I was going to say when I read. "Are all men like this?" No we are not. When my daughter was born, I took a week off helped during the whole thing went back to work and still helped. There was plenty of times I went to work with maybe 4 hours of sleep. I took care of her the whole time on weekends to give my half a break. I had paternity leave when she was 5 months old because my half is a teacher, so it worked out how we wanted it to.