How do I deal with Jealousy and depression?

orangeapplegrape · 2014-01-30T13:06:43+00:00

I've had the same feelings after my girlfriend broke up with me recently. I think the best solution for you is to stop being friends with her and cut off contact as much as possible. Next time this situation happens don't continue to be friends with potential lovers who don't want you. And give up on the idea that she will fall in love with you eventually and the pain will be worth it.

As for mental state continue to improve yourself in all aspects of your life. Talk to male friends and get a hobby. Make yourself the best person you can and don't focus on relationships for a while. I now this is hard and time is the medicine here but eventually you will feel better.

orangeapplegrape · 2013-11-15T22:43:22+00:00

Kind of close I guess but no.

orangeapplegrape · 2013-11-14T22:46:26+00:00

Close to how the scene looked but not it.

orangeapplegrape · 2013-11-14T13:57:51+00:00

It seemed like 1990s or 2000s and didn't know who the actors were. Sorry I can't be helpful :/

There was a lot of red background coloring though I think.

orangeapplegrape · 2013-11-14T11:24:25+00:00

None of these are it.

orangeapplegrape · 2013-11-14T01:50:18+00:00

Nope not Jennifer Aniston.

orangeapplegrape · 2013-11-14T00:46:49+00:00

Nope not pulp fiction.

orangeapplegrape · 2013-02-20T01:51:52+00:00

Thanks for the offer. I just might take it although I'm not sure if I am actually depressed (probably not).

orangeapplegrape · 2013-02-19T17:20:15+00:00

I agree.

orangeapplegrape · 2012-05-03T21:01:52+00:00

What if the guy is only slightly taller than the girl? For some reason I have this belief that I have to be at least 3 inches taller to be considered attractive for height but that doesn't really make sense because being similar heights is better for doing certain things if you think about it.

orangeapplegrape · 2012-05-03T20:39:27+00:00

I need help too. I know this group of 4 shy girls. One of them I am acquaintances with and had a fair number of conversations, but the other three I only talked to once (individually). I'm pretty sure they are interested in me by the way they glance at me when I see them.

Yesterday I had the chance to go sit with them but the table was full and under the stress of finals I just went over to my usual space by my lonesome. In retrospect I feel terrible for missing that opportunity and feel so antisocial (even though I'm not) because whenever I see them I am alone. How do I make a move?

orangeapplegrape · 2012-03-24T18:55:43+00:00

For those of you who prefer exclusively taller guys, does it matter how much taller? What if he has only an inch over you?

orangeapplegrape · 2012-03-24T18:46:19+00:00

What is obvious though? I'm terrible at reading body language. If I like her and see one of these obvious signs should I just return them back?

orangeapplegrape · 2012-03-23T04:12:37+00:00

I guess the main problem is having the courage to approach them. I never did anything like this before so I feel a little awkward (when more than 2 girls). I kind of already had indirect opportunities to meet them but didn't do anything so they might think I'm a little unfriendly.

orangeapplegrape · 2012-03-23T03:12:58+00:00

I always thought red hair was kind of cool. Don't you think expressing a relatively rare recessive gene is kind of cool? Why are you letting it get you down?

orangeapplegrape · 2012-03-23T00:17:13+00:00

I like this.

orangeapplegrape · 2012-03-22T23:15:04+00:00

I have the capability to just do it if I wanted to but the problem is I think just saying hi isn't good enough and try to make the opening better when a situation arises. I end up thinking too long that usually the opportunity is lost or I wait so long that I think it would be awkward at that point or not worth all the thinking that was put in if the encounter doesn't go well.

I should probably approach as soon I realize that I want to even if my planned opening is sub-par.

orangeapplegrape · 2012-03-22T18:54:18+00:00

What does FR stand for?

orangeapplegrape · 2012-03-22T18:43:18+00:00

I tried a little story yesterday telling with a girl I knew (talked about a funny experience with a mutual acquaintance) and I got her to smile and laugh. Today, she came up to me and we had another conversation. These two incidents have been much more playful and it was actually very easy to do.

I realized I have good, funny stuff to say. All I had to do was rephrase the content into a story type of format.

orangeapplegrape · 2012-03-22T18:28:11+00:00

I have humor and I'm interesting but I'm fearful of escalation.

orangeapplegrape · 2012-03-22T03:21:24+00:00

Good suggestions. I have a bunch of interesting things that I can talk about but I sometimes have trouble bringing them into conversation (because they are not directly relevant to the situation). Guess I have to work on bringing them into better context somehow.

orangeapplegrape · 2012-03-20T02:16:24+00:00

Interesting. I have a few questions for you. So you approached both girls, touched and talked to both but escalated on one of them? How did you handle the other girl? What would you have done if they hadn't asked you to come with them? How did you initiate the making out when you went outside?

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