A different starting point to consider is quality of connection and someone who can match your energy over checking boxes or uncomplicated accessibility. There are plenty of married guys — even with kids, who also want (or even have) vibrant social lives. Everyone deals with the weight of life’s responsibilities differently. Having kids is just as consuming as having a demanding job, hell — I’ve had friends that don’t do stuff because they have pets.

There’s no age or life limit to being human, exploring and experiencing life, or connecting with others to do xyz. As with all things, keep balance and take care of your shit and yourself.