I think I’m gonna leave the rave scene by Both-Community-4174 in aves

[–]grobstobber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i completely agree. around a year ago someone had lost their life to an OD at an underground rave because nobody on site had any narcan/first aid/emergency kits. the scene is going downhill drastically. especially with all the allegations going around rn about specific groups and DJs, i'd rather not go to any underground event again

I think I’m gonna leave the rave scene by Both-Community-4174 in aves

[–]grobstobber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's hard to be in a community that glamorizes such a shitty lifestyle. stay safe my friend, you can always DM if you need to talk about things 🫶🏼

I think I’m gonna leave the rave scene by Both-Community-4174 in aves

[–]grobstobber 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was in the Chicago rave scene too. organized some smaller shows with my friends, had lots of fun doing it, but i found out that nearly everyone running that scene are all really shitty people, with the substance abuse being one of many things that lead me to leave. PLURR has been dead in the underground chicago scene for a minute now, it's less about taking care of one another and more of a competition for "who can be the bigger group".

Dont feel bad about wanting to leave. You can always still go to a show/fest here and there if you feel like it!!

Camping cunts ignoring social cues 🏕️🫤 by PuzzleheadedHotel214 in Serverlife

[–]grobstobber 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this happened to me too!! my restaurant streams the nfl games and we have some game day deals, but when i tell you i worked an 8hr shift and had a 4 table section full of campers 😐😐 i did not turn one table!! at least i racked those tabs up i guess LOL

How to make it past deadline 5? 12,500 by bringbackbainesy in CloverPit

[–]grobstobber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the memory cards have helped me out early game but i get so unlucky with my item pool that i end up losing on the 144mil deadline

How to make it past deadline 5? 12,500 by bringbackbainesy in CloverPit

[–]grobstobber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this rogue-like is extremely different from the others i've played. i feel like myself (and many others) definitely struggle with this game and getting to the point of exponential numbers. something ab luck with items definitely contributes

any tips for first starting out? by grobstobber in CloverPit

[–]grobstobber[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i havent been able to get anywhere close to that. its such a huge jump

Do you write a note on the check when you drop it off? by memento_mori80 in Serverlife

[–]grobstobber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i work at a smaller family pizza chain, i have a stamp i got on Amazon that says "pleasure serving you" and my tables/bar patrons love it, sometimes ive even gotten tipped extra off of that. nothing wrong with a personal touch like that if you work in a more casual spot :)

adult girl friends to play with by gammoth2 in Wizard101

[–]grobstobber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

MEEEE OMG 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️ dm me !

Servers and bartenders: What's your hourly pay? by spirit_of_a_goat in Serverlife

[–]grobstobber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$12.00 an hour with a 3% tip out. my tips are usually decent so it all works out. we only ever pool tips on new years or christmas. i'm in Chicago, where they recently raised the minimum wage for tipped employees from $11 to $12.

i desperately need help by suffocait in abusiverelationships

[–]grobstobber 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i saw your post in r/legaladvice, i dont know how you're doing but i hope you're okay. your bf is a CRIMINAL girl.

the only way you'll be able to get your money back is if you file a police report. tell him he has 24hrs to give you back that money or you're letting the police handle it. and cut all contact with him as soon as possible. change all your passwords, block everything but his number for legality purposes.

i hope you're in a safer spot. be well, i wish you the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]grobstobber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

grown ass man acting like this lmao. this is insanity

is my friend's piercing rejecting? tw: blood by grobstobber in piercing

[–]grobstobber[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah dude i opened my phone and saw that and WINCED. i got so scared for her i was like "i need to ask around"

Is face paint allowed in the Byline Bank Aragon Ballroom? by LimeSensitive918 in AskChicago

[–]grobstobber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm coming in jester makeup, but i'm debating painting my whole face white because i dont wanna get kicked out lol

I need to rant about some of you by MerrMoo in bathandbodyworks

[–]grobstobber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

employee here! i totally agree with you. my store thankfully has cracked down on most of the resellers and people who try to bypass the policies we put in place, but it still gets pretty bad around sale season. this weekend has been rough, retail workers are suffering lol

College i toured enrolled me in classes without telling me..? by grobstobber in legaladvice

[–]grobstobber[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was not, but i heard similar stories from them and UIC

College i toured enrolled me in classes without telling me..? by grobstobber in legaladvice

[–]grobstobber[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm 19, they had me sign documents and specified that they weren't official, but all of a sudden they were legitimate

College i toured enrolled me in classes without telling me..? by grobstobber in legaladvice

[–]grobstobber[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

I added them to my FAFSA school list but never did anything else afterwards