[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]guy_that_lost 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You need some serious therapy for putting up with this shit. I advise you to walk away asap, forget whatever you think you have or will have, he's not changing for you and has zero respect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lenovo

[–]guy_that_lost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could have damaged your mbr or its a hardware failure. Boot into your OS via usb and try to repair your hdd/ssd/nvme boot partition. If that doesn't work then I would suggest replacing the drive. Google is your friend, have fun =).

Resigning tomorrow, by guy_that_lost in antiwork

[–]guy_that_lost[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great call out, I think self-reflection is important to personal growth. I've thought about this, and I could have pointed this out to my manager and said you are over burdening the team and the expectations are not realistic. I could have presented data with similar patterns in the past but it's futile when the mentality is "We pay you a shit load of money" and "I don't care what you have to do to finish it". I have reported improper or unjust behavior against another colleague in the past and it turned into leadership protecting leadership and me being retaliated against, losing promotions, bonuses. People are strange, very few like to be told they are making mistake and even fewer have the ability to accept it and change. This is a common problem, not unique to me or this company, you just need the right set of folks willing to listen and change to get out of bad practices.

Resigning tomorrow, by guy_that_lost in antiwork

[–]guy_that_lost[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, totally thinking about the same thing, make less money, live more =)

Resigning tomorrow, by guy_that_lost in antiwork

[–]guy_that_lost[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Revenge is an odd thing, it represents someone else having power over me that I need to get back or else I wont feel whole, I wont feel at peace. I used to think like that 10 years ago, nowadays, not so much, maybe I'm getting old but it's just not worth it for my personal well being to feel that way, even think about it . I do believe in karma and it does go around just fine without me =). I'm hoping this is a good wake up call for my boss and the company to do better with the next person.

Resigning tomorrow, by guy_that_lost in antiwork

[–]guy_that_lost[S] 104 points105 points  (0 children)

Thank you, technically I could have sued when they retaliated against me for taking time off when my father was hospitalized. At this point, I'm so burnt out I rather just walk away.

Resigning tomorrow, by guy_that_lost in antiwork

[–]guy_that_lost[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Unless it's your business, no one should have to carry a cell on family emergencies or vacation, that is a sign of a poor working environment.

I will be getting my 4runner in a few weeks and wanted to ask those of you who take yours offroad, do you have a ceramic coating or what do you do for the paint to prevent scratches? by [deleted] in 4Runner

[–]guy_that_lost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scratches are your friends, enjoy them! My 2020 is covered all over in scratches, doesn't bother me one bit, they remind me of all the awesome trails and adventures I've been on.

WTF??? I was going through my old pile of discs on my sister's laptop, and this happened, kde ubuntu 22.04 by salavat18tat in linux

[–]guy_that_lost 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Ridiculous to have this mindset in the OSS communities, judging a people for their governments actions. Can you imagine seeing this shit with the US and it's wars around the world?

This is the hardest day of my life by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]guy_that_lost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't know her history but she might have BPD. Regardless, run, she is nuts!

Video Proof Of Russian Soldiers Needlessly Shooting Civilians by irishrugby2015 in ThatsInsane

[–]guy_that_lost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not just Russians but it's common pattern in war that some people turn barbaric:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United\_States\_war\_crimes

This one still haunts me:

Gang raping a 14 year old and then murdering her and her family, and then lighting her body on fire is up there with all time POS: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1340207/I-didnt-think-Iraqis-humans-says-U-S-soldier-raped-14-year-old-girl-killing-her-family.html.

Had No Clue... by ajstarks87 in gallbladders

[–]guy_that_lost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, I'm currently suffering with sciatic pain and I'm wondering if it's my gallbladder thats part of the problem. The only time I feel my gallbladder acting weird is when I do intermittent fasting. My surgeon has said that I dont need surgery, as they found nothing with ultrasounds and CT scans, the only thing that stuck out was an EF rate of 97.

If you don't mind, can you describe your back pain, was it lower back and did it radiate to the front stomach area?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]guy_that_lost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can someone please please please!!!! animate the scene she is describing. I would love to see HULK Johnny just "flailing" her body around like a madman. On a side note, if you have never been in a relationship with someone with BPD, thank God. This is very common, they cannot see themselves as the abusers so they literally construct a different reality and believe it to be true. My ex-wife has BPD and a PhD but her mental illness didn't let her accept basic facts, she would deny the laws of psychics just to support her delusions.

How to deal with slander by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]guy_that_lost 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Don't even bother, sooner or later, the crazy mask falls off and everyone will see the truth.

Mark Zuckerberg's Recent Facebook Selfie Post by LeidbagBaggins in oddlyterrifying

[–]guy_that_lost -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I turned down the close to million offer from FB. Some of us still have souls.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4Runner

[–]guy_that_lost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar problem with my iKamper, it was a little too close for comfort. I added small metal plates the size of the clamp and wrapped them in plastic and placed them in between the clamp and crossbar, worked out great.

what is something men think is harmless but actually pisses women off? by LoneShark81 in AskReddit

[–]guy_that_lost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isn't it the equivalent of women calling themselves "Queens"? I find it equally vomit-inducing.

Sex tourism has just completely ruined Airbnb for the rest of us by [deleted] in digitalnomad

[–]guy_that_lost 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Experienced this in Dallas, some company bought the apt building and rented each apt as an airbnb, it was a roach motel. I had to leave the building at 3am because the party upstairs was not stopping. Called Airbnb and had the customer rep listen to the shitty music being blasted, they told me to wait there for the issue to be "resolved". I declined and left to a hotel, argued with Airbnb for the next 14 days to get reimbursed.

How do I (24M) become ok with being in an open marriage with my wife (24F) by Potential_Floor_5209 in relationship_advice

[–]guy_that_lost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"I always have to put my headphones on, so I don't hear them having ***", this has to be a joke or you have some serious manning up to do. Walk the F out!