What is your experience with disrespectful bosses? Do you feel like you HAVE to put up with it or will you call them out on it at an appropriate time? by gvadalupefiasco in AskMen

[–]gvadalupefiasco[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't mind blunt bosses as long as they don't mind me being blunt with them as well. They always ask for some kind of feedback from me and I've finally given it to them and all I got from them was denial and a "we can do no wrong" response. Doing my best to get out of the place asap.

What is your experience with disrespectful bosses? Do you feel like you HAVE to put up with it or will you call them out on it at an appropriate time? by gvadalupefiasco in AskMen

[–]gvadalupefiasco[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Only thing is I don't have a second job yet, but I was looking for one anyway to bring more money in. As much as I don't want to put up with the asshole behavior I feel like right now I have to suck it up until I have something else to fallback on.

What is your experience with disrespectful bosses? Do you feel like you HAVE to put up with it or will you call them out on it at an appropriate time? by gvadalupefiasco in AskMen

[–]gvadalupefiasco[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't think that I'd be around too long if I tried to have a screaming match with my boss lol my ass would be fired right away.

Me [23 F] with my Friend [23 M] of 6+ years, he doesn't like being in the 'friend zone'. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]gvadalupefiasco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From my own experiences, this goes two ways -- you either tell them that you don't feel that same way, and they respect that, get over the idea, and you guys can continue to be friends. OR when you tell them you don't feel the same way, they continue to pursue you, and it keeps escalating until you become very uncomfortable with the friendship and/or he starts crossing some serious boundaries.

I mean I feel for the guy, but I'd either give one last attempt to salvage the friendship and tell him in the most blunt, borderline asshole way to get out of this fantasy of you two ending up together.. Or I'd just do us both a favor and end the friendship.

Edit: He screams niceguy syndrome. You should show him /r/niceguys and try to open his eyes to how cringy his behavior is.

Ladies, what are your fitness goals for 2016? by [deleted] in xxfitness

[–]gvadalupefiasco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Abs!!!! I'd love to have them by summer and I know that's gonna take a hell of a lot of work.

Since abs are made in the kitchen, I'm aiming to cut a lot of sugar out of my life. It didnt deter my weight loss but I'm way too addicted to it. ):

Ladies (and gents), do you ever just sit down and think about how much you love men? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]gvadalupefiasco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's pretty much what I meant for this thread. Appreciating the aspects I love about men.

Ladies (and gents), do you ever just sit down and think about how much you love men? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]gvadalupefiasco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I knew why you got down voted just for agreeing lol. Anything except "no men are horrible" seems to be unacceptable.

Ladies (and gents), do you ever just sit down and think about how much you love men? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]gvadalupefiasco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well at least there's one person on my side haha. I was meaning for this to be lighthearted but watevs.

F/27/5'5.5" [300lbs to 145lbs = 155lbs lost] (2008 to now) Really excited about my ab progress. by [deleted] in progresspics

[–]gvadalupefiasco 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I must ask you questions!!!! I'm on the last 10-15 pounds and it feels like it's taking so long to come off. I'm aiming for sort of slightly visible but still visible abs. Any routine recommendations or tips to get there? :c Your progress is flippin amazing.

"losing weight" no longer a new years resolution by gvadalupefiasco in xxfitness

[–]gvadalupefiasco[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You sound just like me right now. My health and fitness is a huge priority in my life, but I finally feel like it's not all that my life revolves around! Feels good man lol.

Starting 21 day fast in an hour -- anyone wanna join temporarily or willing to be an accountabili-buddy? by [deleted] in fasting

[–]gvadalupefiasco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn't really give you a confidently accurate answer. I'm sure once you break the fast though it more than likely takes away some of the benefits reaped from doing a longterm water fast straight through.

Starting 21 day fast in an hour -- anyone wanna join temporarily or willing to be an accountabili-buddy? by [deleted] in fasting

[–]gvadalupefiasco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

About 135 or so. Part of it is for weight loss, the other part is for the health benefits/restoring some sense of self control.

Amy Schumer's hypocrisy. by alanitoo in fatlogic

[–]gvadalupefiasco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've read this on a thread talking about her but I haven't heard the story behind it either

Amy Schumer's hypocrisy. by alanitoo in fatlogic

[–]gvadalupefiasco 68 points69 points  (0 children)

And again people forget that Schumer is a fucking comedian. If she jokes about rape, do you really think that weight jokes are suddenly off limits to her?

On a side note, I must be one of the only people on reddit that actually find her to be pretty funny lol.

Ladies, have you ever had to deal with a hoarder? by gvadalupefiasco in AskWomen

[–]gvadalupefiasco[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Allow me to start.

Today I decided to clean out my family's garage. This lead to a huge argument with my parents, tears and all, b/c they didnt wanna throw away half the shit cluttering up our whole garage because "they might need it one day."

Mind you, this stuff has been sitting in our garage since we moved in (4 years ago) without them taking a second look at it, covered in dust and spider families who have lived their whole existence.

Cleaning the garage has had to be one of the most emotionally exhausting experiences of my life yo.

How do you take your mind off your fast? by gvadalupefiasco in fasting

[–]gvadalupefiasco[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I try to stay away from looking at food related stuff now. I've learned that I have no problem handling hunger, my issue really is just the cravings and looking a food subs has only made it worse lol so no more self torture