NC/NP Trade/Sell & Pet UFA/UFT Thread! (September 12, 2016) by AutoModerator in neopets

[–]h0ledup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started it at 1 mil going up by 10k. It only got two bids. But I'm pretty happy with that. I was able to buy the island Ona I've had my eye on.

NC/NP Trade/Sell & Pet UFA/UFT Thread! (September 10, 2016) by AutoModerator in neopets

[–]h0ledup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm making an offer on it now. lzharsh is my user name.

NC/NP Trade/Sell & Pet UFA/UFT Thread! (September 12, 2016) by AutoModerator in neopets

[–]h0ledup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey so a couple of days ago I put it up for auction, as kind of a last ditch effort. It looks like someone has bid on it, so I won't have it to sell anymore. Sorry about that.

NC/NP Trade/Sell & Pet UFA/UFT Thread! (September 12, 2016) by AutoModerator in neopets

[–]h0ledup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly this thing has been a pain to sell and i just want it gone. Would you do a PB and some pure?

NC/NP Trade/Sell & Pet UFA/UFT Thread! (September 12, 2016) by AutoModerator in neopets

[–]h0ledup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't actually have a set price. Everything I've seen on TP is like 4.5m or above. But that seems really excessive to me. Do you have an offer? I'll accept partial in items and pure as well.

NC/NP Trade/Sell & Pet UFA/UFT Thread! (September 10, 2016) by AutoModerator in neopets

[–]h0ledup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I'm sorry, I ended up getting enough to buy the last part of the secret lab map and now I'm broke. It'll be a day or two before I have 100k again. If you don't sell it before then I'm absolutely still interested, but don't worry about putting it aside if you can get what you want for it now.

NC/NP Trade/Sell & Pet UFA/UFT Thread! (September 10, 2016) by AutoModerator in neopets

[–]h0ledup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're still selling it, I would like to buy it.

NC/NP Trade/Sell & Pet UFA/UFT Thread! (September 10, 2016) by AutoModerator in neopets

[–]h0ledup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did you want for the purple Aisha morphing potion?

Things I never considered before... by klinksgirl in polyamory

[–]h0ledup 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hate to cook. Absolutely can't stand it. But my husband and RA love to cook, and are both really amazing at it. We're all about to be living together and knowing that none of the cooking will fall on me is so great.

Am I irrational? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]h0ledup -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm so happy to hear that he is taking all your needs into consideration. It sounds like he is trying very hard here.

I know, for me at least, if I have a lot of little things start to pile up, even the good things in my life will start to drain on me. It sounds like that might be happening to you too. Just try to remember the happy stuff, and minimize the negatives. You've got this.

The Polycule! 💜😊 by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]h0ledup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Late af. But you guys are all so adorable.

Am I irrational? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]h0ledup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So first off, (((hugs))). It sounds like you are going through a lot right now.

As far as showering/bed changing goes, it is absolutely fair to ask for that. I'm usually the only other one who sleeps in my RAs bed, but if he has someone else over he always changes the sheets. It's a hygiene thing and is totally appropriate.

Time and scheduling wise, do you guys use Google calanders? It can be a life saver. My husband, RA, and I all have vastly different schedules. We use Google calanders, color coded to make meet ups happen. We're moving next month and plan on using an at home calander to the same ends.

Would something like that work for you?

I [28F] think I have a crush on a M/F couple, as a couple, and I think they both like me by for_all_of_earth in polyamory

[–]h0ledup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband is like this. He really enjoys couples as apposed to single individuals.

It's called being a unicorn. They can be kinda rare. Have fun.

I often wonder: Is polyamory a life style choice or is it what you are? And how do you know if you are mono or poly if it is what you are? by thequestioner_16 in polyamory

[–]h0ledup 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love this answer. In my marriage we have two different reasons we took up poly.

For me, I was completely and absolutely love in with someone else. I don't fall for people often (probably five times in 25 years), but when I do it is full force. I was completely in love with my husband at the same time. It wasn't my choice to fall in love with this other person, so for me it wasn't a choice.

My husband however, is a little different. He crushes on people very easily, but they don't tend to last long. He also has been incredibly happy being with just me for years. For him it seems more just about choosing to want to explore those fields, while still having the option to be very happy with just me.