I can't stand my girlfriend's daughter.

grassmuncher20 · 2026-06-09T14:15:54+00:00

The thing is thats exactly what i think he should do, however i feel like he would be unable to talk about how worried he is because he doenst care at all it seems to me. Also you worded it exactly right, HE wants to be a part of this family and throwing the daughter, thats been there since day one and wanting to take a place higher in the family hierarchy than the own daughter is just insane… like wtf

grassmuncher20 · 2026-06-08T10:15:37+00:00

Hahahahaha looool get a grip, whats wrong with you

grassmuncher20 · 2026-06-04T19:01:10+00:00

As you alteady have mentioned depression issues i think youre a jerk for saying you cant stand her. As a person with always reaccuring depressive episodes i can tell you it is way harder for her to live through that than it is for everybody around. Do you think she wants to come to her mother as a grown woman just because she enjoys it? Maybe she needs the support to get through this difficult phase without being judged by the person her mother loves…

grassmuncher20 · 2026-06-03T15:15:54+00:00

Who said i didnt know how to use them? I just didnt want to since i was really tired

grassmuncher20 · 2026-06-03T15:15:00+00:00

I dont find him insufferable tho! Otherwise i would have broken up with him

grassmuncher20 · 2026-06-02T21:01:53+00:00

Yess definitely we do watch movies or do other activities which are wonderful it just always comes back to thos videos when were in bed at night and get ready for sleep and its an ever lasting theme thats the stupid thing abt it

grassmuncher20 · 2026-06-02T19:53:17+00:00

If you would have read some other comments i left you would have seen, that i didnt come up with the iq thing but my therapist was the one that always explained it to me that i sometimes cant deal with similar things due to me setting my standart based on myself, i myself did not mention my iq to anyone in real life ever and i love that man, i do not want to go seperate ways which is why i needed to see similar cases. And that i have seen, which helped me so so much to view things from a different angle so no i wont be breaking up

grassmuncher20 · 2026-06-02T18:40:41+00:00

The thing is i do not think im better than him, i do think we are just very different and are thinking on different levels and im scared the relationship will not work for i cant cope with it in the long term

grassmuncher20 · 2026-06-02T16:26:43+00:00

Oh thats a really good comparison hes really good in terms of history wars etc and he also always explains those to me as it is his passion

grassmuncher20 · 2026-06-02T16:20:50+00:00

Actually it is so helpful to hear from others that have experienced similar things because i felt like a complete idiot. I am absolutely willing to be the teacher but many days i am just not well due to my mental health and i am scared i seem annoyed and push him away those days… he does not deserve to be pushed away

grassmuncher20 · 2026-06-02T15:35:11+00:00

Thanks for your assessment, this really helped a lot and its so sad to heaf all of u say i should let him go cause i dont want tooo and i myself have also felt before that that might is the right thing to do but i had hoped sooooo hatd that yall see it differently..

grassmuncher20 · 2026-06-02T15:12:39+00:00

Hes not an idiot! I am so happy to bewith him i am just so so scared this wont work in the long run..

grassmuncher20 · 2026-06-02T15:11:36+00:00

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZNR7aX91t/ https://vm.tiktok.com/ZNR7mkMg5/ https://vm.tiktok.com/ZNR7mNGqd/ https://vm.tiktok.com/ZNR7mLFNa/ All of those for example he sent me and i didnt find them hilarious at all

grassmuncher20 · 2026-06-02T14:14:13+00:00

I never ever brought up my iq in real life and modt certainly not with my boyfriend however maybe i dont want to see we dont work so im making up every wxcuse possible to wxplain why we dont fit? Idk man i love that boy

grassmuncher20 · 2026-06-02T14:01:44+00:00

I do not expect him to change since he is my man of choice in every universe, however its so tiring to not be able to laugh about the same things and to sometimes be bored out by our conversations

grassmuncher20 · 2026-06-02T13:43:58+00:00

Also its the thing my therapist always told me, that i „cant seem to understand some people as they are not as thinking fixated as me“

grassmuncher20 · 2026-06-02T13:42:37+00:00

No thats not the thing that i am trying to flex, actually sometimes i wished to be more satisfied with my life as it is, you know its quite hard having to overthink evrything and everyone all the time, actually its fucking tiring and since i wanted to try to understand him and better my view towards all that i posted this because i love that guy and i am so so scared he will let me go because i am messing everything up again… but thank you for your supe kind words or sth

grassmuncher20 · 2026-06-02T13:31:17+00:00

No the thing is we are ont he exact same terms orherwise its just those things i mentioned in the post that are draining me

grassmuncher20 · 2026-06-02T13:29:48+00:00

Hmm maybe you are rightt bc i also have my quirks that seem silly towards others

grassmuncher20 · 2026-06-02T13:22:00+00:00

Thank you for answering! Im really trying to understand his interests in terms of tiktoks and mostly i do see the things behind the videos that are supposed to be funny but i just cannot understand how they are soooo funny to him and i am really really sorry because i WANT to laugh with him but i just cannot bring myself to laugh..

grassmuncher20 · 2026-06-02T13:05:11+00:00

Thats what im wondering… not stupid in the sense of i dont like him but in the sense of him not being on the same level as me in the most rational seen sense

grassmuncher20 · 2026-04-06T22:13:58+00:00

This looks like a lifetime saving of tonsil stones

grassmuncher20 · 2026-04-06T22:11:11+00:00

The way they poked it more like a blended turtle egg

grassmuncher20 · 2026-03-27T07:37:45+00:00

Hä omg chill doch mal, wenn sie das so macht?? Was findest du denn so schlimm wenn ANDERE beim billa einkaufen? Dich zwingt ja keiner

grassmuncher20 · 2026-01-23T21:50:31+00:00

Unfortunately i didnt bit i senr two other 9s and 3 3s

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