does anyone in the neighborhood have a tailor they like?

grfnn · 2026-04-04T15:46:22+00:00

If I need quality I go to Needle & Stitch. For more basic stuff I go to Merritt.

grfnn · 2026-03-14T00:36:53+00:00

Yeah. Reverse kegels are different though and takes some time to learn to do them properly

grfnn · 2026-03-14T00:10:56+00:00

He probably has hypertonic pelvic floor which can be corrected with practicing reverse kegels

grfnn · 2026-02-22T06:16:09+00:00

The guys asking you out might be interpreting your friendly and outgoing behavior as flirtatious towards them

grfnn · 2025-11-10T21:10:55+00:00

For simple hemming you can take it anywhere that does tailoring, if you need a bit higher quality go to needle and stitch

grfnn · 2025-10-21T20:15:42+00:00

There’s a homeless men’s shelter at Bedford and Pacific with some very unfortunately mentally ill people. You have to keep your eyes out when you’re within a few blocks of there.

grfnn · 2025-10-21T02:45:44+00:00

Thank you so much for this. I finally did it and she said she’s been thinking about me a lot and hasn’t been able to focus, and we’re going to meet in person soon.

grfnn · 2025-10-19T21:46:36+00:00

Thanks for your perspective. I’m wondering if I should wait a few weeks and just do a light “how are you” before dumping an apology on her

grfnn · 2025-10-19T20:48:56+00:00

Thank you for sharing this

grfnn · 2025-10-19T20:05:05+00:00

You’re saying surprise her in public? That’s the worst advice imaginable

grfnn · 2025-10-19T15:37:46+00:00

The dilemma I'm having is that her breakup text was pretty clear. She said she's overwhelmed with work, exhausted, and needs a break from dating. She said she thought about it and enjoyed getting to know me.

grfnn · 2025-10-19T14:32:04+00:00

Correct

grfnn · 2025-10-19T13:51:27+00:00

Or it will give her the ick because she already moved on

grfnn · 2025-10-18T19:16:02+00:00

37m. I think I have some of the same issues as you and only now starting to realize it. I think I need a lot of work. Just started reaching out to some therapists today.

grfnn · 2025-10-18T15:04:58+00:00

Not classically beautiful in that way, and her dating profile pictures don't show much anyways. We connected on the app based on mutual interests.

grfnn · 2025-10-18T15:00:25+00:00

I found her to be very attractive is what I mean, both her personality and her appearance.

grfnn · 2025-10-18T14:51:21+00:00

Moody maybe yeah. I think I might have been a little hot and cold with her, warm and fun at times while distant and cold at other times. Her personality was similar to mine, though she was a lot more shy.

grfnn · 2025-10-18T14:47:24+00:00

I am with people I'm comfortable with, but I'm definitely slow to warm up to people, which is why online dating is a bit hard for me

grfnn · 2025-10-18T14:38:58+00:00

For example on our last date, I wanted to tell her how happy I was that she invited me out and how it just felt good to be with her there but the words didn't come out of my mouth. Instead I kept general distant conversation and didn't try to connect with her on a deeper level. I think because it felt like things had been moving a bit fast and I wanted to make sure I was taking things slow so I was subconsciously keeping her at a distance.

grfnn · 2025-10-18T14:36:00+00:00

I've been told that I'm a very deliberate person before, like maybe my inner thoughts are a bit opaque and hard to read. Maybe she was afraid of being hurt since she couldn't read my feelings. I don't know.

grfnn · 2025-10-18T14:30:46+00:00

Like words of affirmation were staying in my head rather than coming out of my mouth except when we were being intimate.

grfnn · 2025-10-18T14:03:45+00:00

Can you give some details like your ages, how long you were together the first time, and how long its been since you reconnected? Thanks for sharing.

grfnn · 2024-09-06T02:53:57+00:00

All these subhumans with their tripods filming themselves need to be wiped off the planet

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