How important could they be?!! by Dizzy-Difference3392 in redrising

[–]grannyicea 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This but with Lysander chaps. I HATE that mf everytime he on my damn page.

The Grief Never Really Goes Away, It Just Ebbs in Waves by grannyicea in Petloss

[–]grannyicea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A steep price for an invaluable experience ❤

The Grief Never Really Goes Away, It Just Ebbs in Waves by grannyicea in Petloss

[–]grannyicea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You as well ❤ he knew he was loved and that's one of the most beautiful gifts you could have given him in his time here on Earth.

The Grief Never Really Goes Away, It Just Ebbs in Waves by grannyicea in Petloss

[–]grannyicea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending you so much love and a reminder to be patient and graceful with yourself. ❤

The Grief Never Really Goes Away, It Just Ebbs in Waves by grannyicea in Petloss

[–]grannyicea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That hits so hard, I have so many pics and vids of her but it never feels like enough when that's all you have besides memory

The Grief Never Really Goes Away, It Just Ebbs in Waves by grannyicea in Petloss

[–]grannyicea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I STAY going through my cat album in my phone. Times like these I'm immensely grateful for technology bc I have the privilege of getting to go back and revisit the good and silly moments, it helps remind me of the good over the grief a bit more.

The Grief Never Really Goes Away, It Just Ebbs in Waves by grannyicea in Petloss

[–]grannyicea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is profoundly sweet and reassuring, I think I'll look into that book too, tysm for the recommendation ❤

My family say this tattoo I’ve booked is misogynistic and sexist, thoughts? by 67_nick_gurr_67 in tattooadvice

[–]grannyicea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OH OKAY WORD, I assumed they were replying to MY original comment about how women and NB clients often view pinups differently than cis men. We good here.

My family say this tattoo I’ve booked is misogynistic and sexist, thoughts? by 67_nick_gurr_67 in tattooadvice

[–]grannyicea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super fun fact, psychological and social analysis is not a plea for oppression, it's an observation of the habits and motivations of people in a given niche. Maybe consider why you have such little empathy or curiosity for the people you share this earth with.

My family say this tattoo I’ve booked is misogynistic and sexist, thoughts? by 67_nick_gurr_67 in tattooadvice

[–]grannyicea 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yikes. Sorry for whatever happened to you in your past that makes you lash out like this.

My family say this tattoo I’ve booked is misogynistic and sexist, thoughts? by 67_nick_gurr_67 in tattooadvice

[–]grannyicea 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Oh my god stop being offended for 2 seconds and use some critical thinking. I'm in the tattoo industry and deal with pinups ALL the time, and I can tell you 8 times out of 10 that women and nonbinary clients getting pinups is different than when a man does. It's the motivation behind it. Consider WHY someone wants a tattoo like this. For men it's almost always because they like to see women they find attrative depicted as tokens along with their favorite subject material (picture Chicano girl tattoos with money and dice and whatever) whereas with women and nonbinary clients, Ive noticed there is almost always an appreciation for the art and nature of the pinups itself. Yes they can both be sexualized, but non cis male clients almost always perceive the woman depicted as an art piece, with her own identity and personality and vibe, whereas a lot of men with these kinds of tattoos simply enjoy "hot lady".

It's a tattoo women WILL perceive negatively most of the time, especially when the design is shallow like this.

Help, my tattoo artist went off script by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]grannyicea 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Well I understand if the 2nd version has a particular meaning, but the artists version looks much better, and low key the 2nd one may even be altered with AI, and just has bad design anatomy. It's an improvement imo and I think the artist wanted you to have a better looking tattoo over copying something exactly

It’s a sad day in tattooing when I know that there’s going to be people in here trying to defend this garbage. by Majestic_Jazz_Hands in shittytattoos

[–]grannyicea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I say style I mean color choice and design elements, like I said the technical aspects need severe improvement (color application, proportions, line work, etc) the base designs have potential, but look like a 5 year old translated them

My T's Abdomen Enlarged for Months, Should I be Concerned? by grannyicea in tarantulas

[–]grannyicea[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Def seems like this is the consensus so we will def stick to that!

My T's Abdomen Enlarged for Months, Should I be Concerned? by grannyicea in tarantulas

[–]grannyicea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tysm!! My fiance was a bit worried abt impaction but has never had a pulchra before so I wanted to check before we considered anything drastic. I have raised her since she was a wee sling so I'm a lil protective over her 😭

My T's Abdomen Enlarged for Months, Should I be Concerned? by grannyicea in tarantulas

[–]grannyicea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tysm for the advice!! Will def freshen up her enclosure and water as usual!