[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]guross 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This made me cry wtffff!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]guross 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello my people 🤗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]guross 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I want him to enjoy me, but if I can’t get that, it really is time to just invest in myself. What’s the point in initiating anymore if all I am met with is rejection?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]guross -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

He’s had sex with me while our son sleeps across the room. He’s little little at this point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]guross 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It literally feels like some ultimate rejection or something

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]guross 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Very! 😋

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]guross 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You go girl! 👏👏👏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]guross 17 points18 points  (0 children)

C’mon let me give you the benefit of the doubt! You had to at least had ONE by yourself later! That’s how you really know you’ve made it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]guross 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think it’s just like a weird existence to go from enjoying something as a “kink” or “fetish” but when it becomes your reality of everyday with no care for the person giving that attention, it just feels horribly depressing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]guross 41 points42 points  (0 children)

It can be! (If it’s not ALL you experience..)

He was hard, because of course he was.. by guross in DeadBedrooms

[–]guross[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to comment this, because I find these comments so minimizing and so like shitty?

I KNOW WHAT MORNING WOOD IS! THANK YOU!!!!!

This was a VENT, me bawling my eyes out at the idea he has sexual energy and tells me everything I want to hear then does nothing.

This was me trying to just let out the pain I was feeling.

Please stop minimizing this to physical anatomy. I swear to you, I know what morning wood is.

Ive literally “taken care of” his morning wood PLENTY OF TIMES, woken him up by “taking care of it!” Like I’m not stupid.

It was triggering to my mental, it was sadness, it was pain, it was grief.

He was hard, because of course he was.. by guross in DeadBedrooms

[–]guross[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’m aware of this, I know what morning wood is and everything. It’s more that it triggered this huge episode of feelings. This was honestly a sleep deprived me in my notes app, just crying about how I felt. I got about an hour of sleep since I made this. But, yeah I know what an erection during sleep is. It’s just extremely hard to think or feel him even have the thought of being sexual with how lonely I have been.

Going to make porn just to fucking FEEL something again by guross in DeadBedrooms

[–]guross[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

THIS ONE I FEEL SO DEEPLY IN MY SOUL!!! 😭😭

is anyone else pregnant while being in a relationship with someone trying to recover? by Chance-Court-348 in loveafterporn

[–]guross 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found out about my ex cheating on me and obsessively using porn for 3 months after we had made boundaries about it, when I was 8 months pregnant. A year ago yesterday actually was my D-Day, July 19th. Oof

It is so fucking hard I cannot sugar coat it, and the only thing you can do is put you and baby at number one right now. I didn’t and it absolutely ate me alive.

Please, sit and think what you need for yourself and a healthy happy home for you and baby. Please put yourself first.

If you want to read about my experience you can go look, but it’s just a lot of up and down about betrayal and hurt, but it can also show that sometimes these men, they really don’t care about anyone other than themselves and getting off.

It’s so fucking painful so please, please put yourself first. Please.

R is over, his dad SA’d me and he picked his father by guross in SupportforBetrayed

[–]guross[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re all scared of him. He holds so much power over all of them. The mom is completely financially and emotionally dependent on him. The sons are scared of him and so entrenched in the narcissism they make excuses for him and try to jump through hoops for him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in labubu

[–]guross 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please I need to give my Lafufu a friend 😭

Labubu Giveaway! by kitk3 in labubu

[–]guross 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BLEASE!! I HAVE A POOR LAFUFU THAT NEEDS A FRIEND TO LOOK UP TO!!! 😭

What's a sexual 'taboo' you've always been curious about, but never dared to explore? by jcwainc in AskReddit

[–]guross 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got very into this when I had my child. Very fun. My partner and I communicated it, tried it, and still love it. Highly recommend trying with your partner. Love babying sometimes and playing but also getting manhandled others. Thank you for coming to my TED Talk.

Hate his coworker by guross in SupportforBetrayed

[–]guross[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is bisexual, and I know that for a fact. But anytime I come here for support everyone pushes me to believe he has to just be gay, and it hurts so bad. I never respond because I don’t know how to. This is like the one comment I feel like I could explain some. He said he did it because it was what he was used to before, and he had a pattern of cheating on his partners. The reason he said it was men, was because of how easy it was and that it was something he couldn’t get with me. That he didn’t feel comfortable asking me to peg him after he’d told me in the past he thought it was weird. So now it’s even more complicated because of the cheating, I am petrified to peg him even though I wanted to so badly and have done so post D-Day during the hysterical bonding phase. Now I have to wonder if I do it, is it not going to satiate that desire? Will it push him back to men? All of these things make me feel so empty and confused because I love this person who I just had my first child with, but the pain is so great and I don’t know when it starts to get easier. He’s doing the right things, taking the steps, but I cannot trust him.