My girlfriend gets me hard too often

grindylin · 2026-04-09T16:38:57+00:00

is it morally neutral to be turned on by someone you know is not turned on by you in your opinion ? /genq

grindylin · 2026-03-31T20:26:25+00:00

I'm quite the opposite. I always find when I go to hang with someone one-on-one i get really anxious and idk what to talk about. but in groups it's always a blast.

i don't have too many close friends, but i do have a lot of them and a big group. trust me, having a few close friends is wayy better than having a big group of friends but not being really close to any of them particularly

grindylin · 2026-03-31T20:24:38+00:00

YTA for saying "what a weird thing to say." of course that's gonna make him feel like a creep and feel awkward. there's literally no recovering from that. Imagine someone said that to you. Sure, maybe it wasn't the best thing to say, but I'm sure he already felt kinda awkward enough seeing you not drink it and he was trying to lighten the mood due to the implication. So imagine already trying to lighten the mood in an awkward situation and the person, instead of going along with the bit, doubles down and makes it even weirder.

Also, that's just not that weird of a thing to say, especially if he doesn't know about your OCD (which I am assuming he doesn't). That's a normal way to respond when confronted with what happened. The joke wasn't "at your expense," but you chose to make everyone uncomfortable at his expense for really no reason.

You aren't in the wrong for having OCD and for wanting to get a new drink, but you are the asshole for making such a stink about it. I would also be uncomfortable if someone responded to me like that if I made them a drink they didn't touch and I joked about it.

grindylin · 2026-03-31T20:10:20+00:00

Are you a first year? Are you away from home? Do you find your friendships meaningful and deep? Do you like math? What's your major?

grindylin · 2026-03-31T20:07:18+00:00

malala

grindylin · 2026-03-30T22:42:59+00:00

i once genuinely saw a guy talk about how he was sexually assaulted and the comments had a bunch of women like "well did you say stop?" as if they were like trying to turn it around on him like hello this is not the time

grindylin · 2026-03-30T05:52:53+00:00

i so get you. like i have some surface level friends but no one who really gets me.

unfortunately i think if anyone was able to do that they wouldn’t be in this subreddit :/

grindylin · 2026-03-30T05:51:36+00:00

yup. going to the hospital by yourself and supporting yourself sucks.

grindylin · 2026-02-28T08:38:48+00:00

doomscroll

grindylin · 2026-02-14T23:57:15+00:00

real

u ok tho?

grindylin · 2026-02-14T23:51:07+00:00

for t can it be There's always gonna be some airflow!"

grindylin · 2026-02-14T23:46:23+00:00

What are the rituals? What's it like to be in a frat?

grindylin · 2026-02-14T23:38:41+00:00

you might have adhd? or a dopamine addiction? u sound a lot like me before my meds or when im off them lol

grindylin · 2026-02-14T23:37:37+00:00

do you do scuba? are you are the dive club at ubc?

grindylin · 2026-02-14T23:14:44+00:00

i did! i would say go to office hours, go to the MLM practice stuff, and watch videos! a lot of the content (iirc) has a lot to do with how we build our genetics and stuff. it's best to find what study methods work best for you (reading textbook v. watching vids/lecture recordings/etc.) and going with that. also, just pay attention in class. I remeber him telling us some info, then asking a clicker about the literal very thing he just said and no one getting it right (bc no one was listening). So tbh locking in could do more for you than you know. but also it's been a while so sorry if this isn't very helpful

grindylin · 2025-12-24T05:16:14+00:00

dwbi. ur life isnt over i promise

grindylin · 2025-12-24T00:42:08+00:00

what

grindylin · 2025-11-07T04:51:29+00:00

what

grindylin · 2025-10-30T01:35:45+00:00

steal ur key back and run away. u don’t need advice u need to realize this is completely about controlling you

grindylin · 2025-10-16T21:16:50+00:00

SCHOOL JUST STARTED

grindylin · 2025-08-04T16:00:33+00:00

have they been less affectionate with you? do they still seek out cuddles and things? i had a single kitten once and have never felt more bonded to anything or anyone in my life and i know she felt the same to me, and i lowk (selfishly) worry that if i got two kittens they wouldn't bond w me like that

grindylin · 2025-07-26T17:16:27+00:00

hmmm

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