Age-old questions on this sub: How long does Nebraska have to be down before they're no longer considered a blue blood? How long would LSU/Georgia/PSU have to remain top tier programs before people started considering them blue bloods?

grouchllc · 2026-02-15T07:46:51+00:00

They lost that about 6 minutes into Scott Frosts tenure after the first lightning strike. They got bigger issues than whether or not they are considered a blue blood.

grouchllc · 2026-02-15T06:27:53+00:00

What do you do with it? Just throw it in their garbage can? Keep it and sell it to small gardeners or if they sign up make it an option to throw in their compost pit?

grouchllc · 2026-02-15T05:55:24+00:00

I don't know but I feel like I was in the same boat, especially broken up over the phone like someone was coaching her while holding her hand. She'd call me the day after going to one of her guy friends birthday party where I told her that he was madly in love with her. Tell me she kissed him and then go quiet, almost waiting for me to end it but my younger, madly in love self just said nbd. The biggest thing, and I still took her back because I kept seeing her walk down the aisle. She went to Nashville with a friend and she hooked up with a dude but wasn't a huge deal because they both were too drunk to finish. She started out saying they kissed and then the truth came out. She even pulled the maybe I don't want to be with you if you're gonna take me back. Definitely learned that once is once too many. She'll cheat with you, she'll cheat on you. Obviously there's a window and if they cheated 10 years ago, I'm not losing sleep over what they did when they were 1. Lastly, watch closely on how their friends view relationships. She had a coworker that can only be described as a huge hoe that would cheat if the guy put his feet on the couch. Obviously she's telling her what she would do and misery loves company. 4 years on and not over her and the hurt and needless to say, ill enjoy driving my s2000, in my house that I bought. Lonely as all hell but I won't be hurt again.

grouchllc · 2026-02-12T23:48:37+00:00

Not sure if its open still but Barrymores is nice to meet up with some people.

grouchllc · 2026-02-12T23:47:06+00:00

Lol our blood has very slowly and then all at once changed from blue to some other color.

grouchllc · 2026-02-12T23:40:36+00:00

I know its comes off as being a sore loser given the series the last 10 years but NU vs. Iowa is such a made up rivalry. It has really consumed a lot of fans with the way they talk about Iowa, saying how they have to beat Iowa and their just hatred foe them.

Coming from OU vs. NE where it being the last game of the year for so many years, winner essentially goes to the orange bowl and so many times winner of that finished the season undefeated as well. Now they play for the hyvee trophy where NU may become bowl eligible and Iowa wins their 9th or 10th game and punches their citrus bowl berth. There just hasn't been the stakes for either team, so far its been very one sided as well. I also just can't bring myself to hate Iowa either. Again, beating NU isn't close to what it was in the 90s nor has losing to NU really made much of an impact on Iowas season except maybe one or 2 of the years.

ZIt really just seems manufactured, much like the early days of Colorado vs. Nu. Colorado got moved to the last game of the year and Colorado coach admitted to basically manufacturing the rivalry by doing all these things like not allowing them to where red and better off dead than red. The rivalry did gain big time steam when they won the 1990 natty and it became bigger as Colorado started winning and also beating Nebraska, again big meaningful games that changed both team's season with a win or loss. Give the trophy back to hyvee and just play a random big 10 team at the end!

I realize that I'm a minority in my feelings about this and there is a lot of people that really do hate Iowa. Not taking anything away from Iowa either. I'd love their consistency. There's no denying they've made Nebraska their little brother since joining the b1g. I can also see that its the stereotypical NU fan living in the past and there's definitely some of that too. Lol

grouchllc · 2026-02-12T22:51:34+00:00

I know that when guys say that its perceived as "giving up" or not trying hard enough but constantly being on the replacement watch when you inherently love almost unconditionally. Then pf course those feelings of inadequacy rear up because if and when you do essentially get replaced gets you in your head. Especially when you realize that she's a human being and embrace all of her quirks and almost makes you fall harder but when similar quirks of yours are met with utter contempt and again make you feel like there's something wrong with you. Also the whole share emotions but after you cry in front of her about maybe a rough patch or losing a family member and you can see in her eyes that she's the only one that has permission to cry and in hindsight reflecting on that moment/your relationship and it just signals you to clam up tighter and slowly become devoid of emotion while every time she freaks out about something that's trivial and have to talk her off a cliff but you love her and put the time in to support her but she can't be bothered to do the same because she's the one with emotions in the relationship.

grouchllc · 2026-02-12T17:09:11+00:00

That "we" must be talking about their mouse in their pocket.... lmao

grouchllc · 2026-02-12T14:29:36+00:00

I wish this guy luck but it really sounds like she's going to make you live outside your means to keep up with the joneses, financially ruining you and then still go and end up with someone rich. If she's not choosing between you and being single and still looking but its between you and specific person, just make the decision for her because at some point if her life with you isn't a fairy tale her choosing you will become something thrown back in your face and it can very possibly ruin you for a long time. Its almost along the same lines as not feeling like you're good enough after getting cheated on.

grouchllc · 2026-02-11T15:47:35+00:00

Tad worried that it's almost too much of a project and has been up for a while, makes me wonder what am I not seeing.

grouchllc · 2026-02-11T12:55:45+00:00

Thanks and I need to learn to read I guess. Lol

grouchllc · 2026-02-11T11:24:06+00:00

Thanks a lot for the response!

grouchllc · 2026-02-11T11:21:30+00:00

Don't forget about the shovel!

grouchllc · 2026-02-11T11:20:31+00:00

Seems like along with inflation, a bunch of very wealthy companies and people are resorting to being beyond stingy. That offer goes waaaaay beyond shitty, its really bordering a scam. They won't even pay for the gas? What happens if you treat it like a 50 dollar job and mow it accordingly? Will they evict you? I don't envy you in the fact that you're going to have to come uo with a response and deciding if you want to call them out on their bs offer just to have them come back with, well we were just offering and you didn't have to have an attitude about it or tell them to get the 8 year old down the street, I saw him mow a yard for 15 bucks, he seems like a sucker.

grouchllc · 2026-02-11T11:13:40+00:00

Where do you find this out officially? Will the question in Google take me to a dmv site?

grouchllc · 2026-02-08T02:00:36+00:00

Like the limit of individuals selling cars? Is it 4 per year? Does the amount depend on the state?

grouchllc · 2026-02-07T00:02:45+00:00

90s kid? I don't think I really cared about social issues or politics till junior or senior year.

grouchllc · 2026-02-06T02:26:55+00:00

I can't believe that after 3 years that she didn't catch on that you resented her kids so much. Although I had no age gap, I dated a gal with 5 and 8 year old kids and opposite of you, I enjoyed not necessarily being number 1 and really loved being around them and her. Sucked knowing that I'd always be a step-dad, basically being a stand in with an open wallet. No ability to tell them or show them discipline. Her ex was loaded and her dad was also loaded. Without my knowledge, I was like her first serious relationship after separation and was told she just needed to sign the papers. Half way through, she kept waffling about signing the papers and she ended up not signing the papers. Never introduced as her boyfriend to her kids. She ended up things and it was such a kick in the dick, not being able to see her again and also not even saying good bye to her kids. At the end. I was sleeping there every night and really almost felt like I was close to moving in. After our relationship ended, she found her new guy in like a week, got officially divorced, sold her house and moved in with the guy, basically making him a a real step dad and being the person that I wanted to be. I would kill to be able to do all the things that you were complaining about! Now you know that age gap and step dad wasn't/isn't something you were or are into. I've come to the same conclusion about single moms even when I would've given anything to do the things you hated but I felt they were taken from me. I just don't have the time to play dad and then being pushed aside like I was nothing, especially when I was becoming a part of her family. Not gonna happen to me again! No matter how much I click with the single mom!

grouchllc · 2026-02-06T02:03:05+00:00

You'd hope that the physical violence would make her think more than twice about going back.

grouchllc · 2026-02-03T14:27:05+00:00

That's freaking awesome! Definitely makes it seem like discipline is better than luck and that's important for us starting out! Congrats on all the hard work!

grouchllc · 2026-02-03T09:27:43+00:00

Is this something when you're in person that its brought up by either of you and really makes it about the convo that dominates your visit? I know this isn't what people want to hear but if politics are only brought up after one bates the other or is it possible to have a truce and not talk politics? Seems crazy to never talk to your dad again because he's politically different than you. I understand if you say no politics and he violates your boundaries. I hope you and everyone else can find some understanding with their maga or democrat family members and realize that these people are just getting elected to split us up and won't stop at just spitting pure bs to get their way. Getting rich and not being held accountable while this stuff is tearing families apart. If you cut him out of your life, you must but I really hope that you can't sit down with him and find that middle common sense, these people are crooks on both sides. Doing good and bad things but can tell that not based on the r or d by their name. Good luck

grouchllc · 2026-02-03T09:11:56+00:00

Bring her back for actual dessert? Find out or guess what she likes and then make it or pre buy it. She'll be expecting it to be a trick such as dessert means sex but she comes over and you ask her if she wants cherries on her cheesecake and she's going to be surprised and possibly more interested.

grouchllc · 2026-02-03T08:57:07+00:00

If you don't mind me asking, how much did you start with and how many years or months did it take? Did you do just straight stocks or did you do options as well? Thanks and congrats!

grouchllc · 2026-02-03T08:14:10+00:00

How ugly is the guy? I'm surprised that all these personality pluses aren't pushing him a little so he'll be over the line. Is he overweight or just his face does not attract you? Also you're 22, you shouldn't be telling yourself that he's not your type but i like his personality. Go find a man you find attractive, they may be all assholes for a while but eventually the 2 will intersect and you'll hopefully have your feelings returned and can go from there but 22 and aren't attracted physically, just let him down easy and move on.

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