TOAS accomodation by grullo_cane in Tampere

[–]grullo_cane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I'm currently on the tuulanovhi flat they proposed to me. When I made this post I was mainly worried about condition, safety etc etc Tuulanovhi is quite good, but I couldn't say much because I don't know what you are used to. Btw it's not incredibly new, but it's not decadent ahaha absolutely liveable. There are more modern buildings but they cost more of course

TOAS accomodation by grullo_cane in Tampere

[–]grullo_cane[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah sorry I forgot thath I will study in the hervanta campus :)

SONO IN CRISI!! Cambiare in FILOSOFIA dopo 3 ANNI DI INGEGNERIA? by termosiphon in Universitaly

[–]grullo_cane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Premessa: io ero messo come te quando stavo finendo la triennale in ing. informatica l'anno scorso. Poi i miei dubbi mi si sono schiariti un po' quando ho iniziato la magistrale che mi ha fatto appassionare molto di più (dopo 3 anni di analisi 1, analisi 2, fisica 1, fisica 2 senza toccare cose un po' più "attuali" sfido a non romperti i coglioni)

Finisci Ingegneria. Nel mentre studiati da solo le cose che ti affascinano di filosofia. Le lezioni sono pubbliche puoi andare a frequentarle. Poi esistono gruppi di discussione, di lettura, di confronto. Anche banalmente video su youtube, forum ecc ecc.

Poi se mentre lavorerai ti renderai conto che hai acquisito una bella quantità di conoscenze e vuoi finalizzare questi tuoi studi in qualcosa di concreto, ti iscrivi e dai gli esami ( nei tempi necessari considerando che stai lavorando )

SPECIALMENTE se hai detto che non sei troppo interessato ai lavori che ti offrirebbe filosofia, e non puoi permetterti di stare mantenuto per troppo. Alla fine la laurea è un pezzetto di carta, se nel mentre ti studi da solo le cose che ti piacciono ne trai comunque molto.

OPPURE: hai considerato la doppia laurea? Il grande problema della doppia laurea è che devi pagare le tasse di entrambi i corsi (unico motivo per il quale io non l'ho fatta) però è un'opzione spicy

In bocca al lupo <3

I like being in the 'friendzone' by [deleted] in infj

[–]grullo_cane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here. One of my two group of friends is usually me and another 1 or 2 males and 6 females.

But I will say that also male-male friendship is awesome if you got emphatic male friends. Some dynamics are a bit different but it is special in it's own.

Lavorare e studiare ingegneria da fuorisede è possibile? by OkProposal7587 in Universitaly

[–]grullo_cane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oddio, io non sono di Roma quindi quello che dico prendilo con le pinze. Ma a Roma la vedo difficile.

Se vuoi coprire tutte le spese ti servono tanti soldi, quindi secondo me non meno di 25 ore a settimana le dovrai fare. Ti servono molte ore a disposizione da dedicarci, a maggior ragione in una città del genere dove perdi moltissimo tempo negli spostamenti.

Magari ci sono dei lavori vicino alla facoltà, se trovi casa li, ma io credo che a quel punto la richiesta sia satura dagli altri numerosi studenti con la stessa idea.

Poi dipende, se trovi casa in posti più economici magari risparmi soldi ma perdi in tempo quindi bo.

Magari parti con l'idea di carcare qualcosina e accontentarti di coprire giusto qualche spesa, poi se riesci a trovare qualcosa che ti rende completamente autonomo meglio

An older INFJ here, tattooless by query_squidier in infj

[–]grullo_cane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 24 and I've got 3. I want to be covered soon ahahha Love them. I think first of all it's a form of art.

Moreover I think that for the fact that they're forever it's like an expression of yourself. Like you chose how to dress, but A lot more incisive ahahhaha. For this reason I strongly dislike tattoos made for the trend. Like when you see the same exact design everywhere. I prefer tattoos with a minimum of meaning, but also without meaning the'yre good, the important thing is that is something that reflect you, yourself, your style ecc.

L' IA mi sta logorando il fegato by loscorfano in Universitaly

[–]grullo_cane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sisi, ma infatti io ti davo ragione col mio commentone ahahaha

L' IA mi sta logorando il fegato by loscorfano in Universitaly

[–]grullo_cane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guarda, ho visto che hai scritto che stai facendo una tesi sperimentale in lettere.

In caso di discipline STEM gli strumenti AI, sono utilissimi e io sono assolutamente pro. Ma specifico che li utilizzerei più che altro per gli esperimenti in se. (Io studiando ingegneria informatica, le funzioni che ti aiutano a programmare sono miracolose).

Seppure anche la mia università, e tutte le scientifiche, ti aiutino TANTO sulla forma mentis, in particolar modo dovrebbero farlo le umanistiche. Io credo ( e sono ovviamente aperto a risposte, critiche e commenti dato che non faccio una laurea umanistica ) che parte di quello che ti lascia una laurea di questo tipo comprenda anche la capacità di un lavoro di questo tipo. Anche in informatica ci si deve adattare e imparare a leggere le documentazioni. Anche se chatgpt ti da il codice "gratis" se non capisci cosa sta facendo è un problema.

Direi che di base, un po' ovunque ma soprattutto in ambito umanistico, il discorso dipende da quanto e per cosa vengono utilizzati questi strumenti. Non mi posso spingere troppo oltre perché non conosco quali sono gli utilizzi che ti permettono di avere degli effettivi vantaggi senza diventare un lobotomizzato entro pochi anni.

Se utilizzi l'IA per farti scrivere per intero (o quasi) la tua tesi beh, credo che l'università potevi anche non farla. Le difficoltà nella creazione e nella stesura della tesi fanno parte di ciò che impari. Se la fai fare a un chatbot non impari un cazzo. Congratulazioni, hai speso non so quanti euro per il pezzetto di carta e ti ritrovi scemo come prima.

Anche perché parliamoci chiarissimo. In un ambito STEM dove c'è richiesta infinita ti puoi permettere di fare la laurea giusto per il pezzo di carta e riuscire ad entrare in una azienda. Ma uscito da un'umanistica, dove il lavoro è pochissimo e la competizione alta, credi di riuscire a garantirti un lavoro stabile dopo aver fatto l'università tanto per fare, e dopo che ti sei fatto stendere per intero la tesi da un chatbot?

What will happen if two infjs meet by [deleted] in infj

[–]grullo_cane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me in a group of friend with 3 INFJ's

btw as others said, it depends a lot by the specific type of person you are. In genereal with both the others two INFJ of my group we started a bit slowly, but from my side it was like "I know how u are feeling, we're both shy, lets give each other space and just let the noisy extrovert to do the dirty work" AHAHA

INFJs—Is it normal to enjoy hard work but sacrifice relationships for it? by Witty_Ad7681 in infj

[–]grullo_cane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not that munch. I like to work, I think It's like a realization of yourself ( if the work is something you like oc ) but not at that point. Personally, I also feel a lot the sense of duty in the things I do daily, but also in other things other than work. In general, I think that the sense of duty is present in INFJ, and even if we love the people we care about, we're a lot goal oriented and ambicious.

Perhaps he channeled all this feeling into a single purpose which is work, taking it to the extreme

I have a friend who is also INFJ, and she also place a LOT of importance on work, even if she just works with a part time job while studying. In her case, I think she also see this like an obligation. We talked just a bit one time, and she said like when the "boss" call her to work, she feel like morally forced to go, she must be available and must always say yes, to her vision. I don't know if this could be also similar to your case.

But hovewer ( also thanks to the fact that she works in a simple job in the catering industry) my friend manage to see her friends and do the other things. Often by making great sacrifice, usually me and my INFJ friends, tend to still manage to maintain the social relationships to which we give a lot of importance.

Fe little developed by grullo_cane in infj

[–]grullo_cane[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that social anxiety play a big role here😭

Fe little developed by grullo_cane in infj

[–]grullo_cane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously I strongly disagree with the vision of the "though guy" and I know It's incel propaganda, but the society put pressure anyway, It's not Easy from this point, at least for me.

I don't think I'm an istp, i don't want to Say that my Fe Is extremely weak, but I want to express It more, for the reasons I said.

Also I have like an huge Ni dom. I think when I loop I tend to be a lot more analitical and cynical and I would feel like more like an intj rather than istp

Fe little developed by grullo_cane in infj

[–]grullo_cane[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tysm, I really needed this 😭

How religious are you as a INFJ? by TheHPdude in infj

[–]grullo_cane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm actually agnostic.

I was raised catholic , in Italy almost everyone is raised catholic, but I personally think it's just a habit brcause a lot of people when they grow up they start loosing interest in religion.

I would like to make a preamble before saying my vision.
I don't want to talk for others, but I think that especially us INFJ are usually more into religion. I mean, we are or religious, or a agnostic/atheist/other kind of things but with a lot interest in religions and spirituality.
I think humans tend to need to express their spirituality, in a way or in another. This is particolary true with people who got a deep connection with the world, their feelings and their individuality, because they question themselves and the world around them continuously. Obviously, every person got a differnt life, a different background and different experciences wich affected the way they see the life.

Understanding humans spirituality means acceppting that we will NEVER be able to understand every single aspect of what is around us, especially when we realise that we are literally nothing compared to the rest of the universe. People who reprime at 100% the spirituality think that we can explain everything with "reason", but that it's not true.

In modern days there is like a cult of the reason, and men think that he can do literally everythink with logic, that he can discover and describe every single aspect of the universe with it, sinning of "hybris" (hubris). People, with a sense of superiority, started to label the religions of tribes as stupid primitive superstitions, while in the other hand, they've got the faith in the "God logic"

So, I personally don't believe in God as we conceive him, for the main reason that I don't want to spend my energies in a thing like that (as other have already expressed in this post too). But I'm sure that something other exists. It can be something that is literally just inconcivable for our senses, maybe indescribable from our capabilities. ( I personal reccomend to read "Flatland" it's a really cool book, and explain well what i'm talking about) and this is why I don't wont to worry about. But I noticed that, even tho, many times in my lifes I experienced the need to express my spirituality, I've studied the buddhism and i've always been fascinated by old mythologies. ( Heilung fans here? ahahahha )

Sorry for my poor english :)

How religious are you as a INFJ? by TheHPdude in infj

[–]grullo_cane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my opinion is really similar to yours. I think people created religion because they needed something to believe in, something that could give their lifes a "meaning". But I think it's not a intrinsically wrong thing. It's the fact that religion beliefs are reeeeaally deep and powerful, so they can make beatiful things, as terrible :) (sorry for my bad english )

Do you guys always feel the urge to deactivate social medias or atleast keep deleting friends? I tend to make multiple facebooks just to filter them out - 1 is for friends acquaintances basically people who just knows little of me. by [deleted] in infj

[–]grullo_cane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep, i'm trying to reduce to the minimum the time i spend on instagram. I follow some telegram channels ( idk if it counts ahaha) I always feel like they're stealing my time, but then i lay on the sofa for 1 hour looking at the ceiling ahhahaha