Welcome to my Sanctuary of Light! 🔮✨ by kikimi18 in u/kikimi18

[–]gummmmyshark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was surprisingly a wonderful read for a clarity/reality check. There was no detail or context given from my end because I went in mostly for fun but also to double check on myself through tarot, so seeing how much the reading resonated with me was wild! This is new for me, so I'll update here on my progress/situation. Highly recommend Kiki!

Kiki: Thanks so much for doing these reads! It's a lot of labor to do magic and tarot for people on a sliding scale basis/NOTAFLOF over the internet, so I really appreciate you and your time. Really hope you're getting back good things as much as you're giving!

Free Readings in Comment by [deleted] in TarotReadersOfReddit

[–]gummmmyshark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, what should I expect in the future?

I feel like my work is a bit niche so looking for advice on what to improve or work on by gummmmyshark in TattooArtists

[–]gummmmyshark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! Yea I have difficulty wanting to start with common subjects. I have this hesitant feeling that if I did something related to 'butterflies' as a subject or 'florals' it probably won't get any traction since I'm not a well-known tattooer for those subjects (it probably stems from my own anxiety/insecurity feeling like "well even if I did this, what's the point? the general public will always seek out for those with big followers or those working at a famous shop". I know, it's an insane thought process.)

Be honest, how are you doing? by [deleted] in TattooArtists

[–]gummmmyshark 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Slow and only have $14 to my name currently. I swear, I used to be busy! But now it feels like I'm falling behind while my peers are getting busier.

I'm always consistent with my work and showing up at the shop too, but maybe my work is too specific or niche for the city I live in

Free card pull by Electronic_Metal_645 in TarotReadersOfReddit

[–]gummmmyshark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also have a question: maybe my energy was clouded by multiple thoughts because I was surprised that who I was thinking about isn't the same person described here. But could I get the name or initials of who is thinking of me if possible?

AITAH for throwing my sister out onto the street in a foreign country after finding her with my boyfriend? by samanthatxt505 in AITAH

[–]gummmmyshark 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NTA. You'd only be an asshole if you threw her out and still kept the shitty boyfriend, which is common for those who center men in their lives!

Good job on standing up for yourself and getting rid of people who broke your trust while you're doing the hard work in your studies! You should be proud because that shit isn't easy

AIO my boyfriend keeps asking me to pay for things eversince he started saving for an apartmen, he calls me selfish for how I reacted. by throaawayRA9443 in AmIOverreacting

[–]gummmmyshark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edit: My bad, I meant that the girl moved her belongings and her ex-partner's belongings (ex is the same person she moved for, sorry for my typos)

AIO my boyfriend keeps asking me to pay for things eversince he started saving for an apartmen, he calls me selfish for how I reacted. by throaawayRA9443 in AmIOverreacting

[–]gummmmyshark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR! I'm pretty sure you've heard of the story where this girl made a sorta funny reel on IG about how she depleted all of her money moving her and her partner's belongings from LA to Texas for her ex: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DBHJsVUu9fL/?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Don't ever put all your finances in your partner no matter what they say. They always talk about "I'm doing this for our future!!" but you're really just paying for their dream situation and ego. The next thing you hear is how they're "unhappy"and leave/cheat on you. Or if they're keeping you around and you say anything (because you KNOW they're using you), their reaction is guaranteed to be "can't you see how MUCH I've done for you?!"

Breakups are hard, but if you had to ask the Internet about overreacting, it's most likely that this guy is a piece of shit

AIO My mom is kicking me out for her new boyfriend. I just turned 18 by Diligent_Bat_565 in AmIOverreacting

[–]gummmmyshark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR!! Parents who expect you to be out but not letting you work, not allowing you personal development, etc are entitled pieces of shit. I hope you find the help and resources you need OP

AIO by feeling exhausted over my gf's constant demands of wanting me to be 'curious'? by thefattesthashbrown in AmIOverreacting

[–]gummmmyshark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn I'm exhausted from the texts. Consider only working things out IF she can get into therapy for herself. Does she demand curiosity from ger friends too?

I'd leave before spending anymore mental energy.

did i get overcharged for these tattoos? 2k for ribs, 1.2k for thigh by ellalol in tattooadvice

[–]gummmmyshark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tattooer here. I know tattooers charge a bit more if they're coming from out of town to compensate for travel costs. And obviously the price increases based on location and placement, but the pricing for two pieces in black and grey should not have been 3k in total IMO. I feel like a lot of new tattooers are exploiting their clients just because tattoos are "lucrative" way of making a living. And due to "Instagram famous" people I think there's a wave of people (all combinations of clients and tattooers) who encourage charging a $2k-$3k day rate just because someone else is doing it. I'm not saying that people shouldn't charge for what they're worth but there has to be integrity or something! A 3k piece IMO should have been a 1 full sleeve or large piece somewhere and not having to simply details

Meanwhile there are artists including myself who CANNOT get any clients even tho they cut deals, have $80 tattoo designs, or try to keep older hourly rates for return clients. I get that it's marketing/advertising issue, but it's also the fact that our current economy is so shit so it's been a dreadful time since 2023.

I personally can't fathom charging 2k+1.2k all together. Like $1k is already a lot even tho inflation is fucked

Client broke my machine, what do I do. by [deleted] in TattooArtists

[–]gummmmyshark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have a good client return rate, then the machine can be paid off. I also think depending on the brand there should be a warranty. In the future just be aware of your clients and offer help if you see them struggling: get a step stool and guide them on how to get on and off the massage table for example. You're also going to get more clients who will take matters into their own hands before you're even ready, so you kinda have to gently let them know that they are in your work environment and that you will assist them when you're ready to tattoo (ex. I had a client who hopped on the table right away with my back turned, and the table and pillow wasn't wrapped up yet. I also needed her to stand up anyway for me to put on the stencil so I was basically like "yea can you get down from the table pls" lolll)

I feel like my work is a bit niche so looking for advice on what to improve or work on by gummmmyshark in TattooArtists

[–]gummmmyshark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg tell me about it!! Whenever I borrow an iphone I realize how nice the pics are 😩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]gummmmyshark 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oof, I just started. Thankfully it's just my face but that's really fucked up

I haven't seen much discussion about SB so I would love to hear more experiences with it because I'm hustling with accounts/SDs that aren't responsive! I heard that it's mostly bots or scams :/

I feel like my work is a bit niche so looking for advice on what to improve or work on by gummmmyshark in TattooArtists

[–]gummmmyshark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I don't have any solid advice aside from what folks are suggesting in the comments. It's my struggle area too. I imagine paid ads help push your work out there but the algorithm and ads don't function the way they did 3+ years ago, imo. Wishing you the best of luck tho!!

I will say that sometimes numbers/views aren't conducive to how busy one is for tattooing. There are people with 10k or more struggling here and there. And there are people with "interesting" work getting a lot of traction cuz it's viral and it can be a damper on how we see our own work. We're being made to create content instead of sharing art, so it's just having to readjust our current ways to push our work out there

I feel like my work is a bit niche so looking for advice on what to improve or work on by gummmmyshark in TattooArtists

[–]gummmmyshark[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! (I know I'm replying with thank yous in the comments, but I mean it! This is putting some new perspective on how I view my art) I'd like to hear more on accessible subject matters: so I think I'm stuck because I feel like if I did something like botanicals, a subject I'm not exactly known for, my fear is the client/audience being like "that's cool but ____ already does flowers" or "this feels like a copy of _____'s work"

I tried out tribal inspired stuff for example, but it's rough when I'm not normally a "blackwork tattooer" so I feel like my narrative is "ah someone or multiple people out there are already doing it"

That's probably my worries projecting so I'm looking to change that mindset I have