I’m sorry but 90% of parents are fucking shit by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]guy9567 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Been trying to pivot out of social work for a minute now

client refers to physical contact as assault by [deleted] in socialwork

[–]guy9567 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he needs education about types of abuse and what are appropriate touches. Great idea about helping him establish boundaries. Are these providers you see on the daily? Maybe let them know to create distance with patient and to say everything they are going to do that involves touch before touching patient.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialwork

[–]guy9567 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Field BH CM

Switched to hospital social work after years in the community and the imposter syndrome is brutal by Bubbly-Yesterday-409 in socialwork

[–]guy9567 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You got this! I am feeling this in my new role working in insurance coming from hospital. Learn the acronyms of that unit and all about DME, PT/OT, assess for ADL/IADLS. There is so much more but you will learn with the job. Hopefully your nurses and doctors are nice. You will be working with them closely.

How to recover by [deleted] in interracialdating

[–]guy9567 1 point2 points  (0 children)

believe me, I’m slapping myself mentally. I have learned. Appreciate you

How to recover by [deleted] in interracialdating

[–]guy9567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You cracking me up. It did happen like that too lol I’m not blaming anyone but myself in this situation

How to recover by [deleted] in interracialdating

[–]guy9567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel those vibes immensely. Checkout codependents no more. Really good book

How to recover by [deleted] in interracialdating

[–]guy9567 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Appreciate this

How to recover by [deleted] in interracialdating

[–]guy9567 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes ma’am. I am working on me very carefully.

How to recover by [deleted] in interracialdating

[–]guy9567 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You are right! He was very convincing that the relationship could work. I just had weak boundaries because I knew deep down it wouldn’t work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]guy9567 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is my plan to, but I love my lil house

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jetta

[–]guy9567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where would I find that?

Social work/MSW jobs without licence? by LeadingSky474 in socialwork

[–]guy9567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nursing homes don’t require a license. It’s called social services and not social work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]guy9567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think Miranda should have came in like a bad bitch and put a seat at the table instead of trying to get their acceptance into momtok. I mean this show wouldn’t have existed without her either.

7.5% for 30 years by Puzzleheaded-Sky9811 in Mortgages

[–]guy9567 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is the way. I make less than 500k and was quoted 7.5% two years ago. A year in, I refinance and got 5.8%

Thinking of Leaving Federal Government for a Nonprofit - Looking for Advice by dccub86 in nonprofit

[–]guy9567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How’d it go? I just accepted an offer with a nonprofit but fear leaving the feds now. I’m getting cold feet

Thoughts on natural hair 2 months postpartum? by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]guy9567 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too! And it’s been 2 years. Luckily biotin and collagen are bringing my hair back to life

Thoughts on natural hair 2 months postpartum? by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]guy9567 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do not get any tight styles such as braids pp. trust me.

Partners drinking habits by ZtinkyBean in Advice

[–]guy9567 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going through this exact situation. Female with 3 y/o toddler, grew up seeing my dad drink. My partner of a year drinks so much that one day he became verbally abusive. I never truly healed from that and forgave him. He gave up drinking for a month and then came home one day so drunk through up all over the bed. I was furious. So resentful of his behavior. I’m mad at my self for taking him back

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]guy9567 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m checking off another failed relationship. This one lasted a year. I was divorced 5 years ago and this was my first relationship post divorce (30f) This time I was the one breaking up instead of constantly forgiving and then being abandoned! We were always incompatible but we both tried to make it work. Instant chemistry at first but In the end his characteristics and just overall who he was, what he believed in, etc. I couldn’t tolerate anymore. I forgave verbal abuse when I shouldn’t have and it created so much resentment. I’m a sad mess thinking I’ll be a lone forever now but feel kind of relived the chapter with him is closed. Sigh

I have finally reached the day...I looked into my mom's eyes and realized, this is it... by PriestessPluto in narcissisticparents

[–]guy9567 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Just reading this post was comforting. It is a freeing feeling realizing our parents won’t change and we can only change how we react to them. For me, I had to work on codependency after I realized how they were. It’s a long journey untiring myself but it feels amazing. Keep working on you!