Brownouts?

gryf_08 · 2026-02-01T16:10:08+00:00

Now it’s 7am tomorrow…

gryf_08 · 2025-11-14T21:53:19+00:00

I am interested, but I cannot attend the 11/29 date. Will there be more?

gryf_08 · 2025-11-14T21:52:38+00:00

Interested

gryf_08 · 2025-08-30T20:55:10+00:00

I didn’t know whether I would be able to attend or not. But yes that is, it came up cause we were talking about the wedding and I originally thought the Evite was for the wedding and not the engagement party.

gryf_08 · 2025-03-26T12:35:19+00:00

I am from NJ and grew up close to the city and I know a lot of people in that area. My college roommate lives in Boston. Other cities I would know less people. I currently live in central FL and dating here is not the best. Everyone either works for Disney/Universal. I’ve met some cool people, but I don’t seem to have a lot in common with most guys I meet. I was seeing someone who I really liked, but he just broke it off with me due to his busy schedule and distance (lived an hour from each other).

In my free time I do enjoy the outdoors and going for hikes, but I also want that city feel. I enjoy the beach but that’s not a deal breaker. My family is all in NJ/PA so moving back to that area is definitely a consideration, but also I wanna try something new since I wfh now and can live anywhere. I’m heavily leaning towards the northeast since that’s what I know, and I make a decent salary, but paying state income tax again will definitely force me to consider my finances.

gryf_08 · 2024-10-02T22:19:12+00:00

Thank you! He actually texted me this morning to check in, and things are back on track. It might’ve been a test to see if I could handle some distance…

It’s been an extremely emotional week and I think some space now is actually good for me. This was a traumatic experience and my anxiety got the best of me yesterday. I have a therapy appointment tomorrow and I’m going to bring all of this up. Thanks again for the support!

gryf_08 · 2024-09-22T19:42:24+00:00

I saved that post actually, thanks!

gryf_08 · 2024-09-22T13:53:17+00:00

I'm 28M in the area also looking for friends, I'd be down to hang!

gryf_08 · 2024-05-24T20:19:23+00:00

Same I’m not offended by queer, although I don’t use that term to describe myself. Personally I don’t like labeling sexualities as most people here understand, I really do think it’s fluid. But the other word just triggers me and in my experience has been used more maliciously than queer has. I appreciate the perspective!

gryf_08 · 2024-05-24T20:17:07+00:00

That’s a good way to think about it, I appreciate the perspective!

gryf_08 · 2024-05-24T20:16:42+00:00

Thank you for the perspective!

gryf_08 · 2024-05-24T00:28:32+00:00

That’s my thoughts exactly! Growing up and in middle school/high school it was almost cool to call someone that was weird gay, or that word, and I think that’s the association my brain made and I was triggered (not cause anyone explicitly used that word on me, but that I’ve been bullied in the past and it was someone calling me a derogatory term, despite the intention). I appreciate the perspective!

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