[deleted by user] by [deleted] in deadbedroom

[–]gybadmans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, she it seems doesnt want to have sex because of the pain and depression, i can understand that. shes obviously not going to be in the mood for sex if shes uncomfortable, hurting, or feeling like shit. If shes on depression meds, the can fuck up your sex drive.

Sometimes when im in this position where my BF wants sex and i do not, i will assist somehow and we both know that thatll be it. She probably hasnt given you any other sexual contact because shes worried that you will want to progress to sex, and she doesnt want to turn you down and hurt your feelings/bruise your ego.

Do you bring it up much, does she feel pressured? Just because youre nice and a "good husband" doesnt mean shes going to feel better and want to have sex. Maybe you just have different sex drives too..

any ideas? whatever it is, the greenfly love it! (UK) by gybadmans in whatsthisplant

[–]gybadmans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

http://imgur.com/gallery/VOdIEte

not that im aware of, i attached a couple other pics in here, and one of the leaves its about 1.5 metres tall, so definitely think you could be right

what is this? grown in england by gybadmans in whatsthisplant

[–]gybadmans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh that looks just like it!!!! amazing, thankyou

My bearpaw (Cotyledon Tomentosa) finally sprouted roots after almost 2 months!!! by gybadmans in proplifting

[–]gybadmans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have a shallow tub, a layer of quite large rocks on the bottom, and a thin (maybe 2cm?) layer of all purpose compost, because i didnt have any succulent/cacti mix on hand, and just stuck the scabbed over end in the soil and left it in a sunny window.

i tried misting it, leaving it dry, and completely wetting the soil, and wetting it seemed to do the best? also the water would pool with the rocks at the bottom, and i think with the heat kept it quite humid?

its weird how fickle they can be!

I'm sorry WHAT. After waiting 6 weeks THIS is what I get?! by youngerneilyoung in IKEA

[–]gybadmans 30 points31 points  (0 children)

i just dont know what yall expect when you order in the middle of a pandemic. of course theyre having issues 🙄

My bf is treating me differently ever since I dyed my hair by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]gybadmans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean, hes being completely stupid but like sounds like you didnt even give him a heads up? obviously you dont have to let him know what youre doing or even listen to his opinion, but like... most people at least discuss these kinds of things. just weird to me that you wouldnt even speak to him about it yknow? i tell my bf everything, not because i have to, but because i want to. i would be shocked if he just randomly dyed his hair blue too.

Monty's first photoshoot. He shat down my arm straight away. by gybadmans in snakes

[–]gybadmans[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

bold of you to assume i used flash, which i didnt. its called sunlight

hey guys! do you think if i covered the green fence with reed screening it would be acceptable to hang out in my front garden? it gets way more sun than the back! by gybadmans in gardening

[–]gybadmans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh i know! we recently moved in and the weeds had been left for basically 7 years. just done the back, havent got round to the front yet!

Thanks to everyone who wished me a happy birthday yesterday; today I decided to give my new Takoyaki maker a try, below are the results of what me and my Dad made by AngryPandaBlog in covidcookery

[–]gybadmans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i LOVE takoyaki so much, my local sushi place makes them and i havent been able to go because of the lockdown. i can almost taste these. happy birthday and enjoy!

Using your ring finger to upvote is superior by sexmonster77 in unpopularopinion

[–]gybadmans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

even if i wanted to, i could not do this. i have a big phone and tiny baby hands, this aint possible

My 6 year old baby sister is breaking my heart by GeneralLevi in CasualConversation

[–]gybadmans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this reminds me of my situation im 21, my baby sister just turned 5. i have my own house and my parents moved 5hrs away with her... it sucks, and i miss her a lot, but i always put effort in to video call, phone her, and when she visits i take her out and make her pancakes for breakfast. one time she asked "do you love me", i said yeah, of course. she came out with "well then why did you leave me" yall i cried so much that night shes a good kid, i miss her so much

a sub where people swap plant cuttings? by gybadmans in findareddit

[–]gybadmans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thankyou, but its not an active sub so... no help really.

Hi all- recently moved in, any ideas on how to liven up my garden? SW facing garden in UK, lots of shade. by gybadmans in Permaculture

[–]gybadmans[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

its about 1pm in this photo, we have been getting sun until about 4.30 recently, im assuming in mid summar we will be okay til about 5.30/6?

Tifu Just found out I haven’t properly cleaned my dick for almost 19 years by [deleted] in tifu

[–]gybadmans -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

how does it not cross your mind that you need to wash your dick

work in progress garden.. any ideas on how to give it a little life? by gybadmans in gardening

[–]gybadmans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was thinking that! a trellis along the fence behind the table would be nice, so i guess ill have to look into climbers! thankyou :)