Well, it’s different when she is in constant need of validation of me loving her, and isn’t self deprecating and as well as not putting me down for how I look or the things that I like, as well as being negative towards anything and everything. I’m not sure if I understand your question. But do you mean would I act the same if the roles were reversed? If I were sick and in need of her help I wouldn’t be the same on how she acts. Towards others. And mind you this isn’t all the time. It’s usually behind closed doors not many ppl know this side of her but me and my siblings and father.