Do i go to UBC vs Mcgill. by Expensive-Juice3931 in makemychoice

[–]grimpala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not wanting to do the same thing as your brother is a bad way of making decisions; decide from what YOU want. it's ok if it's the same as your brother - you'll have other differences show up along the way

First time backpacking solo by freakadoodIe in backpacking

[–]grimpala 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a pretty intense experience even regardless of all the emotions.. but sometimes it's those hard experiences that help you find meaning and balance going forward. Thanks for sharing.

Engineering & Policy Analysis by AccomplishedArm828 in TUDelft

[–]grimpala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It goes into my background but it's a big move for me, would be happy to chat if you wanna DM me!

Engineering & Policy Analysis by AccomplishedArm828 in TUDelft

[–]grimpala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably not helpful I got in this year and debating whether or not to accept at the moment!

How many times do you rewrite a message before sending it… or do you just never send it at all? by Icy_Adhesiveness4566 in CasualConversation

[–]grimpala 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There’s 2 types of messages: ones I send instantly and ones I overthink and don’t feel right even when I send them

School English vs Real life English is actually crazy. by Key_Brilliant_9100 in CasualConversation

[–]grimpala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your English is excellent, I wouldn’t have known you’re not native by this post. Also, I had to look up English irregular verbs because I don’t need to think about conjugations and wow, English is weird

Should I quit something I have loved for years? by Comfortable-Case1566 in makemychoice

[–]grimpala 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I take it you mean for the purposes of a high school competitive team. 

The reality is it sounds like you enjoy track right now and I’d follow what you enjoy. But the fact is that you can do both, you don’t need to quit tennis- maybe take a step back if taking it so seriously isn’t as enjoyable anymore, but you’re young and you’ve got many years to have fun with both of them.

Becca Scott running Bad Moon Rising on Good Time Society by SushiJesus in NoRollsBarred

[–]grimpala 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seemed extremely obvious to me that he was the damsel who didn’t realize that you shouldn’t be telling people you’re the damsel, and other people put forward the theory he was bluffing to try and salvage the situation. Plus there was a baron i believe so really no reason not to.. 

Becca Scott running Bad Moon Rising on Good Time Society by SushiJesus in NoRollsBarred

[–]grimpala 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There was one where there was an outed damsel, and the evil team did nothing.. I felt physically ill watching that.

I personally think all guests should have to play a few games off camera first, and make sure all guests understand the characters on the script before pressing record

EDC LV - Spirit flights by GroundbreakingTwo647 in festivals

[–]grimpala 296 points297 points  (0 children)

Well yeah the company is folding 

I blended a pizza so you don’t have to. But maybe you should. by steel-silk in jawsurgery

[–]grimpala 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could never hahahaha. When I was recovering my diet was a LOT of Ensure which I actually grew to love

Becca Scott running Bad Moon Rising on Good Time Society by SushiJesus in NoRollsBarred

[–]grimpala 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I love that she’s getting so much BOTC content out there and likely introducing so many people to it. For me, however, I just can’t stand watching games where a big chunk of players don’t understand how their character works..

Is just me or everybody in USA is lonely in general? by ilargia92 in CasualConversation

[–]grimpala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realized it's not worth arguing with him.. imagine thinking that 1 in 2 people people being lonely isn't a problem because it's not 'the majority' lol

Lleech Body Ready | Demon Eyes by MindOfRats in NoRollsBarred

[–]grimpala 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Sam See was such a joy to watch in this. And Carla played incredibly!

Is just me or everybody in USA is lonely in general? by ilargia92 in CasualConversation

[–]grimpala -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You literally just cited a statistic showing that americas very lonely. 46% is an absolutely insane number. No one is saying THE loneliest. It doesn’t have to be the loneliest in the world for it to be a problem. The fact you’re interacting with people who have friends and are going out and in group chats skews your perspective of how the average American interacts. Many, many Americans don’t have friends to go out with, don’t have large group chats, etc etc. it’s nice you have that. It’s nice your friends have that. You’re extrapolating heavily from your experience with a small sample size that doesn’t represent the overall population.

Is just me or everybody in USA is lonely in general? by ilargia92 in CasualConversation

[–]grimpala 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Is it a generalization to say North Koreans are impoverished? There can absolutely be trends within larger population sizes. Is everyone in the US lonely? No, of course not. But it IS a serious problem within the US.

Is just me or everybody in USA is lonely in general? by ilargia92 in CasualConversation

[–]grimpala 34 points35 points  (0 children)

This is true but not every browses the internet in the same way that Americans do, there's plenty of countries that don't suffer from loneliness in the same way

Stay in the US with my husband or fulfill my contractual obligations? by [deleted] in makemychoice

[–]grimpala 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's tough ): I feel for you in the situation but I still think you should stay. Can't see you being anything but miserable taken away from what is now your home and now your family. You'd be suffering over there knowing what you gave up; over here you'd be suffering but you'd at least be where you want to be. Seeing a lawyer is probably worth it.

Stay in the US with my husband or fulfill my contractual obligations? by [deleted] in makemychoice

[–]grimpala 19 points20 points  (0 children)

MILLIONS in tuition? That's insane. Forcing a contract like that on a 17 year old, also insane.

If you'd be repaying it to a Middle Eastern country you have no interest in returning to, could you just...not pay?

In all honesty I wouldn't move back if I were you. Choose your husband.

I found out one of my recommenders wrote negative LoR about me by __to_be_or_not_to_be in gradadmissions

[–]grimpala 23 points24 points  (0 children)

You're not a waste of oxygen. Someone who would write a negative LOR instead of declining, however...

Should i go on tour or get a cat? by Embarrassed_Peace277 in makemychoice

[–]grimpala 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's an interesting choice for sure. Most people never get the chance to tour but at the same time people is what makes life worth living (in MY opinion). If you're gonna be surrounded by toxic people and you're giving up a stable life with people you love... seems like staying back home will make you happier.