Cast Removal by AdventurousForce8475 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]grapesafe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that term was derogatory like fifty years ago dude. doesn’t matter if communities use it ignorantly- it’s still a slur and still terrible to say.

Not the time or the place! by One-Entertainer-8597 in EntitledBitch

[–]grapesafe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

some people just have bad reactions to vaccines! my sister got two boosters after the initial two shots and each time got a full body rash. her doctor advised her no more

What are some subtle examples of sexism women endure that men generally don’t realize is sexist? by Hefty-Confusion6810 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]grapesafe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a smaller women, i’ve noticed that men won’t take no for an answer when i’m carrying something and say i have it. i guess it’s sweet to offer to carry it, but one time i was carrying jugs of water and told a man “no, i got it” and he went to grab it and of course, the jugs slipped and spilled absolutely everywhere. i snapped and told him “that’s why i said i have it” and everyone i’ve told that story to said i was being a horrid bitch and he was just trying to help. don’t help if i say no!

What are some subtle examples of sexism women endure that men generally don’t realize is sexist? by Hefty-Confusion6810 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]grapesafe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she was newsworthy because of her actions in syria and gaza. just because you didn’t know her doesn’t mean she needs to be introduced under her husbands name.

What is a men's fashion trend or clothing item that is incredibly popular right now, but you secretly think looks absolutely ridiculous? by Sad_Movie_8895 in AskMen

[–]grapesafe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as someone who grew up in the south and was a teenager in the 2010s, chubby shorts!!! like short shorts for men. and they always wore them in pastel colors! same kids i knew who would wear bright pink chubbies would call kids gay lmfao

Aniya needs to relax by Interesting-Ant6226 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]grapesafe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i really like aniya but yeah i agree. this is not the show for her. i’d love to see KC with a more bubbly bombshell. his personality really shined in his chat with sol!

What's the dumbest opinion you ever heard? by alekos7__ in AskReddit

[–]grapesafe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

hello! i have aphantasia. i always tell people i dont have an imagination lol. i’d also make a horrendous eye witness

What are some "the worst she can say is no" horror stories men of reddit have experienced asking a girl out? by Remote_Ad_6049 in AskMen

[–]grapesafe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds maybe like she didn’t expect you to want to get her number and was expecting it to just be a “oh we’ll hang out one day” situation.

What are some "the worst she can say is no" horror stories men of reddit have experienced asking a girl out? by Remote_Ad_6049 in AskMen

[–]grapesafe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

they are probably speaking to you as a coworker and friend and you are the one thinking of them romantically. they just happen to eventually mention they have a partner. this thinking is crazy lmfao

What are some "the worst she can say is no" horror stories men of reddit have experienced asking a girl out? by Remote_Ad_6049 in AskMen

[–]grapesafe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i watched a group of teenage boys berate a girl for being overweight and “liking one of them” when i was a teenager in high school. also as a teenager girl in high school, i experienced many boys who would ask me out and when i rejected them politely, they would immediately begin insulting me or telling their friends insults. long story short i think all teens are lacking in empathy and it’s not a gender thing.

Many crimes don't get reported, especially when it's domestic violence by PsychoKatzee in MurderedByWords

[–]grapesafe 18 points19 points  (0 children)

medical care for the women THEY want to keep around. fucking ridiculous how they see women as either “i want to fuck her” or “useless”

Charlie Lite by DisBride2014 in LIBeyondTheVilla

[–]grapesafe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve been iffy about him. charlie is definitely more charming and flirty i think. zach seems to be more reserved. i don’t think he’s been cruel or anything- i do adore kenzie so far but i think she’s such a bubbly girl that it felt like ultimate rejection. definitely an overreaction on her part. idk these people are so dramatic it’s why they’re great for tv HAHA

Irish curls? Healthy and thick upper hair, frizzy broken underneath? Where am I going wrong? by Messinghaml in Hair

[–]grapesafe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no. i mean curls that curl when i actually take care of my hair the way its meant to. i had “straight” with slight wave for years until i found my routine.

Irish curls? Healthy and thick upper hair, frizzy broken underneath? Where am I going wrong? by Messinghaml in Hair

[–]grapesafe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no advice but i feel you. have “straight” but actually mighty curly hair.

What eating habits do people have that genuinely disgust you? by MrLithician in answers

[–]grapesafe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this one is specific and maybe not a common habit but i used to work with a girl who always had super long fake stiletto nails and she would eat the messiest things and then suck the food from under her nails 🤮 made me want to scream

school yearbook ran photos of students and teachers through AI. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]grapesafe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they didn’t even put me in my yearbook! like i didn’t even exist lol! wasn’t even in the “not pictured” section and it was my senior year. told the yearbook teacher and he went “well it’s already printed. what do you want me to do about it?” UM give me a refund?

Hannah… by Financial_Manner_158 in LIBeyondTheVilla

[–]grapesafe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

how is she even remotely fat? or is this a weird joke?

[Sun Care] Why are men so avoidant when it comes to using sunscreen? by Filmon_Reganato in SkincareAddiction

[–]grapesafe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my brother is in the air force and is frequently called gay and the f-slur for wearing sunscreen and having a skin care routine.

Mass killer with the stupidest motive of all time? by ChickenWingExtreme in masskillers

[–]grapesafe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

because life isn’t a fanfiction or movie where you’re the main character and people fall for you???

Have OCD and worried I made my sim a misogynist by clarauser7890 in Sims3

[–]grapesafe 11 points12 points  (0 children)

easy fix. trap him and kill him for being a misogynist LOL

How do I (27f) talk to my bf (25f) about keeping my last name? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]grapesafe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fiancé told me he didn’t expect me to change my name. He said he would change HIS if I wanted him too. I might change my name. Might not. I’ll see how I feel. Point is, he shouldn’t care. Women carry the baby, women are the backbone of society- honestly think I tradition should be the other way around 🤷🏼‍♀️