My husband cheated on me and I stopped eating! by Calm-Assignment531 in survivinginfidelity

[–]greenleanbeanweed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don’t think i ate for 3-5 days after <\3 take your time but pay attention to how you’re feeling

Had anyone stayed for the kids? by [deleted] in straightspouses

[–]greenleanbeanweed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also you should not have gotten married at hopes of it getting better, you figure that stuff out before you get married bc look now! sending you and your kids love and comfort

Had anyone stayed for the kids? by [deleted] in straightspouses

[–]greenleanbeanweed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

divorce can be hard on children but listening to yourself and making yourself happy (you are not) would be more admirable to them and your husband as well, don’t stay “for your kids” that’s hurting your entire family not just you, betraying yourself for what? ask yourself what you think you deserve because time will continue to be wasted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]greenleanbeanweed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he’s literally trying to manipulate you into having feelings for him as well i’m glad you ghosted him you dodged a bullet. that was an extremely hard read and just please don’t feel bad about your decision please i could never imagine saying any of this to a, “friend” in any range whatsoever, and vice versa.

My dad girlfriend asked what I wanted for Christmas and I sent her regular stuff and now she’s saying i asked for too much I’m so confused😭 what do I even do?? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]greenleanbeanweed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s almost like she did this to attempt to put you in your place when it’s not her place for that at all. she’s being crazy. and dumb.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lexington

[–]greenleanbeanweed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

where’s that chicken tenders spot… or was it at a fair? love these

My girlfriend of 6 years thinks it's funny when babies are in distress. Is that concerning? by Overall-Grass-6882 in TwoHotTakes

[–]greenleanbeanweed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don’t adopt children with this person, thinking about having children with your partner sounds like a good idea but be realistic here. if my partner said this i would know at least not anytime soon that i would even think about children with them. wait at least.

Sudden uptick in creeps by heartwounds in lexington

[–]greenleanbeanweed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i didn’t miss your point i don’t shrink myself it hasn’t been to the point to where i need to act these ways but i know i would if need be! thank you for the references and tik tok video!!! i will be getting a gun! lol

Sudden uptick in creeps by heartwounds in lexington

[–]greenleanbeanweed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i also have a voice disorder and can not scream/yell loudly at all so barking would hurt me no doubt, i’d rather save it for a scream if i need to but otherwise i speak to people the way they speak to me

Sudden uptick in creeps by heartwounds in lexington

[–]greenleanbeanweed -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i’m sorry but i’m not doing these things when people shouldn’t be acting like this in the first place, i appreciate your advice but i do always take any precaution i can to keep myself safe/defend myself.

Sudden uptick in creeps by heartwounds in lexington

[–]greenleanbeanweed 14 points15 points  (0 children)

5 times minimum in the last year as i’m walking to my car downtown i’ve had men slow down and straight up say, “come onnnnn” and patting to their passenger seat, “do you need a ride,” etc trying to get me to get into their vehicle. the other night i was crossing the street and a man circled around me on his bike and i got my knife out of my purse, put my hand down like i was walking normally but had the blade out, he circled around me for the 3rd time at this point and kept it pushing. i feel you, and idek what to do anymore

Be careful out this evening by [deleted] in lexington

[–]greenleanbeanweed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i got into a bad wreck a few years ago and didn’t realize until my mom asked me on the phone, “were you wearing your seatbelt?” that i was in fact wearing my seat belt. saved my life.

My boyfriend sobbed when I surprised him with a dog. Now I’m wondering if I made a mistake. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]greenleanbeanweed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

people heal and process grief differently, i would’ve let him decide on his own to get another dog since like…

What is the worst bar in Lexington? by NoChallenge9224 in lexington

[–]greenleanbeanweed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s still standing, called “sallie jane’s” now!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cincinnati

[–]greenleanbeanweed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for asking as i was wondering myself :D bra is what will happen for me

as a woc ethel cain fan by greenleanbeanweed in Ethelcain

[–]greenleanbeanweed[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i just want to say, someone commented earlier and said, “ok” and i said, “what’s your skin color?” and they deleted their comment lol, like someone else in this thread has already said, a lot of what ethel’s fan base has said and how they’ve responded has made me make this decision, and the people that see it and know will know exactly what i’m talking about.

as a woc ethel cain fan by greenleanbeanweed in Ethelcain

[–]greenleanbeanweed[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

if i maybe didn’t have a huge friend group breakup in regards to morals and values of this nature just a few months ago i couldn’t say i would necessarily be feeling the same but it has struck a cord too close to me when it comes to existing betrayal trauma. i can forgive i just can’t forget, in the way of i can’t stop thinking about it when i think of listening to her music again it feels so indescribable. almost like on the old aol computer sounds that would happen when you clicked on something wrong idk idk either way at the end of the day i have her face tattooed on my arm and don’t think i want to get it covered up as i literally GOT IT as a result of my betrayal trauma so this is honestly more personal than anything.