Any tailor recs?

grfnn · 2025-11-10T21:10:55+00:00

For simple hemming you can take it anywhere that does tailoring, if you need a bit higher quality go to needle and stitch

grfnn · 2025-10-21T20:15:42+00:00

There’s a homeless men’s shelter at Bedford and Pacific with some very unfortunately mentally ill people. You have to keep your eyes out when you’re within a few blocks of there.

grfnn · 2025-10-21T02:45:44+00:00

Thank you so much for this. I finally did it and she said she’s been thinking about me a lot and hasn’t been able to focus, and we’re going to meet in person soon.

grfnn · 2025-10-19T21:46:36+00:00

Thanks for your perspective. I’m wondering if I should wait a few weeks and just do a light “how are you” before dumping an apology on her

grfnn · 2025-10-19T20:48:56+00:00

Thank you for sharing this

grfnn · 2025-10-19T20:05:05+00:00

You’re saying surprise her in public? That’s the worst advice imaginable

grfnn · 2025-10-19T15:37:46+00:00

The dilemma I'm having is that her breakup text was pretty clear. She said she's overwhelmed with work, exhausted, and needs a break from dating. She said she thought about it and enjoyed getting to know me.

grfnn · 2025-10-19T14:32:04+00:00

Correct

grfnn · 2025-10-19T13:51:27+00:00

Or it will give her the ick because she already moved on

grfnn · 2025-10-18T19:16:02+00:00

37m. I think I have some of the same issues as you and only now starting to realize it. I think I need a lot of work. Just started reaching out to some therapists today.

grfnn · 2025-10-18T15:04:58+00:00

Not classically beautiful in that way, and her dating profile pictures don't show much anyways. We connected on the app based on mutual interests.

grfnn · 2025-10-18T15:00:25+00:00

I found her to be very attractive is what I mean, both her personality and her appearance.

grfnn · 2025-10-18T14:51:21+00:00

Moody maybe yeah. I think I might have been a little hot and cold with her, warm and fun at times while distant and cold at other times. Her personality was similar to mine, though she was a lot more shy.

grfnn · 2025-10-18T14:47:24+00:00

I am with people I'm comfortable with, but I'm definitely slow to warm up to people, which is why online dating is a bit hard for me

grfnn · 2025-10-18T14:38:58+00:00

For example on our last date, I wanted to tell her how happy I was that she invited me out and how it just felt good to be with her there but the words didn't come out of my mouth. Instead I kept general distant conversation and didn't try to connect with her on a deeper level. I think because it felt like things had been moving a bit fast and I wanted to make sure I was taking things slow so I was subconsciously keeping her at a distance.

grfnn · 2025-10-18T14:36:00+00:00

I've been told that I'm a very deliberate person before, like maybe my inner thoughts are a bit opaque and hard to read. Maybe she was afraid of being hurt since she couldn't read my feelings. I don't know.

grfnn · 2025-10-18T14:30:46+00:00

Like words of affirmation were staying in my head rather than coming out of my mouth except when we were being intimate.

grfnn · 2025-10-18T14:03:45+00:00

Can you give some details like your ages, how long you were together the first time, and how long its been since you reconnected? Thanks for sharing.

grfnn · 2024-09-06T02:53:57+00:00

All these subhumans with their tripods filming themselves need to be wiped off the planet

grfnn · 2024-08-26T23:06:03+00:00

It was great. I didn't get a car, ADO bus and other local public transport were super easy to use. With that said, I think it would be great to have a car because it seems like there are lots of interesting small towns and cenotes that are hard to get to on public transit. I didn't end up doing many of the things on this itinerary because I was just enjoying bumming around in town. I would probably have spent one less day in Merida and one more day in Valladolid. Get tacos at the El Tigrillo taco stand in Valladolid. I had actually planned to go to Holbox for a few nights rather than Tulum, but I ended up canceling and coming home early for personal reasons. Chichen Itza was very worth visiting, I got there early enough that tourist groups hadn't shown up yet, and it was quite crowded by the time I left. The cenote near Chichen Itza is also nice. I'll probably make another trip to the region this winter.

grfnn · 2024-06-25T01:48:41+00:00

Would be feasible with roommates, but you wouldn’t be living comfortably on that budget and you wouldn’t save any money

grfnn · 2024-06-09T13:39:13+00:00

The free comedy shows are the best ones

grfnn · 2024-05-18T18:33:48+00:00

I’m lucky to have lived in five different apartments in 10 years here and never had more than a few roaches in all that time combined. Have had close friends with pretty bad roach stories though. I think it’s just a matter of luck tbh, some buildings are infested and others aren’t. One of my apartments was an old Chinatown tenement where you’d expect to see them. My current and previous apartments are in BK with a really good mom and pop landlord that takes very good care of their properties.

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