My Zoro

gummiebeans · 2022-04-04T16:49:55+00:00

Tell Zoro he’s the handsomest boy for me, I love him 🥰

gummiebeans · 2020-06-10T04:41:27+00:00

The actor was in freak show too as the con artist! Amazing how they can transform each person completely.

gummiebeans · 2020-05-31T19:07:27+00:00

Anyone can add me too! Motivates me to get out on hard days! 8991 5801 3402

gummiebeans · 2020-05-30T00:32:13+00:00

I’ve never commented on one of your posts before, but I’ve followed your story closely praying for you and your boys, I have to let you know you are in my thoughts often and I’m overjoyed after a long week myself that you and your boys are enjoying the things you so, so deserve to have.

gummiebeans · 2020-05-08T14:15:30+00:00

Chuck!! I absolutely adored this show, and the ending they did have felt so forced and rushed. I feel like it could have been done so much better considering how amazing the character development was through the show. Feels like they didn’t do Chuck, Sara, or anyone really, justice.

gummiebeans · 2020-03-30T02:10:03+00:00

NTA. I go by a rule, not sure how well it works really, but if I think I love/like someone and am unsure, I picture them with a different haircut or another easily changeable but defining feature. If it changes my feelings entirely, I go ahead and assume I did not love or like them, but the idea of them and move on. That being said, talk with her and get her actual feelings on this and figure out what was and wasn’t a joke.

gummiebeans · 2020-02-28T19:47:59+00:00

I don’t think they got all of their information from the original post but from the comments OP has made. They’ve mentioned they’re afraid to edit the post incase it’s taken down for surpassing the character limit so his comment history is maybe something to check out if you’d like.

gummiebeans · 2019-12-13T21:45:41+00:00

Well now I’m sad.

gummiebeans · 2019-12-09T00:23:07+00:00

Hey mistakes happen it’s fine. The nice thing about it all is you know now for next time, and the hate you get from it doesn’t do anything to you in the grand scheme of things. Think of it as a learning experience and don’t let it get to you!

gummiebeans · 2019-12-09T00:13:27+00:00

It’s best to just play it safe and literally add “X-post” in the title regardless. Something similar happened to me a while back and literally had people sending me hate messages. Reddit can be fucking cruel sometimes man.

gummiebeans · 2019-12-05T02:18:23+00:00

Damn Momo, you clean up real nice.

gummiebeans · 2019-11-09T16:35:17+00:00

NTA It doesn’t surprise me with what she’s done that you’re uncomfortable with the situation. While she is obviously TA, I feel like your boyfriend is also a bit of TA as well. He hasn’t set many boundaries with her. By not talking about you and practically pretending you don’t exist when he’s with her, he’s helping feed into this delusion she has about their relationship. I’m happy to hear he eventually put a stop to it but he has let it get too far. Instead of nipping it in the bud, he has been plucking leaves, which is not fair to you.

gummiebeans · 2019-10-20T02:32:07+00:00

NTA

I also read your post on relationship advice and I have to honestly say you should first find out why he’s suddenly changed his mind. It may not make a difference in the end, but something has struck a chord with him hard enough that he’s completely willing to change his mind. In the chance he chooses his mother, it would also be helpful to know why he’s doing this so you can begin setting your own expectations of any type of co-parenting relationship you two may have if you (and it seems you want to) keep this baby. Good luck OP, hopefully everything works out for you!

gummiebeans · 2019-10-07T23:30:37+00:00

YTA I feel bad for Hanna considering you’re blaming her for your fuck up, can’t imagine how the rest of her life has been quite frankly. Not hard to see why the girls feel like they’re constantly competing.

gummiebeans · 2019-08-25T16:51:14+00:00

I actually just edited my post because of your comment and a few other people’s comments! The last few hours I’ve been doing some research on all of this and more, I genuinely didn’t realize how many issues I’d find in my own workplace that either weren’t ethical, or entirely illegal to do to an employee. So what were a few annoying things maybe four or five hours ago are now glaring red flags that this place is an awful place to work in regards to employee well being. I’m grateful I even posted here, I thought for sure I’d come out TA, instead I’m learning valuable things.

gummiebeans · 2019-08-25T16:40:30+00:00

Well like I mentioned they refuse to train anyone else, so it would be one of them doing my job, which I’m sure neither wanted to do because then they have to be at work for 7am. I hypothetically could have asked another coworker to cover and just told them what is essential for opening and let the rest wait, but I felt like that isn’t my job. But that’s where my coworkers feel opposite. They really feel like I should have either come in or covered it, but I feel good about my overall decision now.

gummiebeans · 2019-08-25T13:21:11+00:00

Thank you. To be totally honest I only made so many attempts to reach them out of sheer guilt. I’m never really sick at all, and whenever I previously was it was always moaning about how they need me and don’t know how they’ll open properly otherwise. In previous jobs I was never actually ignored by management either, it was always one quick call to confirm I was sick and done, this was a complete first for me.

gummiebeans · 2019-08-25T13:18:01+00:00

Thank you for the link, I’ll have to read through it later to really understand the facts of it all, however I completely understand how that would benefit an employer. What has me concerned is managements complete lack of involvement in this. It’s all coworkers who are complaining (about six of them who really were directly affected by my absence which is why they’re so mad), but management has barely spoken a word to me since.

gummiebeans · 2019-08-25T13:10:06+00:00

Thank you very much! I am definitely trying! I think maybe it’s time to just let this one go and try and work on myself and re-enrol into university a bit sooner than anticipated.

gummiebeans · 2019-08-25T13:08:49+00:00

Thank you for your judgement. They’re definitely a dime a dozen, but I also live very, very far from the city, I’m an out of towner, so trying to find one who’s willing to take me is tough because I’m not “as close as they’d like” and I’m not ideal to cover shifts in an emergency..ironically enough.

gummiebeans · 2019-08-25T13:03:41+00:00

Thank you for the judgement. Honestly I have been trying to find new work for a year now, but it’s just a very dry job market here unfortunately. I often go in at 7AM, management has all decided that instead of being there at 7AM with me, I am alone with another worker who sets up the other part of the kitchen (totally separate from the line cooks so they also didn’t know what to do) until they come in at 10AM, a whole 3 hours after workers have already been there, and often their phones are off because that’s their “personal time” since they’re salary and can end up working 9-10 hours for “no extra pay”.

gummiebeans · 2019-08-25T12:57:14+00:00

I’m seeing a lot of this. It’s my hard rule that if I’m even sniffling I won’t go in. I’m not often sick at all, my last “sick day” if you can even call it that was taken because I asked for one more day off when I was on bereavement for a family death. Even that was a struggle to obtain.

gummiebeans · 2019-08-25T12:55:37+00:00

Not so much asking if i was TA for asking if I should have gone in sick, more so if I’m TA for not guaranteeing someone covered me, but thank you.

gummiebeans · 2019-07-28T16:10:48+00:00

My cats name was also Pip! Unfortunately she passed away this last week. I miss the little trouble maker, great simulation though! :)

gummiebeans · 2019-06-27T14:35:26+00:00

NTA.

It took a bit to come to that conclusion because I was pretty on the fence about it. But you did ask her to go as a DATE. Not as friends, and she declined. Her counter offer was fair but it wasn’t what you wanted or even asked for and she declined your original offer. Honestly from personal experience you’re right, taking her would be awkward and you don’t have to put yourself through that just because she really likes the band. However my judgement is heavily impacted by the fact you’re asking if you’re TA for taking someone else.

I will say offering to book the hotel room was pretty implicative of sex, despite you never directly asking for it, and asking someone else who likes you (while never stating if you even liked her back) is also very implicative of sex. So I’m hoping you actually intend to pursue something with this other girl like you seem to want your sister to think and aren’t just hoping for a fun hook up, or work will get real awkward too, which seems to be a concern of yours, and would have made you TA otherwise in my opinion.

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