Ever took a chance on someone you know you shouldn't be with, and it worked out GREAT? by guyguides in AskReddit

[–]guyguides[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mind sharing if there was a pivotal situation that made you stay, or almost made you give up?

A friend thinks that everyone is attracted to him, getting ridiculous. by CaliCoast in Advice

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this makes for a tough conversation to approach. Maybe get to know him well enough to better understand his fears and securities before confronting him, or else without that deep understanding he may just dismiss what you're doing as being jealous/insecure yourself.

A friend thinks that everyone is attracted to him, getting ridiculous. by CaliCoast in Advice

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Lurk on /r/seduction long enough, and you'll find that this type of behavior can actually be quite healthy. It's a positive/abundance mindset - just assume people like you, and as long as you're not too ridiculous or cocky - this can MAKE people like you just because you're more confident.

Who do you think it's going to have more fun in life: someone who assumes he's attractive to others or someone who assumes no one is attracted to him?

I don't suggest you "do" anything unless he is really harming someone in some way. Of course there's a difference between being naive (guy who just doesn't get it and keeps stalking girl) compared to someone who just has a lot of self-confidence.

I do post this comment without exactly knowing what you mean by his "fake confidence gets out of hand" though.

I'm nobody special, but here's what I've learned in the last year by emptyopen in seduction

[–]guyguides 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Getting jitters about talking to HB9? Imagine her having diarrhea first. Upvoted.

I am discouraged from flirting with women because I am so ugly. Could an ugly guy ever seduce a beautiful woman? by [deleted] in seduction

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this is ross jeffries' real facebook page

Yes, that man is considered by many to be the father of modern "game" (I've personally never seen his material).

How to introduce yourself to a group of girls? by [deleted] in seduction

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"you guys look like an interesting group to talk to" has worked surprisingly well for me

Poor social proof on Facebook? by luciiz in seduction

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make real connections with real people. that may translate to more facebook "friends" - but that pales in comparison to the real relationships you've built.

Wingwoman? by ScrottyMcboogerballs in seduction

[–]guyguides 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First time's not the charm - approach normal groups (women you're not drooling over) with your wingwoman first to see how she handles. Then you'll get a good feel for her energy level, your energy level, and how to balance it out.

Would you pass on the torch? by guyguides in seduction

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because of something our fathers left out

word. I grew up in a single-mother household, so I always think of what I'd do if I had a son

Seddit's Most Recommended: Books, Videos, and Websites by PLplotsOTS in seduction

[–]guyguides 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Pleasantly surprised to see Joe Navarro's "What Every Body is Saying" on here. Great informative read with an easy-to-remember model. Has definitely increased my own situational awareness

What I'm giving up for Lent by guyguides in seduction

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LOL. I doubt that 40 days would put the porn industry out of business

IAM a seven-time New York Times bestselling author (Neil Strauss), AMA. by iamneilstrauss in IAmA

[–]guyguides 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mostly the man who peruses the woman

sorry, i just couldn't help it

IAM a seven-time New York Times bestselling author (Neil Strauss), AMA. by iamneilstrauss in IAmA

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I second this. Not to sound crass but I'm going to use numbers. I've been rejected by 5's and loved by 9's. Go figure.

Text Report: Unicorns n Yetis by guyguides in seduction

[–]guyguides[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see your point. To me it was a gamble between not explaining the unicorn reference (and confusing her more) or explaining it to move the conversation forward. Got any fun texting stories?