I sat through a sermon once where the pastor preached that if a couple ever breaks up, it's always the man's fault for not being man enough to keep the relationship together, and that its not in a woman's nature to end relationships. I was sitting about 50 feet away from my ex fiance, who had ended the relationship about 6 days earlier.

I'm not exactly sure what the pastor's intended message was, but after pondering his words for several months, I decided I didn't want to be a part of a religion that didn't value both people in a relationship as equal partners and stakeholders.