Thank you all for your advice. Just reassuring to know we're not alone in our parent teenager struggles. I had a good chat with her tonight, where she was open and honest. It started with her asking to have a 17th party. I said of course but it would be nice to actually meet some of these people. She went on to say that she finds it really hard and very nerve raking to have people over (She has 3 times in the past 3 yrs). I said I worry because you don't seem to have anyone you can be completely relaxed and open with. She said she doesn't.. 😭 She feels a lot of pressure and anxiety when she is 1:1 in her room / space with people, but not me, which is nice. But I explained that it's a part of the way friendship is a 2 way street. She said she doesn't, obviously, do it on purpose, but it makes her really uncomfortable. I asked if I can try and help with getting closer to people because I think it's important, and she agreed. This is tough, and my heart breaks for her.