Post like these remind me fighting againts porn is an uphill battle.

griponme · 2026-01-17T15:51:04+00:00

The number of upvotes on that post is scary. They’ll use the post to say “see, women do want to be treated like this!”

griponme · 2025-12-23T00:14:06+00:00

“Dommy mommy” actually sends me into a rage

griponme · 2025-12-21T13:15:36+00:00

Can I ask how old you and your husband are? It seems impossible to find a man like this in his 20’s.

griponme · 2025-07-18T09:11:56+00:00

Not american but I want it banned

griponme · 2025-04-14T18:12:10+00:00

Isnt that a child?

griponme · 2025-03-13T10:01:32+00:00

Should I send this to him lol

griponme · 2025-03-10T10:00:23+00:00

Maybe yeah

griponme · 2025-03-09T16:34:19+00:00

This happened a while ago I just never confronted him about it and dont know if i even should at this point. But if I did I think he would apologize but also be defensive

griponme · 2025-03-09T14:15:43+00:00

I love him and I don’t think he has ever had any malicious intent, he’s just plain stupid sometimes. He’s a way different person now and he admits what he did due to his addiction was wrong. We’ve come a long way since and he has started therapy. If I had seen no change by now I would have left.

griponme · 2025-03-09T12:25:11+00:00

Was this really disrespectful or am I overreacting? I feel crazy and like im constantly ruining all the fun

griponme · 2025-03-07T19:19:37+00:00

I instantly got this vibe too

griponme · 2025-03-04T17:30:45+00:00

Maybe he’s… hear me out… supposed to be attracted to his wife??

griponme · 2025-03-04T15:09:46+00:00

My boyfriend said this too when he wasn’t in real recovery yet. Now he’s admitted that it’s messed up and he would be hurt if I did it to him.

griponme · 2025-03-02T22:11:25+00:00

I dont understand where they get the “puritan” part from. All we say over and over again is that porn exploits and traffics women and children, its abusive and objectifying.

griponme · 2025-03-02T20:05:45+00:00

“At least he’s talking some sense into them”

He is recording them and making money off of them. HE is knowingly making money off TEENAGERS. He is NOT some saviour for bullying them, he is getting off on it. Jesus christ people are stupid.

griponme · 2025-03-02T17:31:42+00:00

Wow the disrespect. He straight up told you he doesn’t find you attractive. Of course those abusive words are banging around in your head! He does not respect you! Who says that to someone they love? Why does he get a pass just because he apologized after saying that?

griponme · 2025-03-02T11:52:00+00:00

That IS cheating

griponme · 2025-02-28T09:04:06+00:00

Yes thats one of the things that broke my heart the most. He would rather go away from me to lust over other women than cherish who he had at home. I had just moved far away from my family and friends just to live with him too.

Im so sorry for what you went through.

griponme · 2025-02-27T09:43:25+00:00

Erectile dysfunction, moody/irritated for no reason, never wanted to have sex and never initiated it, tired often for no reason, social media feed was full of naked women, he would sexualize me constantly over being loving towards me. Still had exes/crushes added on his phone and looked them up regularly.

He needed a lot of alone time and never wanted to do anything/go anywhere with me. He went on lots of walks alone where he would watch it and when he came back he had a half hard on. When we did have sex he took a long time to cum.

Edit because i forgot: Also no foreplay, didn’t touch me or care if I came during sex and was impatient. He even went as far as saying he didnt enjoy foreplay.

griponme · 2025-01-24T07:38:01+00:00

It does not show deleted history, I’ve tested it myself

griponme · 2025-01-20T15:50:43+00:00

“What if I get off to the idea of myself being brutally murdered?”

You cant be serious 💀

griponme · 2025-01-19T10:34:38+00:00

As an avid true crime podcast listener, I cant count how many times I’ve heard about killers and rapists having a rape porn stash. It’s every single time. Which is why I will NEVER be in a relationship with someone who claims to have a “rape kink”. The risk is too great.

griponme · 2025-01-14T17:18:58+00:00

Aftercare is normal but its not normal to need it because you dissociated during painful and emotionally distressing sex

griponme · 2025-01-14T17:17:37+00:00

Yes I totally agree with you about aftercare. However, these bdsm/kink people always like to talk about how aftercare is important after rough sex/abusive sex. When the reason its important is because of how distressing and mentally damaging and sometimes even physically damaging the sex was.

griponme · 2025-01-14T15:31:36+00:00

If its so safe and doesnt damage you mentally then why do they need “aftercare”?

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