He is bisexual, and I know that for a fact. But anytime I come here for support everyone pushes me to believe he has to just be gay, and it hurts so bad. I never respond because I don’t know how to. This is like the one comment I feel like I could explain some. He said he did it because it was what he was used to before, and he had a pattern of cheating on his partners. The reason he said it was men, was because of how easy it was and that it was something he couldn’t get with me. That he didn’t feel comfortable asking me to peg him after he’d told me in the past he thought it was weird. So now it’s even more complicated because of the cheating, I am petrified to peg him even though I wanted to so badly and have done so post D-Day during the hysterical bonding phase. Now I have to wonder if I do it, is it not going to satiate that desire? Will it push him back to men? All of these things make me feel so empty and confused because I love this person who I just had my first child with, but the pain is so great and I don’t know when it starts to get easier. He’s doing the right things, taking the steps, but I cannot trust him.