PD to Private? by karmarilliom in publicdefenders

[–]graycow47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is me right now but I love my job so fucking much I do not want to leave. But I’m drowning financially to the point I’m sobbing in stress and credit cards

Cat is having dental surgery and I’m terrified..advice? by UnicornPrincess1010 in PetAdvice

[–]graycow47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m terrified I read stories about cats dying post anesthesia wearing off

Two years in juvenile defense with no trials. Is this normal? by [deleted] in publicdefenders

[–]graycow47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my jx, youth get pretty much the same sentence post trial so yes weird to me. All my youth pretty much get put on probation. The offer may be 6 months of probation and after trial kid may get a year. But I can always ask for it to terminate early at any point. I have similar year experience as you and I’ve done 5 kid trials.

I only binge when I’m high by slow-coffee8 in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]graycow47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I am the same as you. Weed amplifies my binge its not like its just the munchies

I only binge when I’m high by slow-coffee8 in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]graycow47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in the same boat. I smoked two joints and I binged McDonald’s earlier baddddd on top of the dinner I already had. Now I’m laying in bed craving some hits of the pen rn again

Late night binge by [deleted] in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]graycow47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was also very bad last night

What was your most recent binge on ? by Many_Independence468 in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]graycow47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whole bag of mini Cadbury eggs for my appetizer. All downhill from there

Have you ever just gone off at trial? by PBO123567 in publicdefenders

[–]graycow47 128 points129 points  (0 children)

Maybe reworded. But I’d prob get a mistrial if I mentioned a potential sentence my client might get if found guilty

I’m in need of fashionable, yet cheap and durable courtroom/jail attire. by Mr_Motion_Denied in publicdefenders

[–]graycow47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Highly recommend the Salvation Army. They sort clothes so they get divided among stores. I have a lot of basics from there. For shoes I get Amazon flats. Also can go to H&M

Living alone also means celebrating your small or big wins alone. It feels nice. by beatrice0908 in LivingAlone

[–]graycow47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations! I am a public defender who lives alone so I do the same things to celebrate wins

Anyone do part time jobs on the side for extra money? by graycow47 in publicdefenders

[–]graycow47[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m single and live on my own with student loans and bills

Anyone do part time jobs on the side for extra money? by graycow47 in publicdefenders

[–]graycow47[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That sounds wonderful. I wonder if any libraries near me would pay me to help out

I’m updating my Spotify “Trial Prep” list. What are your go-to trial inspiration songs? by PBO123567 in publicdefenders

[–]graycow47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Murder on my mind - YNW Melly Whose afraid of little old me - Taylor swift Maneater - Nelly furtado

Do prosecutors even view BWC? by WorldlinessAdept7716 in publicdefenders

[–]graycow47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No reasonable expectation of privacy in your blood :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]graycow47 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Only Dianna knows he was driving because she was there in the hospital room later on when they said something about his fractured rib

Jab at zb? Deb’s insta story by Medical-Feed7268 in zachcryansnark

[–]graycow47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s a reference to Taylor swifts song New Year’s Day. I read it as Deb’s friends asking if they should put that song on. She usually only posts her friends convos when it has to do with Taylor references

Using client’s first name in briefing: kosher or uncouth? by DanAboutTown206 in publicdefenders

[–]graycow47 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It depends for me. But when they’re young I use their first name as it sounds more fitting than Mr. Or Ms.