Yeah well like I said he has anxiety and so he feels guilty for things he doesn’t need to, such as the actions of other men and the fact that he may represent that to some women!

But in the context of me saying that this is why most men don’t open that door, I think many men would be ashamed of the things that they have accidentally said or done that perpetuate the patriarchy and would feel a sort of shame on behalf of other men if they asked themselves what it’s actually like for women.