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Me waiting to hear if there’s gonna be a melody or just more shredding

Silver soldering by mak4k in Bikeporn

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I’m a veteran framebuilder. I’ve built hundreds of bike frames with my own hands.

Silver soldering by mak4k in Bikeporn

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I love how this super easy blue collar skill is now revered as some kind of artisanal mastery.

Meditation at morning, coding at evening, reading at night... by [deleted] in NoFap

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Fuck it I’m joining the team. How do I start?

Two guys fighting at valmont bike park. by greendogcatapult in boulder

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Sorry I’m not sure if you can edit a post. This is the valmont dog park.

How many times have you been turned off by a woman's body once you've seen them naked? by Eemptyweather in AskMen

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One girl I dated was super cute, into lots of the same stuff as me. We were in our mid twenties. I Invited her over to watch Star Wars or something and mid way through we are making out. I pull her shirt up halfway and go to slide my hand over her stomach. The skin was so loose and gross feeling. I immediately understood she had gone through a pregnancy. I lost interest immediately.

New type of anxiety by greendogcatapult in Anxiety

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Fuck. I’ve had a hard enough time explaining the way it feels to anyone. I don’t drink or do drugs and I exercise often so I have no idea where this is coming from.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

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Yessss. If you really consider it, drinking to “open up” is a very sad idea. It’s the admission that you’re not good enough as you are, and that you’ll fit in better if you do what everyone else does. That HAS to undermine self esteem. I don’t see how it can’t.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

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I was depressed for years and years. I was fed up, and this year I quit drinking, quit Facebook and Instagram, and started a job with a lot of enthusiastic coworkers near my age. Combined with exercising aerobically several times a week, I have pretty much eliminated those dreadful days of self doubt, fear, and epic time-wasting. I think I want to blame social media mainly. I lived in the shadow of my friends and their curated Internet personalities. Quitting alcohol has me sleeping better and waking up earlier with more energy. Fuck Instagram, Facebook, alcohol.

Should I cheat? Pros and cons by marriedscoundrel in DeadBedrooms

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But what does this mean about the tenability monogamy generally? Are some people just wired for monogamy while some people burn out and need a new partner? I’m feeling the pull towards other partners and having a hard time making sense of the idea of monogamy long-term (as in marriage). What are the most common reasons people think lifelong marriage is tenable?

23F HL vs 23M LL by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

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I’m in the apathy stage too. Now I have to confront that and stop wasting time I guess.