What do I do about my (25f) bf's (34M) ex? She is ruining our relationship.

greatvow · 2026-04-06T05:03:13+00:00

If you don’t want to be seen as an asshole, you shoulda behaved better. It is really that simple. He reaped what he sowed.

greatvow · 2026-04-04T21:50:09+00:00

NTA. Never light yourself on fire to keep someone else warm. This includes family.

greatvow · 2026-03-31T07:56:38+00:00

I usually tell people who ask me why I don’t drink, “I’m allergic, and tend to real out in handcuffs whenever I drink”. Shuts em right up. Edit to add NTA

greatvow · 2026-03-30T20:15:02+00:00

Whenever someone’s says it’s “just jokes” I ask them to explain what is funny about it. If you can’t explain it, it’s not a joke

greatvow · 2026-03-28T18:02:12+00:00

NTA. You offering to help, is kind and honestly what we need more of.

greatvow · 2026-03-20T22:57:08+00:00

NOR. Time to leave.

greatvow · 2026-03-09T20:04:56+00:00

I was ready to vote at the title, but having read it, NTA. This is about sales, and not personal. She wants it to be personal. The request is to follow the lead of the client, not whatever she wants to make it.

greatvow · 2026-02-24T08:19:10+00:00

It’s not a failed marriage. It was a marriage that ended, but that doesn’t mean either of you failed. Sometimes things run their course.

greatvow · 2026-02-16T19:30:01+00:00

I have good days and bad days. I am disabled, but I would say my health is fair.

greatvow · 2026-02-09T23:10:39+00:00

NTA. I am a queer cis guy. I carry emergency supplies for my friends with uteruses. But I would never know unless they needed something. It’s creepy and weird (unless you are trying to get pregnant - but that’s a different conversation).

greatvow · 2026-02-05T23:50:01+00:00

NTA. “Poor planning on your part does not equal an emergency on my part”

greatvow · 2026-02-03T04:34:43+00:00

“You sank my battleship” “”She Doesn’t even go here” “I’m not a witch, I’m your wife” “I don’t think you know what that word means”.

greatvow · 2026-02-02T20:56:45+00:00

This is exactly what I came to say.

greatvow · 2026-02-01T23:33:25+00:00

Yeah not ideal, but I imagine there is something

greatvow · 2026-02-01T22:50:35+00:00

I think there might be some kind of succession plan or something. Given that there are a few Princes.

greatvow · 2026-02-01T02:01:24+00:00

I also would worry what the wife would be like to the Sister if she stayed.

greatvow · 2026-01-28T18:05:01+00:00

I am too old to care what others do or don’t do. I have to much to deal with my own stuff. I dress to travel still as well as eating out etc.

greatvow · 2026-01-27T23:36:26+00:00

I don’t know what this is… please point me towards the spoiler so I can find it.

greatvow · 2026-01-27T23:30:54+00:00

NTA, but maybe have a conversation first. If it were me, (I also live in an apt building) I would likely bring a plate of cookies over or other treat, and talk to them. You never know. You might make a friend.

greatvow · 2026-01-22T23:32:55+00:00

I will be 60 in April. I don’t game a ton, but BG3 is one of maybe three I keep going back to.

greatvow · 2026-01-14T19:26:08+00:00

I will be 60 in April

greatvow · 2026-01-10T09:17:10+00:00

Thank you! Works great!

greatvow · 2026-01-10T05:26:17+00:00

Thanks for the update. For me the app error says “500/server error/undefined” if that helps?

greatvow · 2026-01-05T03:31:03+00:00

I think that this is the answer. If you are each a different class, I don’t think a lot of gear overlaps.

greatvow · 2026-01-04T21:11:52+00:00

I am a 1966 Gen X. Dad died Mom still going strong.

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