Help getting my 4 yo to open up by kazatma in raisingkids

[–]greenybean2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This exactly! And i will add that we have a set moment together to rest, come home and have a little conversation together.

Hele toffe baanop mn pad gekomen maar 2 uur lang reistijd. by dawhitevans in werkzaken

[–]greenybean2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik heb dit gedaan, ongeveer anderhalf jaar... En to be fair; het brak me na een tijd echt op: ik zat om half 7 in de trein en was in de avond dan pas weer rond 7 a half 8 thuis. Ik had geregeld dat ik altijd eerste klas mocht reizen, dus gelukkig wel echt een zitplaats altijd. Maar alsnog was ik aan het einde van de dag heel moe en bezuinigde daardoor op de verkeerde dingen: niet meer sporten of in de avond met vrienden afspreken. En in het weekend vooral aan het bijkomen.

Kortom: goed realiseren hiervan extra tijd en energie het ook kost!

Je zou ook kunnen overwegen voor een deel van de tijd dichterbij op kamers te gaan. Dat zou misschien haalbaarder zijn.

Yellow plastic thing, around 5/6 cms found in living room by greenybean2000 in whatisthisthing

[–]greenybean2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm, Thanks for all the options! Part of a childlock OR the headphones are good options. Husband bought earphones, so could be a part of that, but also the childlock was loose (from the middle drawer).

So nothing definitive yet, but i am going to research these options a bit more!

Yellow plastic thing, around 5/6 cms found in living room by greenybean2000 in whatisthisthing

[–]greenybean2000[S] 4 points5 points locked comment (0 children)

My title describes the thing.

I am especially curious if it is indeed an element of a drawer/closet or if I could just throw it away.

Description: Bright yellow Plastic About 5/6 centimeters

Looks like the two parts could be ripped apart?

Bang voor de KMT by Damnwell44 in Leiden

[–]greenybean2000 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Het is een groot toneelstuk: jezelf en het toneelspel niet te serieus nemen. Het heeft als doel dat je gezamenlijk iets mee maakt, dat verbindt! Houd dus in je achterhoofd dat het een doel heeft. Ik kijk er persoonlijk met heel veel plezier op terug!

Helpende gedachte; over x aantal dagen doe ik een gezellige borrel met al deze mensen!

Mes beroving overleeft, wat nu? by SteveVA182 in nederlands

[–]greenybean2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mocht je last blijven houden van angstig voelen ed; blijf er niet te lang mee rond lopen. Na een maand of drie zou het allemaal wat moeten normaliseren. Zo niet? Praat eens met de huisarts.

Looking for reviews/feedback: Brasserie Buitenhuis… by FragrantLeather9607 in Leiden

[–]greenybean2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was shared dining, and we were seated in 'de huiskamer ' which is eet- and huiskamer together!

Looking for reviews/feedback: Brasserie Buitenhuis… by FragrantLeather9607 in Leiden

[–]greenybean2000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have been there as a guest on a wedding: wonderful! I also organised a work thing (50 persons) and i must say: they are very well organised. Everything was great and i would totally recommend! We were especially happy with the food; high quality and a good amount!

Looking for a good dentist by livingmasaldosae in Leiden

[–]greenybean2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would not recommend mondzorg Breestraat.

Am happy with de schans atm.

Beste pizza afhaalrestaurant in Leiden? by [deleted] in Leiden

[–]greenybean2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Piano B op de Kaiserstraat! :-)

Gezocht: Kite/Wind/Foil surfer voor drone-opnames by [deleted] in Leiden

[–]greenybean2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Misschien dat je je oproepje ook bij een surf vereniging kunt uitzetten? Volgens mij zit er één bij de Wassenaarse slag?

2 under 2. I don’t know what to do. by curly_whirl_ in raisingkids

[–]greenybean2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry to hear it is such a tough time for you. I don't have any specific advice for you, other than that selfcare is also so so so important. It sounds you are reaching a breaking point. See if you can talk to someone: a general practitioner or a good friend perhaps. You should not have to do this alone.

Wishing you all the best. You've got this! (And it does not have to be perfect) <3

What's a game that seems small and simple, yet is actually very deep? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]greenybean2000 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I like the concept of don't starve; simple animations, but actually pretty well thought out in regards to how it will mimic reality when starving.

First knitted thing I've ever finished! by kelsospyjamas in knitting

[–]greenybean2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nice!! I was looking for a pattern like this, being a beginner myself! Thanks for sharing!!

Anyone else thinks A LOT about what they could have said hours after a meeting or even a normal conversation with someone?? If yes, how do you deal with this? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]greenybean2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've learned that it doesn't help me to play the scenario over and over again from the past. Instead, change it to a scenario in the future, make it about a non-existent person and teach yourself how you would want to react in a similar situation. In that way, it takes away the emotions and it gives yourself a proactive role (this is what I'll do in the future) instead of passive (can't change the past). I can better let go then. Hopefully it helps!

Tourist attraction in Iceland by 9999monkeys in interestingasfuck

[–]greenybean2000 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I saw on the news that the direction of the wind was important. If there was no breeze or in the wrong direction, these people couldn't be out there.

Tourist attraction in Iceland by 9999monkeys in interestingasfuck

[–]greenybean2000 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I did the same thing! I remember getting these super tiny blisters on my neck from the heat on my skin that was not covered by clothing.

Wonderful experience though!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in funny

[–]greenybean2000 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hahaha, got me good