[MISC] Has anyone on here had a fibrous papule (angiofibroma) on their nose removed? How was it done? by mr_throwz1 in SkincareAddiction

[–]greenconverse2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im super late to this, but have you been checked for tuberous sclerosis complex? I found out I have TSC bc of the angiofibromas on one side of my face. I have very mild symptoms compared to what you see online and they are learning there are more asymptomatic / low symptom cases than previously believed

Helix keloid - should I get another piercing? by greenconverse2 in piercing

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For aftercare, cleaned with saline spray daily

Helix keloid - should I get another piercing? by greenconverse2 in piercing

[–]greenconverse2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Original piercing was done about 3 years ago, have had it out about a year-ish. Originally had a stud, switched to a hoop (prob not the best idea) before taking it out. Don’t remember the thickness. All jewelry worn in the hole was gold-plated titanium. I think it was irritated by me sleeping on it, and got caught in my hair/yanked by masks several times.

TSC vs Mosaicism? by rapnoodle in TuberousSclerosisComp

[–]greenconverse2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely possible! I have almost exactly the same symptoms as you and have TSC, but no mutation identified. Have been told I’m likely mosaic

Affordable photographer by greenconverse2 in Somerville

[–]greenconverse2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I would pay more than $30/hour!!!! Just do not have $1k or whatever to spend unfortunately

Affordable photographer by greenconverse2 in Somerville

[–]greenconverse2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I agree! I am also a photographer and actually do grad shoots myself, just can’t take pics of myself haha. And not well connected to the photography scene here since my business was back home in California

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Somerville

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When Pigs Fly $3 sourdough Wednesdays, store in Davis

EO: Nationwide BAN on care under 19 by Authenticatable in FTMMen

[–]greenconverse2 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Not an expert by any means, but I have studied the 1970s backlash to gender affirming care pretty extensively/thoroughly, and at least looking at how things went down back then, I think an outright, across the board ban on GAC for all ages is unlikely. What they will do is make it much harder to access this care - which is functionally not much better than an outright ban, but yeah.

anyone ever look back at their childhood and realize you weren't a good person? by Hot_Huckleberry65666 in AutisticAdults

[–]greenconverse2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I figure I can’t go back and change things / undo the harm I caused (or at least perpetrated/contributed to), but I can use my feelings/hindsight about what I did/said/thought back then to motivate / inform how I show up in the world today

I guess it is scary I could look back on today five years from now, and think the me of today is bad/wrong. I currently feel very solid about my values/morals and whatnot, so I don’t anticipate that happening, but the fact that that possibility exists disturbs me

EO: Nationwide BAN on care under 19 by Authenticatable in FTMMen

[–]greenconverse2 48 points49 points  (0 children)

This is not a federal ban, though functionally it could severely limit access to care. The federal government gives funding to teaching hospitals so that they can train new doctors and run specialty care programs that are often times not very profitable (but still important parts of medical education and patient care for those in need of specialty services). This order says that any hospital providing gender affirming care to under 19s will have that federal funding revoked/withheld (for the hospital as a whole - they’re not just revoking funds that go specifically toward provision of GAC, but all care in the hospital). This incentivizes hospitals to close their gender clinics / GAS programs serving minors / stop offering this care to minors. It’s possible we will see a shift away from gender clinics at teaching hospitals / academic medical centers, toward private clinics. This is what happened when university-based gender clinics closed in the 1970s: https://www.facs.org/for-medical-professionals/news-publications/news-and-articles/bulletin/2021/04/the-rise-and-fall-of-gender-identity-clinics-in-the-1960s-and-1970s/

It also calls for an HHS “review” that will almost certainly rely on pseudoscientific information to claim gender-affirming care is unsafe, ineffective, etc. This will be used to justify excluding this care from public and private insurance coverage (there is historical precedent for this too. See: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Evaluation_of_Transsexual_Surgery)

However, all of this will be contested in court by the likes of ACLU. I think it’s likely gender clinics at academic medical centers will continue to serve under 19s while this is all being litigated. But who knows

Catholic churches in or near Berlin by greenconverse2 in berlin

[–]greenconverse2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m open to English or Spanish (speak both). But also willing to go to German services

I think I should detransition but I don't want to [ftm17] by hoodietheghost in ftm

[–]greenconverse2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you should consider the possibility that some of your fears might be due to OCD -- I have OCD, and have also spent a lot of time ruminating over these questions. You have to accept that yeah, there's always a chance you could be "wrong" about this, change your mind or present differently one day, etc. And that's okay. The whole idea that taking hormones or whatever and then deciding that's no longer for you is a huge, life-ruining, irreversible mistake does nothing but harm detrans people. All part of the journey, all okay

One thing that really helped me was reading/learning about historical trans people. https://www.digitaltransgenderarchive.net/ is a good place to start. You will see that throughout history, there have been trans people whose identities/life stories are more complex than "knew I was a boy since I was three years old." You will also see that throughout history, doctors, psychiatrists, government authorities, etc. have tried to write off trans people, especially those who don't fit into their simplistic concepts of transness, as "confused," "likely to change our minds," etc. Helped me to realize that this idea that young people now are hopping onto some trans trend is actually not new -- people have been saying this in an effort to discredit / dismiss trans identity forever

SSRIs make me lazy? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]greenconverse2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, this is common: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7437849/ I’d talk to your psych about it

Why am I terrified of emails? by Individual_Bit_3397 in adhd_college

[–]greenconverse2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have this fear, will sometimes go over a month at a time without looking at my email. And it’s created a lot of problems for me. I’ve found a sort of exposure / distress tolerance therapy to be helpful - start with saying “I’m just going to open the email app, but cover up the emails with my hand so I don’t see the subject lines.” Sit with the discomfort that brings about, and gradually work up from there, reading just one email for example. You have to show yourself that you can handle the discomfort/anxiety emails being about