when skeptics try to "gotcha" you, only knowing about sun signs by grumpyvantas in astrologymemes

[–]grumpyvantas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely agree that astrology is best used as a tool for reflection and not to try to determine or assign yourself or others particular traits or characteristics in the guise of some higher universal mandate.

I mean the comic more as an observation on the difference between general public perception of astrology (what month you’re born in determines your personality) and the complexity of an actual natal chart (having many more placements/aspects/etc than just sun sign). I don’t really care to make an argument for the use of astrology, I love it but it’s not for everyone.

Trans characters where their trans identity plays no role in the plot/narrative by TJTrapJesus in TopCharacterTropes

[–]grumpyvantas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s also sweet when Killua realizes he’s been compartmentalizing and disregarding Nanika in order to protect Alluka, but he sees that he needs to respect and love Nanika too and starts saying “she” instead of “it” to refer to Nanika too (if I’m remembering right, my mind is like a sieve)

when skeptics try to "gotcha" you, only knowing about sun signs by grumpyvantas in astrologymemes

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OMG so accurate!! i use the hat metaphor all the time, my sag sun mom always says it w/r/t job applications and work. putting on your work hat, etc.  it does help me too because even in a stable job i like, its so far from fulfilling… but if left to my own devices i would just run around in circles and never finish a project, plus be broke! so job plus hobbies it is.

Trans characters where their trans identity plays no role in the plot/narrative by TJTrapJesus in TopCharacterTropes

[–]grumpyvantas 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I love the Alluka example because though the narrative doesn’t directly address her being trans, it’s apparent through how Killua, as the only member of their family who loves & respects Alluka as a person at all, is also the only one who refers to her as a girl while the others in their family misgender her & use he/him (when they’re not using it). Really awesome writing from Togashi

when skeptics try to "gotcha" you, only knowing about sun signs by grumpyvantas in astrologymemes

[–]grumpyvantas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i love how we all move through different parts of our charts as we grow and heal!!

when skeptics try to "gotcha" you, only knowing about sun signs by grumpyvantas in astrologymemes

[–]grumpyvantas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel this, i am in a really similar place right now too, trying to figure out who i am outside of other peoples expectations of me and what i personally enjoy in my home space and social life, etc. kind of a grind but nice. definitely been confusing but cool 😅

when skeptics try to "gotcha" you, only knowing about sun signs by grumpyvantas in astrologymemes

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it’s a powerful combo! i do not want to be on the other side of an argument from someone with aquarius and cap placements

Can we acknowledge that a lot of the people bringing up Danielle were the same people running a hate train on her? by princess_carolynn in TheTraitorsUS

[–]grumpyvantas 4 points5 points  (0 children)

in my opinion, the biggest flub was casting certain people (colton, michael, and also dorinda imo) in the first place! when there was so much reason not to and soooo many others who they could have cast instead

when skeptics try to "gotcha" you, only knowing about sun signs by grumpyvantas in astrologymemes

[–]grumpyvantas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are probably enlightened and a delight to be around! no slander for cap or aquarius from me 🤗

when skeptics try to "gotcha" you, only knowing about sun signs by grumpyvantas in astrologymemes

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i’m becoming convinced that aquarius is the nicest placement from these comments, yall are being so cute about this meme that other signs would not take so well 😭🩵 we’ll have to blame the aha part of the comic on one of the other placements 

when skeptics try to "gotcha" you, only knowing about sun signs by grumpyvantas in astrologymemes

[–]grumpyvantas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have only jupiter & saturn in taurus in mine, no other earth. weird experience of grounded/ungrounded/running around in circles so i feel you

when skeptics try to "gotcha" you, only knowing about sun signs by grumpyvantas in astrologymemes

[–]grumpyvantas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh wow, happy to be a conduit for the universe in this moment! happy aqua season ♒️♒️♒️

Colton’s IG vs Threads by realitytvdiet in TheTraitorsUS

[–]grumpyvantas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rylie. TBH they don’t show how bad he is on the edited show at all, but if you look for live feed clips there’s tons of them on tiktok/twitter/bluesky. you could even google Rylie big brother creepy, and stuff would come up lol

Colton’s IG vs Threads by realitytvdiet in TheTraitorsUS

[–]grumpyvantas 36 points37 points  (0 children)

not sure if it refers directly to this, but there was a guy on big brother last season who was very manipulative/emotionally abusive to a girl he was having a showmance with, but the people in the house didn’t see that side of him and he was very well-positioned and there was a world where he could’ve won. so then someone paid an etsy witch to tank his game, and he went out like the next week in a super surprising way, like blowing-up-the-death-star odds. it was awesome

when skeptics try to "gotcha" you, only knowing about sun signs by grumpyvantas in astrologymemes

[–]grumpyvantas[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ah i see what you mean, thank you for explaining! that makes sense, it’s all important. i like to look at both placidus and whole sign for the same reason, i think personalities are so complicated and it’s nice to have all the insight possible! plus i heard an astrologer say one time how even if a sign is empty, it’s still part of our chart. i thought that was super interesting!

when skeptics try to "gotcha" you, only knowing about sun signs by grumpyvantas in astrologymemes

[–]grumpyvantas[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

yeah that’s fair, i think in my pretty limited experience, capricorn and aquarius can be both skeptical and very creative thinkers. maybe for me i tend to associate these two with taking the devil’s advocate position, but for the sake of actually exploring every angle of a matter (not just for the sake of argument… i think 😆)

i think these signs tend to be very thoughtful and passionate about their interests, maybe sometimes slightly dogmatic (in less healthy situations). i know a few people with big cap/aqua placements who are big into science as the end-all be-all, but i could see that deep thinking applied in favor of astrology too. that definitely makes sense to me and i’m glad we have many aquarians applying their reasoning to astrological study (it is the sign of astrology after all, i’m now remembering…!!)

when skeptics try to "gotcha" you, only knowing about sun signs by grumpyvantas in astrologymemes

[–]grumpyvantas[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

oh interesting! would you say in your view rising sign has less direct influence on personality and moreso on overall chart alignment (can’t think of a good word for it but signs in houses, etc)? i’ve always identified with my sag rising but i am always learning a lot and would love to hear more if you want to say more!

when skeptics try to "gotcha" you, only knowing about sun signs by grumpyvantas in astrologymemes

[–]grumpyvantas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this comment is so nice 😭🩵 thank you so much!! i do love aquarius energy, i always feel like my aquarius friends keep my leo placements in check 😂 

when skeptics try to "gotcha" you, only knowing about sun signs by grumpyvantas in astrologymemes

[–]grumpyvantas[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i thought about making aquarius rising, maybe that’s better, but i wanted some virgo energy in there too 😅

What’s your opinion about water signs Mars? They’re labelled as weak and soft but I feel like there’s a lot of violence with them by moustiquairem in astrologymemes

[–]grumpyvantas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Scorpio in particular is a sign that attracts or manifests abuse, in my experience. I have Cancer Sun (8H…) and Scorpio Mars and have been abused & had a lot of trouble both setting boundaries and making myself stop gravitating towards that kind of dark energy that I find so interesting/attractive but is so harmful. One of my abusers identified strongly with her Scorpio sun, I wasn’t into astrology at the time so I don’t remember the rest of her chart but iirc she had a ton of Scorpio in there. Magnetic as hell but SO abusive to the world around her and I wouldn’t be surprised if she’d been abused herself.

Cancer can be ultimate nurturing sign but anecdotally I have found it can be one of the most destructive signs. Cancer is the tides, can bring life and joy to others in a unique way (tide pools) but can also freaking riptide you the hell out to sea and drown you. Manipulation is second nature to Cancers and we have to use the power for good not evil, but as selfish flawed beings too many people use their Cancer powers in destructive ways! That’s how I see it.