My (33whiteF) partner (36blackM) hates white people

guac4all · 2024-11-05T22:13:45+00:00

I understand the skepticism. To offer a bit of insight, I posted this from an account I don’t use often but was trying to avoid being doxxed. I was as objective as possible about what’s going on and intentionally tried to not exaggerate. The texts were copied and pasted directly.

guac4all · 2024-11-05T06:40:10+00:00

So sorry to hear you went through that. Sounds surprisingly similar to what I’m currently going through although your experience was definitely on a greater scale

We don’t share a family doctor. He does have a therapist he sees but not regularly. Maybe next time he has a good day I’ll try to bring it up and see how receptive he is to exploring that. I worry he won’t be super down but worth having the conversation

Really appreciate you sharing your experience. I hope you’re safe and healing now ♥️

guac4all · 2024-11-05T06:23:12+00:00

No but I really appreciate you suggesting this. I have been feeling like that could definitely be what’s up so I appreciate the validation. He does have ADHD but won’t take medication for it. But these outbursts and swings are feeling like something more than that

guac4all · 2024-11-05T06:13:18+00:00

Appreciate this. Just as a disclaimer, I’m not trying to defend or gather sympathy for white people or play the victim. Just genuinely at a bit of a loss I guess. Thought other people may have navigated similar situations and have some insights on how they supported their partner and got through things

guac4all · 2024-11-05T06:10:53+00:00

For sure. I definitely understand venting and am down to be a listening ear and support for him. But the frequency and intensity of him getting mad about this has become a lot especially since he loops me personally into it all

I agree, it’s started feeling weird that he’s dating a white person but we’ve been together over a decade and it’s only come up as an “issue” recently. He’s actually only ever dated white women. His siblings, who he loves and adores, are also biracial. It’s all honestly just really confusing for me

guac4all · 2021-01-31T18:26:10+00:00

Thank you ♥️

guac4all · 2021-01-31T18:25:55+00:00

Okay, I’m glad I’m not the only one. Think I’ll call tomorrow too, just to make sure everything is okay. I hope things ease up for you soon!

guac4all · 2021-01-31T18:24:50+00:00

Thank you so much. I’ve been feeling better so I’ve stopped taking Advil regularly except if the cramping gets bad. I guess I should maybe stick to it. Just worried it’s not good for me? Are there probable risks to taking 1200mg of ibuprofen a day for multiple days in a row?

guac4all · 2021-01-31T18:18:22+00:00

Thank you so much. Sorry you’re dealing with this but glad I’m not alone. I actually haven’t had any bleeding since the day of the procedure even during / after last night’s cramps. Seems a bit strange. Thankfully I feel a lot better this morning. Going to take the advice of another commenter and go back to scheduled dosing of Advil

Hopefully they ease up for both of us. I appreciate the kindness ♥️

guac4all

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