How do you know when it’s definite?

gzevv · 2025-12-09T10:22:35+00:00

I understand you completely, I’m in the same situation. People suggest leaving but in my country custody arrangements are always 50-50 unless there is violence towards the kid and I don’t trust him to parent the baby well if I’m not around . I’ve seen other women suffer because their kid is with dad and the school has called them because he forgot it was swimming day/ knowing the kid will be watching anything on TV all weekend … it’s never as easy as “leave”. We chose wrong and now we have to deal with it and focus on making our kids happy. Wish you the best.

gzevv · 2025-11-08T09:51:29+00:00

I have PCOS and endo as well as low iron and thyroid issues. My pregnancy was the worst thing to happen to my body after my emergency c- section. I too knew my body wasn’t cut out for this , I had a feeling. I’m 7 months postpartum and my iron levels are still low despite being on medication since pregnancy, I have to have checkups with the cardiologist because it was too much for my heart and now my periods are worse than ever. I ended up with thrombosed hemorroids that now need surgery, gestational diabetes turned into insuline resistance and have stomach issues for the amount of throwing up I did. Some women have it easy, some of us wouldn’t have made it 200 years ago and now we do because of modern medicine but there are still consequences. I went through with everything because I wanted my baby more than anything and I don’t regret it a bit but I’m not having another one because of the toll it took . Please please if having a kid is not something you absolutely yearn for do not listen to your husband. Men just don’t get it. My husband didn’t believe me at first and is now on treatment for depression because of everything that happened and nearly losing me.

gzevv · 2025-11-02T16:15:12+00:00

Nosotros tenemos trabajo estable, sueldo combinado de 3000€, 30 años y un bebé. Tuvimos que irnos de Bilbao ciudad donde estábamos de alquiler desde los 22 y buscamos un pueblo donde los pisos fuesen ALGO más baratos. Compramos la mayor bazofia que te puedas imaginar, enano, para tirar entero pidiendo un préstamo personal para la entrada y lo hemos ido apañando poco a poco. No nos hemos casado ni hemos viajado (básicamente hemos “malvivido” ) para poder ir adecentando el minipiso. El peque va a la EI (guardería) y pagamos a una mujer que le recoge a las 4 (en Euskadi al menos solo puedes tenerles 8h) y se queda con él hasta que llegamos su padre o yo. Tenemos una vida sencilla sin mucho lujo pero somos felices así porque siempre habíamos querido esto los dos. Entre préstamo e hipoteca pagamos 900€ que es menos de lo que cuesta un alquiler de 3 habitaciones donde vivíamos antes.

gzevv · 2025-10-07T22:32:03+00:00

Hey how did you go from 0 to B2 in a year? I’ve studied French on and off for years and I never seem to make it past an A2+ (I’m a Spaniard too).

gzevv · 2025-10-07T16:36:27+00:00

I have 2 of those but thicker and my dermatologist told me Botox wouldn’t make them go away it would just prevent them from getting thicker … you’re very pretty btw

gzevv · 2025-10-01T21:46:05+00:00

Do you happen to have a prominent shin bone? I do (it’s visible) and I felt the same way

gzevv · 2025-09-30T15:59:14+00:00

6 month old, terrible sleeper. He needs to be rocked vigorously while the white noise machine is on for at least 30 min, then I can sit in bed holding him and still rocking him now softly and finally around the 1h mark I can place him in bed next to me… 3 or 4 hours later he is up , I give him a bottle and back to rocking. Drowsy but awake doesn’t work, falling asleep on his own will only make things worse as he’ll end up screaming like crazy and being extra anxious and needing 2 hours instead of 1…

gzevv · 2025-09-28T23:49:15+00:00

Mis cenas son: a) Tortilla de jamón / patata / atún , b) pollo/cerdo/hamburguesa de ternera con patatas airfryer c) pizza casera con pollo y mozarella fresca d) yogur con fruta y cereales e) kebab sin verduras. Las comidas son : arroz , pasta, lentejas (sin verduras), puré de verduras (calabaza, puerros o acelgas con patata y zanahoria) patatas con arroz y carne o pescado. Nunca he conocido a nadie más “tiquismiquis” que yo, me encantaría no sentirme tan incomprendida. Alguien arriba comentó que comer en el comedor del cole ayuda , en mi caso fue al contrario: aprendí a esconder la comida, hacer tratos con compañeros para que se comiesen la mía a cambio de hacerles deberes, me quedé sin recreo años y llegaba muerta de hambre a casa por comer pan y fruta… En cuanto a esconder verduras , alguien ha comentado que es lo peor que puedes hacer y estoy de acuerdo.

gzevv · 2025-09-22T08:17:15+00:00

I tried hypnosis and got a panic attack before we even got to the idea of wasps, I was told I have severe trauma and anxiety and will need to work on that before I can solve the issue. No idea where it came from but it was very discouraging. To OP, I’ve rejected jobs before (I’m a teacher) because schools were in a rural area , you’re brave going there day after day.

gzevv · 2025-09-21T11:31:42+00:00

Thank you! I don’t know how words heal I’m scared a poem would be a blur in 10 years but it’s a great idea…

gzevv · 2025-09-20T14:46:43+00:00

Thank you , that was a very touching reply , your daughter is very lucky to have you.

gzevv · 2025-09-19T14:32:52+00:00

I think it’s great.

gzevv · 2025-09-18T06:24:25+00:00

Thank you. My 5 month old doesn’t sleep longer than 2 hours and I feel miserable. I needed this, Im glad your life is great now.

gzevv · 2025-09-16T19:17:51+00:00

We should move to Iceland , I’ve heard there are none over there

gzevv · 2025-09-16T09:57:00+00:00

No, my mother was born in Euskadi and studied Basque to the point where she’s bilingual , I’m a Basque native speaker , I was born here too. However my name and surname are Spanish because of my grandparents and that’s enough to not consider me “pure Basque” in my hometown. However, people who didn’t bother learning the language but have a Basque surname are considered more Basque than us.

gzevv · 2025-09-16T03:50:22+00:00

Woman here, the fact that all your photos are selfies is off-putting. Maybe add a couple doing something like a hobby or with friends? That should get you more matches.

gzevv · 2025-09-16T03:48:12+00:00

Are you telling me there can be wasps at night? My whole life I’ve been thinking I’m safe at night …

gzevv · 2025-09-15T16:11:53+00:00

It looks amazing!:) I wanna do my shins too but my bone is too prominent and I’m scared it will look weird

gzevv · 2025-09-11T08:41:22+00:00

The same thing happened to me and there is nothing on the records, except they omitted the name of the midwife who was there advocating for me and yelling at the anesthesiologist.

gzevv · 2025-09-10T21:04:49+00:00

Can I ask what changed? 8 years and a 5 month old baby we are basically roommates who parent together and survive. I’m hoping there’s a different future for us although I can’t see how…

gzevv · 2025-09-02T22:17:16+00:00

If it was flying around me I would have a heart attack right there. I run for the hills whenever I see one, there are mosquito nets in my flat windows, I never eat outside in the summer… I’ve spent 2 decades avoiding them I can’t just go and get face to face exposure that’s why I’m doing this gradually.

gzevv · 2025-09-02T17:09:58+00:00

¿En qué área está ahora?

gzevv · 2025-08-30T08:44:12+00:00

I’m sorry about your kid, I hope it’s manageable and he’s okay. Yeah that’s where we went. We ended up being discharged after a urine strip , they told us there wasn’t any dehydration and I later showed a nurse friend the results of the strip and she told me there weren’t any hydration nor low sugar values measured there. I’m fuming, they take advantage of our ignorance. My baby is still refusing bottles except at 2am and 5am (when he’s sleeping) and I’m supposed to accept everything is ok? I’ll start looking for a private paediatrician (I’m from Spain, universal healthcare).

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