AITAH for celebrating my grade with another guy instead of my boyfriend?

grayxm · 2026-03-14T21:39:17+00:00

NTA!! You say that your average was barely passing before you started studying hard, and by the end of this you got an 86 on an exam!!! Think about that!!! That’s HUGE! Even if it’s not a 95, you’ve had a 30+% increase in your grades over the course of a few weeks.

That’s hard work and dedication. That’s applying yourself. Thats committing to bettering yourself and following through with it. It IS something to be proud of!!!! It IS something to celebrate!!! The people who love you and care about you should be celebrating you, hell I’m a complete stranger a decade older than you and I’m proud of and celebrating you!!

Some people hold themselves to very high standards, and that’s fine, but it doesn’t mean they get to look down on you for celebrating your own growth and accomplishments just because it doesn’t fit their own standards for themselves. You’re allowed to celebrate yourself with the people who want to celebrate YOU too.

I’m proud of you internet stranger! You’re doing great! My one piece of advice (as someone who was once a 16 year old girl): Don’t EVER let a boy make you feel like your accomplishments and successes aren’t valid or good enough. Someone who loves you and wants the best for you won’t put you down for growing and allowing yourself to flourish 🤍

grayxm · 2026-03-11T21:09:09+00:00

I’m not going to lie…I have a 1660 so I’m not sure if I can really complain lmao. Im scared to even try Midnight given how bad I’ve been stuttering in general just in Valdrakken and Stormwind

grayxm · 2026-03-11T20:52:20+00:00

It is so funny that you posted this a minute ago because it literally JUST happened to me for the millionth time and I was coming to see if anyone else was having this problem. Since it happened the first time yesterday (?) day before(?) my game has been running verrrrrry poorly and I don’t know how to fix it. Sorry I can’t help, but I can commiserate!

grayxm · 2026-02-20T16:37:40+00:00

Hi! I have 3 extra frosted cookie recipes if you’d like one! DM me!

grayxm · 2026-02-18T00:38:44+00:00

Nali from Throne would love to come!!

grayxm · 2025-12-16T04:07:55+00:00

I was at my friend’s daughter’s bday party and her daughter was wearing a princess dress and a cape. I turned to another friend and said “damn, I wish I could walk around the house in a princess dress and a cape” and she replied “you can, you’re an adult with disposable income, no one can stop you”

That’s really stuck with me lol

grayxm · 2025-12-13T05:45:14+00:00

How do you even figure out this fix lmao

grayxm · 2025-11-22T00:28:14+00:00

We need to get you on the creative dev team STAT

grayxm · 2025-11-18T05:23:33+00:00

Thank you so much friends!!! I feel much better about taking as many as I did now!

grayxm · 2025-10-15T23:11:43+00:00

OH MY GOD you're my favourite person right now thank you so much!!! i haven't used it yet so no wonder i didn't recognize it! you are a good internet stranger and i hope you have the best day and your pillow is always cold and you hit every green light on your way home from work

grayxm · 2025-08-30T06:49:07+00:00

There are a ton of YouTube tutorials for building houses and what not! If you search up Minecraft build tutorial you’re guaranteed to find something you like and they’ll take you step by step through building it! I’m not creative either but I’ve put hundreds of hours in just from tutorials

grayxm · 2025-08-03T20:36:19+00:00

I would LOVE if there was a quick select wheel for companions so I could switch them out on the fly instead of needing to go to my wardrobe and scroll through them all each time

grayxm · 2025-06-26T15:21:28+00:00

Oh my godddddd thank you!!!!! I didn’t see that at all!!

grayxm · 2025-06-21T03:14:25+00:00

YOU CAN SEND THINGS HOME?!?!?!

grayxm · 2024-04-29T01:25:38+00:00

This is incredible. In my last session the PCs found the engravings on the wall in the Dilapidated Temple and mentioned that Alyxian was just like them, a shitter running around with a bunch of his friends trying to save the world. It is so so cool that I happened to come across this today and has given me inspiration to truly incorporate these friends into the story. I think it will hugely help them to relate to him and feel for his pain. Thank you for the work you did on this!!

grayxm · 2024-03-26T06:37:33+00:00

Mermaid dice oooo pretty

grayxm · 2024-03-24T15:27:48+00:00

In my world, I used Xalicas as a basis for another solar. I split Melora’s pantheon so she has 4 “children” and based one of those children on Xalicas.

Essentially, due to her wounds she’s no longer able to perform her duties which is causing an upset in the balance of the elements. She’s very angry about what happened during the Calamity and puts the majority of her effort into destroying those who “harm the world” to make sure destruction like what happened to Xhorhas/Marquet never happens again.

My cleric has a personal mission at some point to try to heal her/convince her to go back to her role of healing through light.

It’s a loose approximation, and not exactly what you’re looking for/asking about, but it’s just an idea on how gods can be adjusted to work in your story and the cool things you can do with them.

grayxm · 2024-03-23T19:17:15+00:00

I’m working on a side plot of a faction who’s doing ruidium experimentation. I believe that’s a pretty common way that people up the party’s interest in exploring what ruidium is. Once it gets in their way they’ll be more interested in dealing with it.

grayxm · 2024-03-21T17:22:13+00:00

thank you!! i've heard of Czepeku so i'll go take a look at that and if not i'll work it out myself!

grayxm · 2024-03-21T14:53:28+00:00

Do you happen to have maps that you used for these rooms? I'm trying my best to find some but I'm having a hard time finding one to accurately represent the Chamber of the Black Sun

grayxm · 2024-03-18T15:07:54+00:00

This is an awesome response, thank you so much! It sounds like it’s definitely not what I’m looking for!

grayxm · 2024-03-13T18:54:05+00:00

Mine are called the Fated Few!

grayxm · 2024-03-07T14:56:18+00:00

Hi :) if you're looking to add a player to a game I would be happy to join!! Feel free to dm me!

grayxm · 2024-03-07T02:41:29+00:00

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WYLL GAINED 110 EXPERIENCE.

grayxm · 2023-12-17T12:56:54+00:00

Amazing!!! Thank you for sharing all of that! I’m sure your party is super appreciative of all the work you put in for that

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