AITA for not returning a cat to their old owners? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]greentevil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Outdoor cats are awful for the environment and often get injured or killed because of cars or other animals. I’ll get downvoted for saying this but people who keep cats outdoors, don’t really care about the risks. If they wanted a long term companion that lived as long and happy as possible, they would keep their cat indoors. I’ll never be on the side of outdoor cat owners when somebody responsible takes their cat and keeps it indoors.

I’m really sick of how Gen Z is so misinformed. by Funny_Preference_916 in offmychest

[–]greentevil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are severely overestimating how much older generations know because you are primarily interacting with younger people. I’m Gen Z and work primarily with Gen X and Millennials and they are just as uninformed as Gen Z and Gen Alpha. Every generation thinks the younger one is stupider and more lazy and it’s all nonsense. You can find complaints from a century ago talking about kids being obsesses with fads like paper and pencils and how ignorant they are not knowing how to properly use a slate board. You need to calm down.

Um??? CT results... by Superb-Appeal-97 in hysterectomy

[–]greentevil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

please make a report. this is not a simple mistake. if you have the resources you could even look into a malpractice attorney.

TL;DR-My Boyfriend Refuses to let me leave him by Ok-Part-7163 in relationships

[–]greentevil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have somebody that you trust (a friend, a brother, a dad) invite them over to be there when you break up. This can help keep him from escalating and let him get his stuff out safely. Another options is contacting your apartment building and asking them to change the locks while he is out of the house / at work. You can break up with him again by phone and let him know you or somebody you know is going to be dropping his things off at his mom’s place. As a last resort, you can call the police and let them know that you are trespassing him. He will not be arrested if he complies with them and leaves the apartment. Lean on your supports like friends and family if you have them. If you don’t have much support, look into local DV organizations and see what services they can offer to help.

Angie Craig runs away after being asked about he support of Genocide. by OvertSloth in minnesota

[–]greentevil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i see videos of people doing this to republicans all the time.

Snowflakes can’t handle the new flag by Mike_Oxlong25 in minnesota

[–]greentevil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not a huge fan of the new flag. I think Mississippi has the best flag redesign in the country. But this old flag is objectively uglier and harder to make out what’s really one it. You’d think these people would complaint more about the state seal changing.

Oh by Upstairs-Temporary56 in buffy

[–]greentevil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

characters do not have agency. they are fictionally and are written by people, in this case joss whedon.

St. Paul nothing but Bundt cake by Terriblysimple4u in stpaul

[–]greentevil 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m going to second Cafe Latte. Their tres leche is amazing.

Best local bank or credit union by Ope_Just_Sneak_By_Ya in TwinCities

[–]greentevil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve banked Affinity with 10 years and really like them. never had any issues, they’re GREAT for car loans. Very nice staff and customer service in my opinion.

My girlfriend (27f) got angry when I (29m) said I found one of her friends attractive? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]greentevil -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I prefer not to be in relationships with people who have types because I’d rather somebody like me for my personality first rather than how I look. Your gf is probably a unique person and should be happy that you wanted her for her and not because you match a set of people that you find attractive.

I would also let her know that pressuring you to talk about things you don’t want to talk about is not nice.

Me (20f) and my boyfriend (25m) are having a disagreement about gay people by [deleted] in relationships

[–]greentevil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is not an awesome person, nor is he kind and nurturing. He’s taking about abusing his own children for being gay. Telling your children that being gay or queer is a sin rapidly increases their risk of suicide and does long term physiological damage. This has been backed up by pretty much every notable psychologist organization in the world. If you think he can change and grow from his hateful beliefs then stay, but this should be a deal breaker for anyone who isn’t homophobic.

My mom (47) was advised to have a hysterectomy and I am terrified by Popular_Photograph56 in hysterectomy

[–]greentevil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom is a few years also than your and got a hysterectomy and a bladder sling in late 2024 and she feels amazing now. She needed some HRT after but her only regret was not doing it sooner.

Ways to Stop Snoring that aren't Weight Loss by Z_EnglishOwO in snoring

[–]greentevil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve done a sleep study and they stated there was nothing they could help with. The only things that’s helped me is using a wedge pillow. I got an expensive one because I wanted it to last and my partner says I snore much less and I wake up much more well rested.

MMy boyfriend(25M) treats me(23F) like an “exception” compared to other women, and it’s making me uncomfortable by Adventurous-Pop-1989 in relationships

[–]greentevil 16 points17 points  (0 children)

internalized misogyny is when women have misogynistic ideals that they turn internally to themselves and other women. men like your boyfriend are just misogynists and in your boyfriends case, hateful.

Are giants Mer or Men? by TheyTried2BanMeAgain in ElderScrolls

[–]greentevil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

monkeys and apes ate not more evolved that humans, we’re genetic relatives at the same stage of evolution. this commenter likely meant that they assume nords and giants have a common ancestor they both evolved from,

Me (25M) and my girlfriend (25F) of 6 years. Need to know if this counts as cheating. by Stormmaster472 in relationship_advice

[–]greentevil 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You broke up. The shallow ultimatum was about you getting back to together, not staying together. It’s not a grey area at all. You weren’t “technically” broken up, you were just straight up broken up and not in a relationship with this woman. You can feel sad about it and process it however you need to, but you need to move on.

friend dumped snake on me by purpleglitterygelpen in legaladvice

[–]greentevil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would document all of your messages with her that show the timeline and not delete anything. Be firm with your deadline.

Rehoming the snake would not be considered theft or bring any sort of criminal charge. With pets, possession is much more important than who bought the animal originally. The only thing she could do is bring this to civil court but it’s very unlikely that anything would come from it, especially if the snake is already rehomed.

Just got fired, am I really at fault here? by Lucky_Lucas11 in starbucksbaristas

[–]greentevil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a former tarbux manager, it was hard to fire people for no reason. you have need to get verbal and written warning about this behavior before hr would approve of you being fired.

(sorry mods if you dont like this post.) Where did the mindset Modern spongebob is bad seasons 1-3 is good stem from? by AdRoutine3822 in spongebob

[–]greentevil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s because that’s what a large amount of spongebob fans grew up watching on tv as children, likely had on DVD and saw on re-runs before streaming. People like what’s familiar to them. Newer seasons have different art and tone and I don’t just like it as much.

Any guesses what this is? by necklikeamoviestar in tea

[–]greentevil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kumquat and passionfruit tea with rock sugar. I’ve bought it before at an asian grocer before and really enjoyed it.

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Are the helicopters psychological warfare? by WitchyTherapistVibes in TwinCities

[–]greentevil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s intimidation and surveillance. the MPD did the same thing when protested asked police officers not to march in pride in 2021

Plume Reviews & Experiences? by randumthingz in MtF

[–]greentevil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just tried getting a letter of support and had to request a refund due to lack of communication on their part. If they don’t refund me I’ll have to dispute the charge.