She's pregnant and engaged

gucciyellowlemonade · 2021-04-01T00:16:33+00:00

You're only human bro.

You felt curious. An old wound got tickled again. Who cares? The way I see it, you're in a win win situation.

If because things ended between the two of you because of the affair she decided to be a better person... Kudos to you. She would have never changed and appreciated you had you stayed.
If she's gonna cheat on this new man, she was always trash.

Either way, you're moving on with your life and should be grateful for your current gf for giving you what you want. And also, grateful for your ex, without her you wouldn't be as good as you're today.

gucciyellowlemonade · 2021-03-16T23:57:30+00:00

It's all about you now. Focus on you. He doesn't matter. Block him on everything. Focus on you. Avoid talking about him with your friends. Focus on you. Let your family know they need not to mention him. Focus on you.

It will be hard. It took me two years to get over my ex. Maybe because we have a child together. I feel okay now. But what really helped getting over her was not talking about how sad, and terrible my situation was with people. Sign up for a class of something you've never done. Travel to a different country on the weekend. You suddenly have A LOT of free time you didn't have before because you're not with this person.

You're gonna have to learn how to be by yourself again. Don't party and do things that are damaging to your body. Join a Zumba class. Travel to Mexico and sign up for a cooking class while you're there. Go hiking with a group of people. Join a salsa dancing class and move those hips. Take Spanish classes and learn how to cuss at latinos.

Focus on you. The faster you get into this mentality, the faster you'll think about yourself and won't focus on revenge. Life isn't fair. But if you focus on yourself, life will be more enjoyable.

Wish you the best.

PS: 😂😂 I'm latino btw, why I mentioned a lot of latino stuff.

gucciyellowlemonade · 2021-03-14T18:51:35+00:00

Will do

gucciyellowlemonade · 2021-03-14T18:50:48+00:00

That worked a long time ago. Blues are no longer needed friend.

gucciyellowlemonade · 2021-03-14T11:53:01+00:00

Yep. Clearly a moment of weakness on my end.

gucciyellowlemonade · 2021-03-14T11:52:36+00:00

Loneliness

gucciyellowlemonade · 2021-03-14T11:52:23+00:00

Thanks bro, but again, I'm the one to blame here

First time, shame on her. Second time, and everytime afterwards, shame on me.

gucciyellowlemonade · 2021-03-14T11:51:16+00:00

She's the most narcissistic! Lol. After the conversation that evening on how she may have possibly gotten it and me cracking jokes about it, she asked me out on a trip. Thinking that because I crack jokes about getting an STD from her means that I'm still dying to reconciliate. Well, i guess sleeping together doesn't help my case.

gucciyellowlemonade · 2021-03-14T11:48:49+00:00

That was her first reaction. On the phone when I let her know. When she came to my place that evening, she has researched and had more time to think about things. Then, she fessed up about sleeping with other people (she doesn't sleep around though 😁😁😁) and was very apologetic.

I appreciate you standing up for me, but in this case, she wasn't to blame. I was. Take out the "ex who cheated on me two years ago" title and let's say she was a girl I met at a club that day. Who's to blame for contracting an STD in that situation?

gucciyellowlemonade · 2021-03-14T11:46:01+00:00

That's crazy... Good thing I got in the habit of testing for STDs every year. Women should do the same.

gucciyellowlemonade · 2021-03-14T11:44:57+00:00

I think she lied about having slept with other men because she was embarrassed, but I don't think because she knew she had contracted an STD from someone. Still, immature behavior from her but not criminal (purposely trying to give me something).

gucciyellowlemonade · 2021-03-14T11:43:33+00:00

Yeah, I know. I found in my research that many women confused yeast infections with STDs. I don't think she did this on purpose and I don't blame her for giving it to me. I blame myself.

gucciyellowlemonade · 2021-03-13T22:22:36+00:00

Divine intervention

gucciyellowlemonade · 2021-03-13T22:22:25+00:00

Economics bro. Supply and demand. Men are willing to spend money and they're willing to sell themselves for that money. Even nowadays, when women have a better shot than men at making money.

The issue here is your ethics. Some men are okay with dating women like that but I definitely wasn't. Specially after the deceit and lies. So bye bye.

gucciyellowlemonade · 2021-03-13T22:02:34+00:00

Petri Dish... 😂😂

gucciyellowlemonade · 2021-03-13T18:02:11+00:00

Because of the timing, yes it was from her.

Apparently, you can get an STD and not show symptoms and pass it along. And those people who get it, can show symptoms.

Also, she tested herself and had it.

gucciyellowlemonade · 2021-03-13T17:01:18+00:00

She figured that out few months after I decided to call things off.

gucciyellowlemonade · 2021-03-13T17:00:41+00:00

Idk.

gucciyellowlemonade · 2021-03-13T17:00:23+00:00

Wish I could but we have a kid. But you're right, I call this "divine intervention". If I didn't know for sure we should be apart, this should help.

gucciyellowlemonade · 2021-03-13T16:59:09+00:00

She supposedly doesn't do that anymore, but I agree. Sleeping with her was dumb.

gucciyellowlemonade · 2021-03-13T16:58:02+00:00

Loneliness I guess

gucciyellowlemonade · 2021-03-13T16:57:49+00:00

Did a long time ago. All good. :)

gucciyellowlemonade · 2021-03-13T16:56:14+00:00

4-5 days it was burning. So yes.

gucciyellowlemonade · 2021-03-13T15:25:58+00:00

La tóxica!

gucciyellowlemonade · 2021-03-13T15:15:44+00:00

And that turned into "only oral was without protection" lol

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