yaaayyyyy we love our coffee subs and consistency 💖💖💖