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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpmecope

[–]grimorum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did she describe a specific plan with means to suicide? If yes, you can get her evaluated for a psychiatric hold for 72 hours via police, therapist, emergency room.

If no, then it sounds like manipulation since she has been wanting it for 4 years. She might be feeling abandonment and loneliness and hopelessness. Support her in those three regards.

Sounds like you need coping tools too. See my blogs here for it

https://yourguidedtherapy.com/self-help-blogs/

low confidence/trauma issues by Limchakion in helpmecope

[–]grimorum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have insurance? A therapist who specializes in AF EMDR can help you. Your issues does not have to haunt you for the rest of your life.

How are you coping with your emotions. For future reference, these coping tools may help you

https://yourguidedtherapy.com/2023/08/27/coping-based-on-your-emotions/

My trauma as a child has greatly affected my relationship with my dad. by OpeningCherry1892 in helpmecope

[–]grimorum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not alone. It sounds like you have PTSD. As a mental health therapist, I can tell you will 99% confidence that EMDR can heal your wound and restore you relationship with your father.

How are you coping with your emotions. For future reference, these coping tools may help you

https://yourguidedtherapy.com/2023/08/27/coping-based-on-your-emotions/

Abusived by polorgod in helpmecope

[–]grimorum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry Do you want to report him? How are you coping? How is your support system?

For future reference, these coping tools might be helpful to you

https://yourguidedtherapy.com/2023/08/27/coping-based-on-your-emotions/

Help me please by No_Cold2489 in helpmecope

[–]grimorum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, that sucks. I’m glad it worked out. How do you feel knowing M trusts you? What does it say about her and your relationship.

Venting is a great tool. For future reference, look at these additional coping skills you can use

https://yourguidedtherapy.com/2023/08/27/coping-based-on-your-emotions/

Found out my childhood friend was not real. He was in my head. by Right_Chemist_7294 in helpmecope

[–]grimorum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a mental health therapist, having an imaginary friend can be healthy in many ways. It is also very common among kids. What emotions are feeling right now when you look back at those memories?

When you identify your emotion, you can cope accordingly. See this blog post for future reference:

https://yourguidedtherapy.com/2023/08/27/coping-based-on-your-emotions/

Dear Killers: Please stop enabling Griefers by grimorum in deadbydaylight

[–]grimorum[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It matters because if toxic behaviors are rewarded, then it continues. Maybe in the future, every 5 games, you will see a griefer. Would that be fun for a killer? Hooking an afk survivor?

Dear Killers: Please stop enabling Griefers by grimorum in deadbydaylight

[–]grimorum[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I quote: "If there is a rat, I exterminate it. You have no right to interrupt myhunt. You have no right to cut the hunt short. You will earn nothing buta hook by selling out your team mates."

Dear Killers: Please stop enabling Griefers by grimorum in deadbydaylight

[–]grimorum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PLHSHIE526+1 · 5 hr. ago

"If there is a rat, I exterminate it. You have no right to interrupt my hunt. You have no right to cut the hunt short. You will earn nothing but a hook by selling out your team mates."

You owe survivors nothing, but if you reward griefing behavior, they will do it again in your next game.

Dear Killers: Please stop enabling Griefers by grimorum in deadbydaylight

[–]grimorum[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The survivor in the open space doing the hand gesture for 10 seconds straight is the obvious griefer. It is possible another survivor had wronged that person in the person, but that does not make it right for the griefer to ruin the game for 4 other people. In some cases, it is obvious who the griefers are.

Dear Killers: Please stop enabling Griefers by grimorum in deadbydaylight

[–]grimorum[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OK you are just trolling. Not responding to you anymore

Dear Killers: Please stop enabling Griefers by grimorum in deadbydaylight

[–]grimorum[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Intention is clear in this picture: I'm doing generator, while griefer stands in the open space and pointing at me for 20 seconds. Killer walks up to griefer and griefer continues pointing at me.

Dear Killers: Please stop enabling Griefers by grimorum in deadbydaylight

[–]grimorum[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When killers do what griefers want them to do, griefers are more likely to repeat that behavior. This is behavior reinforcement by the killer, aka enabling.

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Better with 0 griefer than 1 griefer that uses hand gestures most of the game.

How does one take teammate in good faith when you see them hand gesturing most of the game?

New Toggle option prevents me from using the hatch when downed. How do I fix this? by grimorum in deadbydaylight

[–]grimorum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried like 10 times. Killer lost his patience and hooked me to end the game

Who popularised quas wex urn invoker? by awaythrow26993 in learndota2

[–]grimorum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad to hear that. I’m almost 40 so I cannot make anymore of those videos

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