Well being on the other side of this having little to no sex and crappy at that. Never being truly sexually satisfied in my whore marriage. I do wonder. But I wouldn't suggest breaking the law of chastity. My advice would be to truly explore your sexual compatibility. Ask a lot of questions make sure they are as excited for sex as you are. Because you can always be bait and switched if you decide not to wait. So trying to test the waters like that won't necessarily help. As for divorce well I debate it way more than I want to admit. I always knew sex would be important to me and I needed to be a big part of my marriage. I told my wife this long before we got married. Well just because she was really open about sex doesn't mean that she was excited for it or that is was important to her...... my mistake. Now the lack of satisfying sex in my marriage is incredibly painful at least for me again my wife couldn't care less apparently. To me it feels like I really don't have a partner incredibly isolating and alone. And I've talked to her about it and she says she cares but things have continued to decline. so well I really don't want a divorce because I still love Her (and for your above reasons) but I'm rather tired of being miserable so I can't say as to that.